I have low self esteem... Always trying to hide yourself

Get a job. Money can make grinding ghosts.

Making friends is heart-to-heart. Don't be sad if you can't make friends because of your appearance, it's because you haven't found a friend you have ever made. A true friend doesn't care what you look like.

My teacher once said: As long as a person has a nose, eyes and a mouth, you can't say that he is ugly.

I hope you can be confident and find real friends abroad!

How to say it. I'm a very cheerful person who talks a lot to people I know. But as long as there are strangers, I will not say a word.

I'm also more cheerful. You go out on the street and what else can you wear a mask. But what do you do when you go abroad, go to school, work or whatever?

You're going to have to be with people you meet a lot, and people you have contact with are smiling. That's it.

Silly eat and sleep to grow up, and all the concentrated essence is the essence! The "unbeatable little oriental man" knows who it is, right? Be confident!

My friend once said: "If a woman is beautiful, then she must not be in good shape, if a woman is beautiful and in good shape, then she must not be tall, if a woman is beautiful and tall, then she must have bad grades, if a woman is beautiful, in good shape, and has good grades, then her family background must be bad; If a woman is beautiful, well-built, tall, intelligent, and well-born, then she must have a short life....Whether this statement is a fallacy or not, it is quite right, isn't it? Live for yourself, not for others....You have the conditions to live abroad, which means that you are still very lucky, so try to live happily, can't you?

As long as you are confident, there are no other big deals, and there are many people who are not as tall as you, so don't people live? I hope you get better, after all, I'm not a psychiatrist. If you don't accept others, how can they accept you.

According to your thoughts, Pan Changjiang doesn't want to come out to meet people, right? You can't even perform on stage or in front of the screen. You're not looking for an actor or a host, are you?

Otherwise, why pay so much attention to the image? Life in the world, knowledge, ability, morality, etc. are the most important, can you be handsome as a card swipe? Is it okay to work the inside first?

1. Appearance (picky comparison, lack of self-confidence).

In fact, everyone thinks that you are beautiful and handsome, but you still feel that you are not good enough and have a great fear of your appearance, because if your figure or beauty has changed, you will envy others for having good conditions. They often don't see their own strengths and want to cover themselves. It is true that you have to express your inner light in your own personal style and taste, and you will exude true beauty in yourself.

2. Ability (conspiracy, anxiety).

If you want to perform well, you feel that you should have a good sense of achievement, so you can be respected by others through your ability, and have a sense of affirmation that others can give you, so you need to be recognized and affirmed a lot. Your condition is good and bad, sometimes you will improve a lot, and sometimes you will be very burnout. When you are tired, you will have no self-confidence, your inferiority complex will run out, and a long part will be through or sell your ability to express yourself, but in fact, you have not reached that part, so you will feel empty in your heart, and your inferiority complex will disappear completely.

3. Status (competing for favor, sitting and forgetting one).

I am very ambitious about the sense of achievement, I think I am very good, and I am also very influential, but I hope to get a great sense of honor through good results. In fact, the inferiority complex in the heart is in life, has been denied, interpersonal relationships have been frustrated, and even want to make yourself proud in the past, so you don't want to live a civilian-like life or a civilian-like life, you have to show yourself, so that you can succeed, will be supported by status or everyone. You're going to rack your brains and even sleep hard every night to get that great position, but what does that location mean to you?

You don't know that it's the hurt you suffered when you were younger. In fact, it has been denied in the past, and that self has never been dealt with. 4. Family (glamorous, make up for emptiness).

Make yourself glamorous and make up for the emptiness. In fact, the most difficult thing to deal with is that you feel that the home is a drag and a burden for you, so usually you don't talk about family topics, because the things in the home will make you feel completely different from your personality. You want to get rid of the image of your family of origin.

But the family can't be chosen, because your home is like this, when others discuss the relationship at home, you feel so embarrassed and don't want to talk about it, but in fact you love your home very much, but you want to have a good image outside, afraid that the miasma at home will be dug out, what should you do? You are very protective and very taboo about family topics.