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You said that you were "emotionally hurt", I will analyze now why you are hurt, first of all, your boyfriend who is about to marry you and suddenly regrets it, he does not have enough patience and tolerance! In fact, he has always felt that you are depressed, and he just wants to try to tolerate you, but when the two of you really want to get married, he hesitates, he is afraid that he will lose his original happiness due to your influence, so he chooses to escape! This shows that he is not patient and tolerant enough, he does not think about the problem from your point of view, he simply thinks that being with a depressed person will feel very boring and tired, but he has not thought of sharing and solving this problem with you in other ways!
I think that since he doesn't have such conditions, giving up this marriage now is not necessarily a bad thing for you and him, but it will allow you to find the other half that is really suitable for you again! It's better, when you get married when you get married, you find that you can't go on and then come to divorce, don't you say?
And you say "I am inferior, do I want to change myself", the answer is yes, since it is inferiority, then it must be changed to self-confidence! Because you don't need to have low self-esteem at all, if your low self-esteem is because of your boyfriend's words, then it's really redundant and shouldn't be! Low self-esteem is to look down on yourself, think about it, if even you look down on yourself like this, then who else can look down on you?
So, you have to start learning to relax now, learn to release some of the depression and worries in your heart! Think about it, maybe in the near future you will meet your own true love! Finally, I wish you happiness!
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Since he doesn't love you, why should you be inferior! You are yourself, why change! Even if you deserve to, you can't change yourself for the sake of others! You're a good girl, someone will love you for the rest of your life!
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He doesn't love you, so I'll do it too
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You're not depressed, you're just out of love, and of course you'll be unhappy and sad if you're out of love. He wants to end this relationship now, of course, he won't be as gentle as before, and you don't have to change yourself, you will start a new life by yourself, time can be everything. A female friend of mine is also in a similar situation to you, and she was very melancholy at the beginning, since it is impossible to be together, let go, go and find a new life, everything will be fine, I hope you can get out of your sadness as soon as possible and be happy every day.
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For those who don't love, there is no room for the slightest flaw.
This statement is indeed a bit ridiculous, but don't be wronged, he may just say it to get rid of you! All I know is that there is no lasting love. Because people change. If you have been together for a long time, there will be no freshness. So ......I don't think it's okay to break up.。。
Even if he really broke up because you hesitated, someone who didn't understand you. will never be considerate of you. If I were you. I'll be glad I didn't marry him!
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How old are you two??? What's so strange about premarital phobia???
Haven't grown up yet, married?? Let's go 20 more years!!
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People who are too inferior in their feelings need to change themselves, but first they need to find the root of their inferiority, and only after finding the reason for their own work can they take different countermeasures to change. Therefore, we need to change and improve ourselves in normal times, because each of us is not a perfect person, so we should do our best to make ourselves more perfect, so in ordinary times, two people need to communicate with each other, and only by knowing each other's thoughts can the relationship go long. <>
If a person will have low self-esteem in the relationship because of academic qualifications, then they need to improve their academic qualifications in different ways, you can see more knowledge, you can reserve some knowledge, and make yourself more knowledgeable. Because two people who love each other are willing to change themselves for each other and make themselves an excellent person, they should not let themselves stand up and have low self-esteem for a long time, but should become more excellent, do not always feel that they are not worthy of each other, but should find their own shining place, to carry forward their own advantages, in order to reduce this inferiority complex. <>
In ordinary times, Mu has magnified his own shortcomings, and should look at his own problems with the eyes of development, and at the same time, he should strive to improve himself in ordinary times, so that he can get more people's affirmation, if a woman is financially independent, then she will have her own state, so we have worked hard to complete one thing in ordinary times, that is, I have become better, then we will have a good cycle in some good atmosphere, which is also conducive to the common development of two people. <>
In the relationship, inferiority will affect the emotional development of two people, although this is a bad emotion, but sometimes inferiority can make us continue to break through ourselves, change ourselves, in their own lives, we should be a bright source of self-confidence, to become more confident, and can not always deny themselves, self-confidence should continue to accumulate in life, so we should continue to strive to make ourselves better, more worthy of each other.
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First, tell yourself to learn to accept yourself. Your own denial is the one that will hurt you the most. Second, I hope that everyone will adjust such a mentality, which is called talking about things.
Don't blindly feel that what you are doing is inappropriate, and you don't want to open a feast. Third, it is to let this inferiority complex of yours become your motivation to move forward. You use this inferiority complex as a motivation for you to work hard to make money and try to enrich yourself.
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At this time, you can find your own interests and hobbies to improve your hobbies, to change your dressing style, and Hail Kuan can find self-confidence and confidence, so that you can show your independent side.
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Then you should discover your strengths, and look for the shortcomings of others, and then make yourself more confident.
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