What to think about the cowardly and unassertive?

Some people may have a shadow of childhood, they (she) themselves are very pitiful, to break these, they can only find a spiritual mentor or counselor, and some can not change, they can only accept their own cowardice. There are several situations for people who have no opinions, some are really not assertive, this type of person is generally very easy-going, some are very assertive at critical times, and usually the other party can do whatever he or she says, this type of person has to understand his (her) bottom line, and there is a heart that violates the bottom line under the easy-going surface.

Such people are, in some cases, extremely paranoid. This shows that what they have decided cannot be changed. They may also know that this thing is not right, or it is not the best way, but at that moment, they can't change their decision, they must hit the south wall, hold on to the end, and see the end with their own eyes before they can stop.

This may be because he was deprived of too many choices from an early age, forming a paranoid personality. In some things that can be autonomous, extra insistence. Therefore, this kind of person can study the problem of the family of origin, find the problem from it, and overcome it.

Respecting independent individuals does not mean agreeing with all their views, but reflecting on achieving a better self, respecting them, and never agreeing with and supporting all their views, which are not contradictory. When we see others being cowardly and unassertive, emotionally speaking, we will be angry and disappointed. But we can't change others, we can only change ourselves.

Since we don't want to be cowardly and unassertive, then we should reflect on ourselves against the people who have these problems, and only in this way can we avoid these problems and become a better version of ourselves.

Cowardly people often don't have bad intentions, as long as you sympathize with him and love him, he will become your confidant. People who don't have opinions often follow blindly, as long as you lead him, he will become your good assistant and follower. Cowardice may also be a step back and a wide range of skies, and no assertiveness may be a one-sided thought that is not as good as public opinion.

Everyone has their own growth background, the best respect for them is not to impose their own values on them, we often say, to respect others, maybe in behavior is true, but what about ideology? As ordinary people, one of the most common biases we have is to use our own values to speculate about other people's worlds. Everyone grew up in a different historical environment, and it is this difference in environment that creates everyone's different personalities and concepts, do they really want to be a cowardly and unassertive person?

Zifei fish, the joy of Anzhi fish. There are many factors that are difficult to change, and the best behavior we can do is not to impose or interfere.

Everyone is an independent individual, and their values and lifestyles may be different, but everyone should be respected. As long as people have independent thinking, they should have an independent personality, and they should be treated and respected equally. This kind of equality and respect does not depend on nationality, skin color, faith, clan, occupation, division of labor, age, appearance, and of course, different concepts and lifestyles.

Regardless of whether a person is cowardly or not, whether he is assertive or not, the first principle of getting along with people should always be "respect".

They seem to be in a lot of things, they don't know how to choose, and they listen to what others say. At some point, the brain loses the ability to judge. This is very original family and has a lot to do with it.

Such people often have an extremely strict father or a particularly strong mother. They are deprived of the right to make judgments from an early age, and powerful parents interfere with their freedom to make every choice and arrange all their choices for them, which leads to the loss of their ability to judge. As they grow up, they tend to rely on other people's decisions because their ability to make choices has been lost over the years.

This kind of person is generally not easy to be respected, if it is a girl, it is more dangerous to get married, it depends on what kind of character the other boy's family is, if it is a boy, then it is called Ma Bao Man. Maybe the experience in the future will change you, there is no need to endure it all the time, the most important thing is to be happy.

1. Complain often in trouble.

The most obvious thing is his cowardice and incompetence and negative attitude. This kind of person is often very afraid of encountering tricky and difficult things, as long as they encounter this kind of thing, they will either kick it to others like a ball, or ask others for help.

If others are not willing to help him, he will feel very helpless, often complaining, full of negative energy, saying that he is in this situation, what should I do? Then he began to pour bitter water on people!

2. Being too dependent on others.

They will be too dependent on others, tell others about their needs, and let others give him advice, this other person can be his brother, can be his colleagues, or his most trusted parents since childhood.

3. Don't make choices, always ask for help when you encounter problems.

The most obvious manifestation of a person's lack of assertiveness is that he will not make a choice, and he will always rush to ask for help when he encounters a choice, because in his past experience, he is not capable of making a choice, he does not know which is better, and which one should be discarded. For him, he had no choice, and he had to turn to a reliable person for help.

4. It is easy to be disturbed by external speech.

People who don't have an opinion are often very susceptible to outside speech, which often comes from our lack of faith. In fact, as long as we look back on our own growth process, we will find that our ideas are often disturbed and influenced by the outside world.

I thought I would succeed, but as long as I heard the negative words of others, my confidence would be reduced by more than half. Dante once said, "Go your own way and let others do the talking." This is easier said than done.

5. There will be thoughts of self-denial.

People who are not assertive often have thoughts of self-denial in their hearts. In fact, the world is forever surrounded by all kinds of denials, and many people think that such things are impossible to achieve, and that kind of idea is simply whimsical, but they don't know that it is the courage of human beings to explore and imagine that has turned many impossibilities into possibilities.

Summary. He always thinks about whether it is right or wrong for others to do it, and as long as he sees someone doing it, he follows it.

He always thinks about whether it is right or wrong for others to do it, and as long as he sees someone doing it, he follows it.

It's like some people see others bullying people, he also has to follow the bullying boy, others like a person he also likes a person to take a person, others hate a person and he also hates a person, even if that person doesn't mess with him, he has to follow the trend.

He does whatever others tell him to do, and listens to others for everything, as if he can't make the decisions, and he wants others to make decisions for him when things happen.

It is easy to be influenced by others, easy to be swayed by others, and especially cares about other people's opinions and evaluations.

Blindly follow things, never think about whether this is what you want, even if you know that you don't want it, you don't dare to refuse.

I don't know where I came from, I want to go to, I don't know what kind of life I want to live, I don't know what kind of life I want.

Summary. A person who has no opinion will always know how to choose when encountering things, and he is very helpless and powerless; It is particularly easy to regret the phenomenon of regret, when facing two choices, when choosing one, it is particularly swaying afterwards, feeling that the choice of this matter is wrong, and regretting his decision; The heart is very changeable and contradictory, and he never dares to confirm himself in his heart, and always tries to use his own changes to satisfy his so-called sense of security; It is easy to be swayed by other people's emotions, and other people's thoughts will unconsciously be engraved into his mind, and he will not take the initiative to think about what to do if he encounters such a thing; People who don't have an opinion are often in great pain and struggle.

Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while A person who has no opinion will always know how to choose when encountering things, and he is very helpless and powerless; It is particularly easy to regret the phenomenon of regret, when facing two choices, when choosing one, it is particularly swaying afterwards, feeling that the choice of this matter is wrong, and regretting his decision; The heart is very changeable and contradictory, and he never dares to confirm himself in his heart, and always tries to use his own changes to satisfy his so-called sense of security; It is easy to be swayed by other people's emotions, and other people's thoughts will unconsciously be engraved into his mind, and he will not take the initiative to think about what to do if he encounters such a thing; People who don't have an opinion are often in great pain and struggle.

People who have no assertiveness should be summed up as having no political mind, no political identification ability, no political judgment ability, no political execution ability, no direction, no organization, inability to distinguish between right and wrong, and inability to distinguish between right and wrong. Common prosperity, the backward will catch up after hard work!

has no assertiveness, which shows that he lacks the ability to analyze and judge, lacks the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and can only follow the crowd and follow the crowd.

The lack of assertiveness shows that he has no courage and does not dare to take responsibility, and it is probably appropriate to label him as a cowardly and incompetent finch fluid.

Such a person should be a grass at the head of the wall, and the wind blows on both sides. Things.

If you are in politics, your political stance is not firm, you are not decisive when you encounter problems, you are hesitant, you are indecisive, you are waiting for others to make up your mind, you miss a good opportunity, and the state bank will not achieve anything, which is looked down upon. In business, business opportunities are often fleeting, and people who do not have an opinion cannot make a decision immediately, pass by and even miss the opportunity. ......Such a person can only be mediocre and do nothing.

In short, no matter what you do, no one who has no opinion can take charge alone, and of course he can't do anything big.

It is very difficult for a person who is not assertive to make a difference. The reason is that he doesn't know, and he is confused and has no identification. Of course, if you can grasp and identify a goal, and do it firmly, you may achieve something.

People are afraid that they will not have opinions, and if they do not have opinions, they will have no position and no opinions, and they will not be able to recognize whether they are ordinary or special, excellent or mediocre. Can such a person be a leader? Obviously not, because he can't distinguish between right and wrong, isn't that a mess?

Even if you sit in a leadership position by any reason, it is a deaf ear, a pomp, or a puppet.

Therefore, it is difficult for people who have no opinions to make a difference, there is no doubt about it.