My father asked me to marry 2 marriages, what should I do? Rush 20

Father is good to you, he won't do that kind of thing, if he really does that, he may also have his reason, 2 not 2 marriage is not an important thing, what matters is how that person is, this is the key to the problem, don't miss a good person for the sake of face, live up to the expectations of a good father, and don't miss your own happiness. If the person who is married for the second time really has a big character problem, then you can make up your own mind, resolutely not marry, and explain it to your father. Looking at the way you ask questions, I feel that you yourself are actually a not very sober person on the issue of marriage, and the most important thing is to be clear in your heart and want to know what you want.

If your father is very good to you, then you can talk to him and say what you think in your heart to change your father's approach, if it really doesn't work, you can try to contact that person from the heart, if you still have resistance, then you can say no to your father loudly, because you tried to change it, right?

Father.?It's rare to see someone call your dad like this these days, if you have a boyfriend, just ignore your dad and resolutely don't marry. If not, go and meet that person, think it's okay, look pleasing to the eye, and think about it.

If you want to marry for the second time, you must have a lot of money. It's good to get married and have no worries about food and clothing.

Marriage is a major event in life, and the most important thing is your opinion, just don't let yourself regret it.

Don't marry, don't touch this kind of man, my man's situation is very similar to yours, he also has a daughter, and he is also at a low point in his career, and he is crying and begging my mother, now that his career is good, my daughter has always been with us, but I am different from you, I am also good to his daughter, and we have a son now, and we quarrel because he is very selfish, and often has fun outside, regardless of his family or his children, and their family has two powerful sisters-in-law, an unreasonable mother-in-law, we are very unhappy, and we want to divorce, But the child doesn't have a father, so now I just want the child to come home with a father to call, and I don't care about anything else. So, you still have time, leave as soon as possible, and don't regret it View the original post

I sincerely advise you to leave him, you can marry a man who is married twice, but you can't marry a man with children. There are so many things I've experienced that I can't explain. The money he spends on his children a month is my monthly salary, about 3,000.

I told him at the time, it's better to bring the child back and I will take it with me, I will resign, and you ask her mother to give us 3,000 yuan. He said I was calculating, I was snobbish!! When did you become so concerned about money?!

I don't care about money, I don't care about money being used on his children, it's that this money is not used on children at all, and it's all bottomless pits, for a lifetime... And that's just money, there will be barriers to education. Because he only takes the child one day a week, he spoils the child, and the child buys whatever he wants, as long as I say that he spoils the child too much, he will say that he can only make up for the child materially.

I can't say what the child says badly, not only the man will protect it, but even his parents will protect it, saying that the child occasionally comes to play, don't worry about the child. But I'm for the sake of the kids!! It is necessary to establish correct values and moral values.

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2. Married men are not scary. The scary thing is that you can't tolerate this daughter. You can't tolerate her before you get married, maybe your man won't say anything, for a long time, do you think you can get a man's heart?

In other words, if you are a man who is really willing to live with you without caring about the child at all. Can this man be qualified as a father? If you don't have a good attitude to love your children, then don't get married.

It's even more painful after marriage! View the original post

You see that kid trying to strangle her? I'm dizzy! What's wrong with the child, she can't choose her own birth, since you reject him so much to care about his daughter, I advise you to break up, if he is a man who doesn't even care about his own flesh and blood for you, I advise you to break up.

If you really love him to death, I don't think you will hate him so much because of his occasional care for children. This love is too narrow, a moment of sadness is exchanged for a lifetime of tranquility, and a long pain is better than a short pain. Wishing you happiness!

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If you break up, you're going to die, so what's wrong with accepting that child, besides, there's nothing wrong with the child, if he doesn't care about his own child, then this man just has no sense of responsibility, he also said, it's his responsibility to see the child, so, you can also try to accept the child, what's more, this child doesn't live with you View the original post

How bad is a little girl that makes you want to pinch her to death??? The little girl has the right to enjoy her father's love, even though her parents are divorced. If you want your man to hide from you to see his daughter, this marriage is not suitable.

Unless your man's ex-wife is married, otherwise, your marriage is unstable. View the original post

In fact, in a word, a woman without a market can only marry a woman with children. That's the tragedy. Don't lie to yourself with any tall hats.

There is a woman in the market, how many men chase it, but if they can't catch it, how can they pick a child to marry? Could it be that she is sick or brain-dead? How can someone who can buy a house in Lujiazui live in Chongming and commute to work by ferry every day?

Don't talk so much. Blame you for being ugly or something. If not, why bother?

Will Li Ka-shing's daughter marry a husband with children? Hahaha. It's really a big laugh.

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Dear, my situation is similar to yours, my current husband is married for the second time, because his ex-wife's life style is more chaotic, and the two divorced. At first, I also had such concerns as you, he also had a daughter, his daughter was very sensible, she didn't come over much after we got married, the grandparents were reluctant to bring their granddaughter, and they were afraid that I would be angry when they brought it home, so they went out to eat with their granddaughter at noon (because the elementary school was at the door of the house, and her mother couldn't come back at the unit at noon). Before we got married, my husband's ex-wife wanted to remarry her husband, and I was very angry when I found out, so I was reluctant to accept this daughter for a while, and I was very angry as long as I mentioned about my daughter.

Half a year has passed, my mind has calmed down a lot, and the people around me have advised me that since I am married, he has a daughter before marriage, you know, just accept it. So I try to accept this daughter, I'm not good at expressing it in person, but every time I go out, I buy clothes for her, and I usually buy snacks for her to eat, and my grandparents think that if I am good to my granddaughter, I will be even better to me, and now the family is living well, sometimes I also think of some troubles, but she is just a child, she doesn't have an opinion on me, I have no opinion on her. The main thing is that my husband and in-laws will love me more.

Women, for the sake of family harmony, be a little more tolerant and generous, as long as the family is reasonable, it will be good to you. Wishing you happiness! View the original post

What else can I do if I have registered, my parents are from here, and some things will be seen more clearly than us, and I believe they are also for your good. Now that the raw rice is ripe, take him with you to meet your parents, let them know each other better, and maybe change their opinion of him.

1.I wonder how your parents knew he was married and had children, and since the children belonged to his ex-wife, they shouldn't have been"Goofs".

2.Parents will never be because of you"Raw rice is cooked into rice"And accept him, and those who don't accept it will never accept it, and the next step is to draw a line with you.

3.It's your own choice, so you bear the full consequences, and your parents are not obligated to accept your choice.

Women don't get carried away by emotions and solve them rationally.

You're really ruthless, I suggest you don't tell your parents now. Or I'm going to be angry with them. You can't rush this matter slowly, you still try to let your husband chase with your parents more, so that they can discover the good in your husband.

Tell your husband to behave better. Usually do more things and talk less, and explain the reasons for your husband's divorce to your parents clearly. When the time comes, tell them you're registered.

One wrong step, one wrong step, you shouldn't have had any thoughts about him in the first place.

It's not advisable to let your parents know that you are secretly registering!. However, a married man must know how to feel more sorry for his daughter-in-law. Marriage is not about driving, there is no need to buy a new one, sometimes the old one is better to run in! ~！

Your parents are too stupid, are you dead or alive, what does it matter to them, the old couple makes enough money to live in a peaceful old age, if you are afraid of old age, no one can take care of you can find a nanny, and then give all your property to the nanny, why bother, what do you care? I can't think of it anymore. Yikes

You're a little impulsive, a little emotional.

It depends on how your parents judge this matter from that point of view, if you look at the happiness of your daughter's life, they will agree, parents all over the world are the same, if you consider it from their face, you may not agree, your boyfriend's conditions are good, it is estimated that the problem is not big, even if the parents have concerns, it is only temporary, [if he has children, your parents will not let you be a stepmother] I hope he will pass the test smoothly.

You can be married and divorced twice, and the reason is not all on him As long as you understand his personality You love him His past is not very important Everyone has a past Nothing I wish you happiness.

Is he worth it for you to convince your family that only you know best in your heart, you have known each other for three years, you should know him very well, not necessarily that he is unreliable if he is divorced twice, in fact, the reason for the divorce is not all in him alone, you yourself said before, he is very good to you and takes good care of you, if you love him, he really loves you can be together!! Wishing you all happiness!!

The answer depends on the reason for the divorce, you have to understand the reasons for his two divorces, and make an analysis and judgment to know whether it is reliable, after all, the two marriages have failed, and there must still be some problems.

Question: I'm a divorced woman, and now I've been dating a man who has been divorced twice for two years, and I asked for marriage, but he didn't give a reply. His first marriage was divorced because the woman did not support the man's mother, and in the second marriage, he said that he had met a marriage **, and he divorced after less than half a year of marriage.

Question: I think his character, the three views are fine, the relationship between the two people is also very good, recently I proposed to get married twice, he didn't reply, I was very entangled, how should I deal with it?

We lived with his mother.

For example, what should I use to ask him?

The reason for the divorce he said was the woman's fault, how could it be? He has no capacity for love. Let him!

Divorced twice, do you believe his words? Is it really someone else's problem? The second time the woman divorced without having children, why didn't he ask people before getting married?

Even if it's true, it can be seen that he got married to pass on the lineage, he doesn't really love you, you are still young, and you shouldn't be hastily spent all your life like this.

He took marriage as a daily routine

Eternal love is in your heart, just as many people often ask whether there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in your body, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

proved that he was very capable, so he was divorced twice.

Think about it, anyway, if it were me, I would never marry a man who has been divorced n n times. After saying that, is it true that he told you the reason for the divorce?

Can't get married, do you guarantee that he will still be good to you after he gets married? Is that really the reason for his divorce?

Look at everyone's psychology, second-married men are not necessarily bad, or it depends on fate.

A second-married man fails first and then succeeds, and the first marriage does not mean that he will not get divorced.

2. Married men are not necessarily bad, if the man has a sense of responsibility and will love his lover, he can consider it.

As long as you treat your family and your husband well, it's fine.

Let it be, because marriage involves the elders of both parties after all, which is different from falling in love, it is not just a matter of two people, it is recommended to let it go, keep in touch with both parties, and wait for the woman's parents to change their concepts.

Parents are for their own good, think about it, not only is it too insignificant, but also afraid that you will suffer as much as he did in the early stage.

The words of your parents may not be right, but they must be for your own good, so you must think twice. If the man deserves to let you down his parents, then after marriage, his parents will also admit it. But, who can guarantee that?

Therefore, test the man and let him do something to show his love. to move parents.