How do you get along with conceited men? What are the characteristics of a conceited man?

The attitude that a conceited and arrogant person shows every moment, no matter who he is, he shows that attitude, and after a long time, this attitude grows on his face. Even to you or to his friends, he will give others this feeling of conceit and arrogance, everything has nothing to do with appearance, but he usually uses this conceited and arrogant expression too much, resulting in himself being the spokesperson of this expression.

To get along with them, you must have a good temper and emotional intelligence. They generally don't care much about your feelings, only about their own mood or their own interests. If you have strong ability, the ability is far superior to him, then you should be stronger, conceited people are generally admired by people they believe in, and sometimes their conceit does not exist at all in the face of some people.

If it is not necessary, stay away from such people. Admittedly, super-conceited people are really annoying, and it's hard to get along with them. So in my opinion, if it is not necessary, try to stay away from such people, out of sight and out of mind.

If you really can't avoid it, you are classmates or colleagues and have to work together, I think I have a few suggestions that may be a reference for you.

Don't argue with him about the right and wrong of things. Because we all know that the biggest characteristic of conceited people is that they are super confident in themselves. Getting along with such a person and praising him will only make him more conceited, but if you refute him, the other party's extremely conceited personality will definitely argue with you to the end, so the best thing to do is not to comment on what he did and pretend not to see it.

But there are people who like to go above and beyond. When he meets conceited people. On the one hand, he looks down on the other, and on the other hand, he works hard.

Go beyond this conceited person and let him know that he doesn't have that capital. Such a person is also a person with lofty ideals and goals. I also think that such a person can hit the conceited person.

Conceited people are usually very afraid of failure, and one of our classmates was like that. Particularly good at studying, but very conceited. Let him collapse when he is hit.

Confidence has been lost ever since. In fact, conceited people also have weaknesses. The person who pays is not very good for his own life.

We should not be a conceited person, we must be humble and cautious, and we must know that there are people outside the sky, and we will never be the person with capital conceit.

There will always be a variety of people in life, each of us is an independent in this world, which determines that everyone has a unique character, some people are confident, some people are self-reliant, some people are narcissistic, and some people are conceited, in life we will always meet those who are very conceited, in the face of all kinds of things, how to get along with a conceited man, I think there are several ways to solve it.

The first method is the auto-ignore method. The environment is there and it is impossible to change, only you can change, don't try to change the environment you are in to change yourself, people who don't measure themselves will always suffer the consequences, in the face of that conceited man, you can choose to ignore him, compare your lives without intersection.

Even if there is a place where the lives of the two of you intersect, then you can nod and smile politely, don't try to make friends with such a person, if you come out with this decision, the result will not only hurt you physically and mentally, but also leave a shadow on your mental theory.

The second method is obedience. Conceited men are very macho people.

Yes, they are overconfident, so in the face of such a person, if you like not to provoke right and wrong, choose to obey such a man, follow this man's ideas to work or live, if you are a mild-tempered person, you can tolerate such a situation, you can give it a try.

The third method is the method of staying away. Conceited people are very scary, especially conceited men, they don't have the same maternal love as women, from childhood to adulthood men are a kind of rational and cold existence, whether it is love or family affection or friendship, they don't care too much about these feelings, there will occasionally be a ripple in their hearts, but the appearance is always very bland. In the face of such people, stay away.

I have a very egotistical male colleague, and every time I deal with him, I am both helpless and angry, and occasionally I find him ridiculous.

When he first came to apply for the job, I passed by the personnel department and heard him talk to the head of the personnel department, describing how strong his connections were, how prominent the work he had done before, and how rich his experience was.

The next day he came to work, in the same office as me, and when I saw him, I thought that there must be a good show in the future, after all, a person with a lot of inner drama like him is the first in the company.

After that, he would be late for at least half an hour every day, and I kindly reminded him not to be too public, which would easily cause disgust from the leader.

He didn't think so, and told me about his almost legendary life experience, saying that it didn't matter if he was late, the current boss didn't dare to fire him, and if he left, who would do it, with a fearless attitude. I'm speechless.

Once the boss came to the office and asked him: "I heard that when you came to apply for a job a few days ago, you said that you knew the boss of such and such a company?" Then you can help me build a bridge, I want to do something with him. ”

He was stunned for a long time and then said hesitantly: "Well, I used to know him, but now I can't contact him." The boss left with a black face, and the rest of the office began to laugh quietly, but nothing was said.

When a person is too conceited, there will always be a day when he will be exposed, and I don't know how embarrassed he is in his heart.

When colleagues in the office need to work on documents, he often looks by with a teacup, just like a leader inspecting. Then point to a certain place and say, "You can't do this in this place, you have to think differently" or "You have to do what I say, otherwise it will never work".

Some colleagues believed his suggestion and did what he said, but they were often scolded by the leader and then returned to do it again.

So even if he put on a confident and confident look again, no one believed him anymore, which made him extremely embarrassed.

It didn't take long for him to be dismissed, because of the lack of ability to be a master and a master, and I think that conceited people will always end up suffering from themselves, and we don't have to give them any advice, because they don't listen, as long as they live in peace on the surface.

Such men are self-righteous, and if they want to get along with him, sometimes it will be difficult, and if it were me, I would stay away and ignore him.

1. Short-sightedness:

Conceited men have often been successful in the past, or have indeed excelled in a certain aspect, or have achieved impressive results. As a result, they don't look at things in terms of development and change. They are blindly optimistic about the prospects, underestimate or even misestimate development, and despise and slack off their opponents.

2. Betrayal and separation:

Conceited men generally do not listen to the opinions of their clansmen, and hate those who oppose them. They like people who are sloppy and flattering to themselves, they can't take good medicine, they can't listen to advice, and they have the mentality that those who obey me will prosper and those who disobey me will die.

3. Blindly rushing:

A man who is too conceited is easy to overestimate his own strength and underestimate the strength of his opponent. There will be no overall arrangement, careful planning, and lack of contingency measures. Therefore, such a man will blindly rush forward when doing things, and the result can only be a big heel or even a failure.

4. Self-isolation

Men who are excessively conceited often make cognitive mistakes in the relationship between individuals and society, and are prone to self-adjustment, ignoring the influence and role of others, society, and the times on themselves, and having exclusivity and detaching themselves from society.

5. There is obvious jealousy:

This kind of person has a strong sense of self-esteem, and when others achieve some achievements, their jealousy arises spontaneously, and they try their best to attack others and exclude others. When others fail, gloat and do not provide any useful information to others. At the same time, when others are successful, this kind of person often uses the "sour grapes mentality" to maintain their own psychological balance.