My husband is a person with a lot of financial means

Does he have anything to do with you?

Alas, a normal 40's man (although I am far from there), but that need is still quite vigorous, I wonder where he went to solve it? Or you pretend not to know, care more about him, man, you should have your own sense of responsibility, and hope that he knows what he is doing.

Not everything can be solved through communication, if he really has a ghost, you stab him at once, then everything is irreparable.

It's best to communicate more, travel together, improve the relationship, and ask him about his career development. Make more friends with his friends. Maybe you can learn more about him.

You have to believe your husband, how can you live without trust between husband and wife, how can he have financial ability if he is not busy, I hope you can find a chance to talk, according to this it seems that your communication is too little.

Don't jump to conclusions, it will hurt your feelings, and talk to him.

It's possible, a man is 40 a flower!

Be careful, it's not normal. Observe more, chat more.

Communicate well with your husband.

Possibly, you have to be careful.

It's good to find a husband who has the ability to make money. How realistic the current society is, each of us knows that without money, there is no way to live, some people may say that it is too materialistic, this is not a matter of material or immaterial, this is a question of whether there is a way to live.

In fact, we can think about it from another perspective, if you are a man and you have no ability to earn money, will your wife live with you? That's unrealistic, it's impossible to be with you anymore, everyone needs to live, and money is a must in life.

This is not a selfish problem, the main thing is that you need to take into account the rest of the family, not to mention the old people in the family, her husband has no ability to earn money, so who should support his parents, it is impossible to ask a daughter-in-law to support it, which woman doesn't want to marry a capable person?

And there is also the problem of children, if you don't have the ability to earn money, it is equivalent to not being able to support the family, of course, the children can't be raised, at least the children don't even have a school tuition, what a sad thing.

A mediocre man, mediocre to work hard for many years, so mediocre that you don't look down on him at all, if you work hard every day and want to do good for the family, and your husband just wants to be down-to-earth and not motivated, very mediocre to work. You're going to have a lot of complaints after a long time.

A thoughtful marriage is not as simple as looking at the RV, the spiritual fit, similar hobbies and tastes. and being understood and being free and independent of each other is the ultimate form of the ideal marriage. However, reality woke me up hard. Without material guarantees, how can there be spiritual fit!

If you are a woman, if you want to get married, find someone who loves you, but you also have to like him a little bit, otherwise it will be sad to look at, and the days will not be long. If you are a woman, if you want to find a boyfriend, then find someone you love, no matter what, if you don't love in your life, then her life will be in vain. Of course, finding a husband who loves you and you love is the best pull.

Actually, everyone's heart is the same, and deep down they are selfish, of course, it is also possible that the woman herself is particularly able to earn money, and may be willing to support a useless man, everything is possible, in short, I am not willing to live with people who are not able to earn money for a lifetime of mediocrity and mediocrity.

Of course, the former is chosen, although the latter has a good family, a house and a car, but the man is mediocre, has no ability, and over time will sit on the empty mountain, and there is no point in living without struggle! It's still earning it on your own!

Each has its own benefits, find a husband who has the ability to make money to accompany you for less time, find a good husband with a house and a car family to accompany you a little longer, I think what kind of husband to find is not to see how much money is made and the quality of the family, the key is that the two have to love each other is important.

It's all about fate. If you want to be vigorous, then find a husband who makes money. But you have to beware of him, after all, excellent people will always be empathetic. Ordinary husband, you have to endure the days of coarse tea and light rice.

Of course, it's good to find a promising husband, who has a house and a car, so that he won't make money and will be poor in a few years.

It depends on your personal opinion, if you want to have a stable family, choose the latter, if you want to pursue that kind of material life, choose the former.

How do you always think about the economy? First of all, you must find a husband who you love and who also loves you, and then consider his economic and family conditions! Find someone with strong ability and work hard with him, and you will be happy in this way!

It depends on your hobbies, everyone has their own hobbies, not to say that you have to find money or have the ability to make money, I think two people are better tempered,!!

See if your husband is good to you. It doesn't matter how much money is good for you, how little money you have. I'd rather sit on a bike and smile than sit in a BMW and cry. If you have love, you will feel happy!

Each has its own well, the husband who has the ability to make money will spend less time with me, the mediocre husband will spend more time with me, and I personally like that my husband can spend more time with me.

If you only see the front of the eyes, then du

Find the second one, what blessings are there now, zhi will enjoy what blessings. At least for this stage.

The DAO does not worry about life, and the version does not work hard. If you plan for the long term, it's better to find a husband who has the ability to make money. And it's also quite important that you can decide who loves you more and who has better morals.

Of course, it is good to find a husband who has the ability to make money, and living together is to keep moving forward, not standing still.

Actually, I think you should find a boyfriend first, and then think about it, and don't just drink and don't eat food.

Find someone who is capable, of course!

It's all good, depending on which one you like.

Marriage depends on fate, and it is forced to choose.