I was 15 years old, my first love, and I always had a crush on that girl when we broke up

Updated on psychology 2024-07-01
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think you should think about whether she really loves you, if there is still a relationship between you, if not, give up, if you really love her, don't give up, I think you are still young, there are some things you won't understand, when you really love someone, you are willing to give up for her, willing to think about her happiness, I think you are unwilling to come to this to ask, if in the end you don't get anything, you listen to "what's left", then you feel that sometimes it's not worth it, Of course, learning comes first, and I hope you should handle the relationship between study and love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then she must have something worth loving about you, and you will love her. Why forget? Something that was treasured in my heart at that time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's because you didn't get her, and if she had been with you, you wouldn't have been, not to mention she's hypocritical, isn't she?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You fell in love for the first time when you were only 15 years old, and you still made a hypocritical girl, are you.

    I think that person is a little different, or he is beautiful. You are so attached to her. The most important thing for you now is your studies, and I hope you will focus on your studies.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Now you're all young, in fact, I think maybe you don't know much about what you want love, let it go! In the future, when you look back and think about it, maybe you just smile? Now is not the time to think about that! What do you think?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Study hard first, there will be better ones later! When you arrive in the society, you will find that your current feelings are just very innocent, but it is a good memory, bless you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forget it, there are many types of good girls in this world, why don't you miss others, people have to look forward and find another one.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm a little younger, and I'm starting to age when I'm 14 years old.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Communicate! The key is communication, and being in love is something that makes both parties happy. If you want to be happy, you have to tell him some secrets that you can tell him, so that he can feel that you trust him very much.

    You should be more bold and say, "You're going to play with me." Because if both lovers don't talk and talk to each other, the relationship can't be maintained.

    Finally, I hope you will boldly make your request, let him know what you are thinking, and then he will not be confused. Only when both parties solve problems together will they feel the joy of love!

    Wishing you happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Boys don't cherish it if they get it, and if they don't get it, they try to get it by all means!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You go to see a Japanese comic, called school days, and the Chinese translation is called day on campus, I hope it will help you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    16 17-year-old students are very unstable and often change Regardless of boys and girls They will always look at this and think about that Let me tell you You just need to enjoy what you are experiencing now and remember it in your heart It will be your most precious and beautiful memory in the future Don't worry about it Hehe My sister was liked by several boys at that time But I didn't agree to any of them I knew that it would be impossible in the future It would be better to be like this Everyone is good to you You can also accept their good But I am very good at keeping my distance and scale And I've never delayed my studies Only if I'm better and more perfect will I meet someone who is better and more suitable for me in the future Hehe Sister wishes you more and more beautiful But at the same time, I also hope that you will complete your studies well For girls, beauty and wisdom are equally important This is the last word.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think he wants to be with you anymore, maybe his confession at that time was just an impulse. My emotional values are "casual", don't force anything... I wish you to find the real prince And you're still too young, don't take love too seriously, students focus on learning {hehe.

    I didn't do it myself, I'm embarrassed to say}

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, the most beautiful and interesting stage when you are in love is when you have not confessed to each other, there is some ambiguity, and there is a lot of room for reverie. At that time, the other party was perfect in his heart. Once it was confessed and started, a lot of illusory stuff became real.

    And there is always a certain gap between reality and imagination. At your age, you are still very ignorant of feelings, and you don't know what you want. In particular, boys of the same age are more immature and unstable than girls.

    It is recommended that if you have feelings, you can be a confidant first.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't advocate early love, according to statistics, there are very few early loves. It's usually girls who suffer more.。。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Find a time, talk to him, and ask him why he ended up with you from the trip.

    The cold one should be talked about

    Since you have decided to be together, you should treat each other well

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's okay, it's just less communication.

    Don't worry. You have to know that a friend relationship is not the same as a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

    When you're friends, you're probably going to be able to make everything clear.

    But once you become a boyfriend and girlfriend, some things will be kept in your heart.

    I want to say it, but I don't know how to say it, and I want the boy to guess for himself.

    So you just have to talk to him about what you think.

    Like a friend, tell him...

    Recently, I noticed that you seem to be a little faint about me.

    Let him understand you and let him say what he thinks.

    Let's solve it together.

    In love, you always have to understand and communicate.

    Everyone tolerates each other and improves themselves.

    That's how we love each other

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First love is often the best that people feel. Boys and girls in high school are already physiologically mature. At this time, due to the influence of human hormones, or the pressure of study and life.

    will lead to both men and women confiding in the so-called "love" in subtle words, which may accompany you to the palace of marriage, but it may also die halfway. The reason is that people's psychological quality and lifestyle change with the accumulation of knowledge, changes in the surrounding environment, and the words of parents and other friends. It can be said that love in high school is the purest and the most ignorant.

    I'm not against high school relationships, but I hope you can think of this relationship as an exchange of feelings between confidants, so that you don't pay too much attention to his subtle changes. If two people become study partners and are admitted to the ideal university at the same time, first dilute this relationship, and if both parties are still very attached to each other during college, I will sincerely bless you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Sometimes liking is a momentary feeling, I don't know when to come, I don't know when to leave, maybe he confessed when he liked you, but at what moment did the feeling change, have you ever bought something that you have always wanted, and when you buy it, you will always put it there and rarely use it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think you need to think too much now, you can't put too much thought on your feelings, you should focus on academics at this age, you can be a good friend and care about him, it's good to have a confidant in high school life, that is, you have to distinguish what is most important to you now.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because I don't understand it, that's why it's like this, it's very complicated...

    I couldn't tell for a while.

    Boys in adolescence · It's a bit hypocritical.

    I'm also a 17-year-old girl, and there are a lot of examples around me.

    Let's see if you guys are suitable... If you don't fit it, be friends!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What you know about him seems to be stuck in his statements, rather than what you really know about him.

    If so, it's dangerous.

    If he's really as stupid as he says he is, don't bother.

    Then maybe he has something else to worry about.

    In this case, ask him what's wrong if he doesn't say. Then tell him that you will be there for him no matter what happens. Don't ask.

    If you like each other, the amount of contact does not mean that you are cold or not.

    Secondly, not all boys are like this. I really like a girl, and I won't not cherish it.

    I hope you are happy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    As a person who has come over, I can help you analyze it, when boys and girls are in the ambiguous stage, there will be a chemical effect, once the relationship is established, this chemical reaction will also change, because the boy you said has never been in love before, and is even ashamed to express, and did not maintain a good relationship with you, it is precisely because he has no experience, so he does not know how to do it, not necessarily that he does not know how to cherish, understand that you live a very free and individual life, but it is recommended that you do not fall in love early, just taste it. Think about it carefully, you like him**, why do you like him, is it just because of the ignorance in the girl's heart? It is recommended that you read more books, increase your social experience, don't always live in emotional entanglements, as a girl, you have to be self-respecting, and others will respect you.

    If you have any questions, you can ask them again...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Love will eventually be defeated by bread Don't dwell on these things to the end, jump out, open the sky!

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