What is it like to be intermittent with your favorite person?

In fact, it is the testing period, we contact each other and judge each other's suitability. Generally, men and women in the intermittent stage have not established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, during this period we can enjoy the sweet words of the other party to the boyfriend and girlfriend, but not the boyfriend and girlfriend have no right to ask for each other's only. We can get the good of each other, or we can lose it at any time.

But at the same time, we can let the other person get our good, and we can also let him lose at any time. Intermittent liking is nothing more than enjoying love.

My friend who used to have a crush on me for nearly a year, he would like me but sometimes he ignored me, four men and three women ate buffet, and he would only bring me ice cream. This feeling of flickering and proximity made me happy and helpless, and I couldn't be sure how he felt about me, and I felt aggrieved every night during that time. To borrow lyrics is ambiguous, making people feel wronged.

will be confused because of this ambiguity. Maybe he just used me as a spare tire, and I was stupid to invest in real feelings, because I had a good impression of him when I first met him, and he was exactly the type I liked, and then I cried when I was drunk during that time. It wasn't until they started a relationship.

I also understand a truth: all intermittent likes are fake, if a person really likes you, he will tell you with actions and want to be with you. In my heart is the sweetness of pain, the crush that has no result.

There was a kind of sweetness of first love, but then I was overwhelmed by the pain caused by countless lies, I always thought that he was just intermittently like me, I always kept a wary of him, and I was not too enthusiastic about him. It wasn't until now, after he didn't get a response from me, that he voluntarily cut off contact, and I wondered if I had misunderstood him.

is obviously secretly in love with each other, that is, watching each other; It's obviously eyebrows, but he still wants to say and stop; is obviously a thousand thoughts, but it is suppressed and restrained; It's obviously all kinds of tenderness, but it's indifferent. It is necessary to rely on the deceitful offense and defense to approach, and the skills of hearsay to get along; care about who has the upper hand, who is active and who is passive, who can submit whom, and who can control the overall situation; Even after being together, they also practiced the so-called "control technique", taking pride in the other party's concessions, and being ashamed of not being able to control it, and finally moved out of psychology and other big tricks to serve.

There are many things that only two people know about themselves, and in the eyes of others, you are just ordinary friends. In the end, it didn't work out, and the two of them became ordinary friends again, and no one knew the twists and turns. Even he thinks nothing happened, and you even have to ask yourself if it's all fantasy.

Even if you have a cold, there are always some signs. But I don't like it, but the stamina is stronger than the most serious cold. I still think about those moments from time to time.

I still haven't forgotten.

After a little longer intermittent liking, I think you can understand whether a person is really careful to express his liking to you or just flirt. So even if you enjoy it, be sure to remember to keep a little sane when responding to this way of being in love.

Like someone but never talk to me about the future, this intermittent liking is that I think of you will be excited and overwhelmed, I am waiting for your confession, I am talking to you about what my lover said, but suddenly I find that I can turn around when I leave you, and you have never talked to me about the future.

1. Find out why2. Take the initiative

This situation can only show that your status in his mind may not be so high, and you are just ignored when you have time, and you will not be ignored if you don't have time, so this situation may be that he doesn't care. You should take a proper look at yourself.

I think he is using you as a spare tire, otherwise he will confess directly, whether he can achieve a sentence or not, and it is not a matter of consuming it like this.

Then you have to take the initiative, she intermittently accosted you and explained that it is also interesting to you, at this time you must seize the opportunity, he is just embarrassed to confess directly, and the two of them can almost be together after chatting.

I think it probably means that he doesn't like you very much, so you still need to learn to give up appropriately.

I will ask him directly if he likes me, if he likes me, I will be together, if he doesn't like me, forget it. He occasionally feels like I'm a spare tire. There's no way I'm going to be a spare tire for him all the time.

Just go with the flow, don't get used to his character, and don't rush to make him happy all day long, so as not to let yourself lose your worth.

Don't be too nice to him, or take him too seriously. Treat such a person, deliberately alienate him.

Maybe the other party doesn't like you very much and is wary of you, and you have to change your image so that he can trust you and be willing to be friends with you.

What I am most afraid of is that others are hot and cold to themselves, making themselves very uncomfortable, if it is someone you like, then express your heart directly to him.

I will retaliate by making him understand that not all likes are wasted, and I will let him feel the feeling of being taken care of intermittently, so that he can remember it longer.