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Definitely can't ask for it! There is also a child that she will definitely not be able to raise, after all, she still wants to get married. It is inconvenient to bring a child.

You bring the child and find another girl for yourself. There are still women in society who are willing to follow you. Aren't you still young?

Find a partner to know more before considering marriage, don't be so anxious to make someone's belly bigger. So irresponsible!

How to say it. In fact, there is such a result, both of you are responsible, first of all, you don't have money, you can't make someone else's belly bigger, in fact, you know that she is pregnant and 8 months old, don't you know your own financial conditions? Haven't you guys discussed this before?

This means that the two of you are not responsible for this child at all, why did she leave you? Is she afraid that you won't be able to give her happiness, or does she need economic conditions to grow up?

But then again, she is too irresponsible to you like this, it is she who abandoned you, and it can also be said that she abandoned the biological father of the child in her belly, which is extremely irresponsible to the child. Such a woman will leave you even if she comes back one day if you run out of money, in the end, I suggest that it is better not to, but you still have to get it back, I don't think you should live with such a mother again, this is not good for the growth of the child.

This is just my suggestion, the decision is up to you.

Upstairs is quite good at researching, I think you should still be considerate of her, she can conceive your child without regrets, proving that she still loves you, but she has to worry about the child, and pregnant people will have prenatal and postnatal depression, I think this is also a manifestation of her depression, I advise you to find her as soon as possible.

The house is important to a woman, it is a symbol of home.

Now the house price is **. You can consider buying it.

It is estimated that your lover is going abroad, on a project, etc., and goes home on time for vacation. It's a similar situation to my lover.

First of all, I am sure that it is important for children to be with their mothers to nurture the mother-daughter relationship. Don't put your child in the elderly to raise, affect the parent-child relationship between the child and you, and affect the child's adaptation to a series of drawbacks of contemporary concepts.

Regarding the psychology of your lover, in fact, it must be his parents who complained to him, missed his granddaughter, and he just wanted to put the child to be raised by his grandmother. If it's grandma who is in the city with you with the children, your husband will definitely have no opinion.

Suggestion: Talk to your husband, the importance of children being with their parents, you can't grieve your children in order to save money, children can play in **, and the entertainment, medical and educational facilities in the city are many times better than those in the countryside, how many people want their children to live in the city from an early age. You can also take the kids to a special entertainment area on the weekend.

You can also let your grandmother and grandmother take turns in the city to help you take care of the children, so that your husband will be satisfied.

In fact, you are not wrong in what you are doing, no matter which way you look at it, it is not wrong to put your own children around you. It's also a great option for kids. After all, it is most reassuring for your children to be by your side.

As for your husband's affairs, I think he may be a little reluctant, but this kind of thing still has to be done. Talk to him a little afterwards and eliminate a little embarrassment.

If you want to live well, you must first relieve your husband's troubles. In order to solve the problem once and for all, it is necessary to first identify the root cause of the problem. You yourself know that the reason for the disagreement between your husband and wife is because of the poor relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Why can't you take the initiative to have a good relationship with your mother-in-law?

Even if you are not a mother-in-law, for your husband, for your children and yourself, you can have a harmonious, warm, complete and happy home. You should also be nice to your mother-in-law. Do you think, if there is a man with a little conscience, he will be happy to watch his daughter-in-law and his mother make trouble?

And what man doesn't want his daughter-in-law to be nice to his mother?

A wise woman, as soon as she gets married, first lives for her in-laws. For the parents, for the in-laws' family. Besides, since ancient times, filial piety has come first, and filial piety to parents is also a must for younger generations.

If you refuse to honor the old man, what can he do? Therefore, as a man with filial piety, he can only change his wife. You can't change your parents, right?

If you love your child, give him a complete and harmonious home, and give him a good environment in which he can grow up healthily. If you still have feelings for your husband and a little nostalgia for this family, you should no longer worry about finding faults. Be generous, tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others, give more, and ask for nothing in return.

With your own kindness, love, and sincerity, you will treat every in-law family member. Earn the affection, respect and affection of the whole family. Only then will your husband love you more and the whole family will be nice to you.

Your family will be more harmonious and happy!

I wish you a happy day and a harmonious and happy family!

This kind of man leaves early and is relieved early, and he doesn't look like a man at all!

But you and your children have to fight for their rights.