I am the only one in the dormitory who does not speak, is there a problem if I do not speak in the d

Maybe you don't have a common language with your roommate, or maybe you're not good at integrating into a new environment very quickly. Be positive, and it will get better slowly.

Even if you want to go to bed early, you can't fall asleep due to the environment, so why not communicate more with your roommates?

Even if you can't interject, you can listen to what they're talking about

Or maybe it's up to you to bring up the topic to talk about?

You can not talk to the people in the dormitory, but you must not talk to the people in your own dormitory!

That's not good for you,......

We're all in the same boat, but I agree with the advice from upstairs to try to fit in, or you'll regret it later!

Who knows, you probably didn't find a common language, trying to find a breakthrough.

Eh, cherish it, it's good to try to blend in, otherwise the memories will be bitter in the future!

Eh: I'm the opposite of you. Anyone can talk about it ...

Do you really not like to talk or can't talk together?

You can try to accept everyone ...

When we first arrived, we weren't familiar with it yet.

I must have to talk about it...

You try to be together ...

The same is the end of the world.

They're all hard-working people.

Sigh: I don't cherish it when I'm young.

When you get old, you will regret it.

We should adapt to this environment.

Socialize with others more.

Specific analysis of specific events:

The same dormitory shouldn't be just the two of them.,If you don't talk to all the people, it's normal.,Because this is a person's character.,More introverted or unique personality.,Don't want to have too much interaction with others.,If you're very harmonious with other people, you just don't want to talk to one of them.,Even if the two don't have any contradictions, at least they don't have a good impression of this person.。

And usually these two people don't have a good impression of each other, because if you don't talk to him, he doesn't take the initiative to talk to you, and the interaction between people is mutual, and since he is never willing to take the initiative to talk to you, it proves that he feels the same way about you and you feel about him.

As the saying goes, things gather in kind, people in groups, it is difficult for people who can't get along to work together, and it's not easy to be friends, although there is no contradiction for the time being, but after a long time, this relationship itself is a contradiction, so if the relationship between two people cannot be improved, it is best to stay away.

Precautions for getting along in the dormitory.

If a dormitory is not cleaned, it will become very messy. Contradictions will gradually arise. The roommates would complain to each other and complain to each other, and then the dormitory would fall apart.

I suggest that the best way to do it is to get a duty schedule on the first day. Each person cleans for one day or changes people every two days. Everyone must strictly follow the rules on the duty schedule.

Remember to make sure you have a duty schedule as early as possible. Because we are not familiar with each other at the beginning of the school year, it is the best time to make a duty schedule. If you wait until the roommates are familiar with each other, the role of this duty table is not so great.

It's not a problem not to talk in the dormitory, people just don't want to talk sometimes, or they may not be able to talk together, so it's not a problem, don't think about it.

First of all, you need to adjust your mentality, this speech is personal freedom, you have to know that you come from different places, have different values and worldviews, come from different families, and have different economic levels, so that you can seek common ground while reserving differences.

No, everyone has their own little world, and there is no rule that you have to speak.

If you're in the dorm room, everyone is chatting, but when you're not talking, it should feel weird, it's not that there's anything wrong with it, it's just that this person is a little out of place.

1. Restrain your little temper and don't rely on your own temperament.

At home, you can have parents who are used to you, and you may blame your parents for a little disappointment, but everyone is equal at school, and no one will take care of you as well as your parents. Don't use the good or bad background of your parents as a weapon to suppress others, this is a behavior that only naïve children have.

2. Don't melt people who don't meet the first impression aura.

Thinking that trying to get in touch would improve the relationship, but that's all whimsical. Don't compromise yourself to hold on to the relationship. When encountering people with incompatible aura, the first reaction is to stay away.

3. If you have something to say, don't hold it in your heart.

Some people don't like to make sense, and they often suffer dumb losses. For example, if the other person does something that makes you unhappy, then you have to express your dissatisfaction. For example, if you don't like others to use your own things, you have to say it, otherwise others will not realize their mistakes and continue to do so.

At this time, you are angry, and others still say that you are inexplicable and not a loss.

4. Cultivate your own empathy.

Empathy is the ability to feel sad or happy when something happens to someone who is happy or sad. And some roommates usually don't care about your feelings at all. Only ask you to have empathy to help them when they are in trouble.

It's all whimsical, okay!

5. You can't ask others to do what you can't do.

If you want to ask others, you might as well do your own things well. I've met such roommates before, and every time I come back, I play games in the middle of the night, and I don't start washing up until after twelve o'clock. It's really speechless for this kind of person.

If you can do this yourself, you will naturally be treated with the same respect when you make a request.

Summary. Hello dear! In the dormitory, you still have to communicate and talk often with your classmates.

Because of living in a dormitory. Meet frequently. There should be mutual communication.

Don't speak. People think you look down on him. If you don't speak, it's easy to be isolated by your dormitory classmates.

Hello dear! In the dormitory, you still have to communicate and talk often with your classmates. Because of living in a dormitory.

Meet frequently. There should be mutual communication. Don't speak.

People think you look down on him. If you don't speak, it's easy to be isolated by your dormitory classmates. 

I don't want to talk to them.

I think they're hypocritical.

It may be a different personality, but you have to learn to adapt. That's how society is now!

Normally, I speak five or six sentences a day in the dormitory.

The girl in bed No. 3 kept sighing, which affected my mood very much.

Three or four times a minute, I'm really speechless.

It's okay, although you can't communicate with each other, you can communicate normally.

From nine o'clock onwards, the dormitory is as quiet as an exam room.

You can communicate with your classmates appropriately.

Summary. Hello, I'm Teacher Yiran. Seeing your question, are you a little distressed, you feel that you don't have a common topic to talk about with the people in the dormitory, but it feels awkward to live together, right?

In fact, the allocation of dormitories is random, and sometimes it is inevitable to meet roommates who are not in tune, and there is no way to avoid this. People in the same dormitory will live together for several years, try to have more contact, go to class and eat together more usually, everyone can get along normally, and maintain a good relationship with roommates. In addition, you can also go out to participate in more club activities and so on, so that you will meet some like-minded friends, and after you have more friends, you will not be entangled in whether you have a topic to talk about with your roommate!

Hello, I'm Teacher Yiran. Seeing your problem, it's a little distressing that you don't bring a stool, and you feel like you don't have a common topic to talk about with the people in the dormitory, so Lu Dan feels embarrassed to live together, right? In fact, the allocation of dormitories is random, and sometimes it is inevitable to meet roommates who are not in tune, and there is no way to avoid this.

People in the same dormitory will live together for several years, try to have more contact, go to class and eat together more usually, everyone can get along normally, and maintain a good relationship with roommates. In addition, you can also go out to participate in more club activities and so on, so that you will meet some like-minded friends, and after you have more friends, you will not be entangled in whether you have a topic to talk about with your roommate!

How is your relationship with your roommates now, and can you tell us more about it?

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The dormitory is too noisy to sleep, you can try the following 5 methods:1Find a counselor to change dormitories; 2.

You can communicate with roommates and try to avoid making noise during breaks; 3.Use noise-cancelling earplugs; 4.Diet, such as:

Drink a glass of warm milk before going to bed, and drink more red date porridge, lily porridge, oatmeal porridge, etc.; 5.Engage in aerobic exercise before bedtime, such as jogging, swimming, etc.

1. Change of dormitory.

If it is because some roommates are often noisy and can't sleep, you can communicate with the counselor in time and apply for a change of dormitory.

2. Communicate with roommates.

If it is because of the occasional noise of individual roommates that interferes with sleep, you can communicate with your roommate and ask them to avoid making noise during breaks.

3. Use noise-proof earplugs.

If you get along well with your roommates and don't change roommates, you can also buy noise-canceling earplugs. When buying earplugs, pay attention to choosing sponge material bullet type or pagoda type, which is more comfortable and more suitable for sleeping.

Fourth, dietary therapy. I feel that the dormitory is too noisy, and a small part of the reason is that the sleep quality is not good, and you can take dietary therapy to improve the sleep quality. For example, drinking a glass of warm milk before going to bed, drinking more red date porridge, drinking more oatmeal porridge, drinking more lily porridge, etc. can help you sleep.

5. Exercise. Proper aerobic exercise before bedtime, such as jogging, swimming, etc., can help you sleep.