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First of all, eloquence is practiced, don't be shy, you must know that everyone's qualifications are almost the same, you have stage fright, others will have the same feeling, you must seize all the opportunities that can be exercised to show yourself, give yourself confidence, believe that you can do it and be able to say it, every exercise will give you great courage to start the next time, plus your own continuous summary and accumulation. In the long run, you will definitely be able to stand out on all occasions in the future, speak yourself, and prove yourself.
Secondly, you must have content to speak, in order to attract others to listen in social situations and some workplaces, you always have to make others have some benefits or resonance in the process of listening to you, then this kind of speech is successful, and others will be willing to listen to you and communicate with you. In the same way, a good speaker must be a person who is particularly good at communicating, and he must also learn to listen to others when he speaks, as the saying goes: go out to see the sky, enter the door to see the face.
Therefore, when speaking, you must learn to see the expressions of others when listening to you, so as to change the content and tone of your speech in a timely manner.
Again, it's important to pay attention to your sense of rhythm when you speak. Some people speak quite quickly when they speak, as if they are bursting beans, and often after she finishes herself, others do not reflect what she says. If you speak slower and louder, you will find that people will listen to you more attentively, and they will feel that everything you say is said from the depths of your heart, after careful consideration, and people will think that you are responsible for what you say.
In fact, words are not necessarily easier than writing articles, and articles can be revised if they are not well written, but it is more difficult to revise them when a sentence is spoken. We often feel that even if you have the same meaning or even the same sentence, someone who can talk can make you flutter, and someone who can't speak can make you dizzy.
Finally, we should learn more from those who can talk, and listen more to what others have to say, there is a proverb in the West: The reason why God gives people one mouth and two ears is that people listen more and talk less. Listen more, is the most rewarding, continue to enrich their own internal knowledge, continue to learn the strengths of others, with a confident and humble heart to face their every social and work occasion, even if they are not good enough, as long as you work hard, as long as there is sincerity, I believe that you will be able to become a master of speaking and communication over time, and bring a lot of happiness to your career and life!
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It should be that the thinking cannot keep up, it is recommended to talk to people more, and to have confidence in yourself, firmly believe that you can convince others.
If it's okay, find someone to lift the bar, find a good friend, and I won't blame you.
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Theoretically you're too nervous.
The other thing is that I am not confident enough.
In general, if there is a lack of expressive skills.
It's time to read more.
For simple examples, you can look at the Chinese textbook.
To say win over others.
Reasoning is important.
Confidence is important.
Exercise more on your own.
Learn how to tell others to be dizzy at the same time.
Be dizzy.
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1.The mouth is very stupid, how can I make my mouth speak?
People with stupid mouths may not even be able to speak well, or they may not know how to say good things. Therefore, when speaking, you should slow down your own speech, try to express what you want to say clearly, let the other party understand what you want to express, don't rush to say your words all at once, and learn to speak slowly. If you speak very quickly, others will find it annoying to hear it, and you will not be able to express it clearly, then the purpose of communication will not be achieved.
2. Imitate reading aloud.
Since our mouth is stupid, then we can imitate others more, imitate the way others read aloud, just like primary school students, follow the teacher to learn to read textbooks, we can follow the recording to imitate reading aloud, so that after a long time, we can change our way of reading and speaking, so that our mouth becomes sharp and trembling. When you imitate, you can also learn other knowledge, which is also conducive to us to practice our eloquence. Xinlicheng's "Scientific Voice" course teaches you to use scientific methods to protect your voice and make your voice more beautiful, more aura, and make you more confident in your voice!
3. Don't feel inferior.
Don't feel that you are much worse than others because you are stupid, everyone has everyone's talent, people are good at communication and communication, they are just because they are stupid, as long as they practice hard, they must also have good eloquence. So, don't feel inferior, nothing can be achieved without hard work.
4. Relax your mind.
Don't think that practicing eloquence is a difficult thing, don't be too entangled, relax your mentality, and change yourself normally, the more urgent it is, the more difficult it is to do it well.
5. Pay more attention to the interesting things around you.
When you go online, watch more happy and positive things, so that when you chat with others, you will have more happy jokes, it will be easy to infect others, and it will not make others feel stupid, and you can also practice your eloquence.
In short, people with stupid mouths practice eloquence well, and they must have confidence in themselves and relax their mentality.
2.In this way, you can practice your mouth and speak well.
Most eloquence comes from two paths, one is born and the other is acquired. There is no way to be born with it, so I won't talk about it, but the acquired can definitely be cultivated. The fastest, most effective and most effective way to cultivate from the depths is to read more books.
If you read more books, your mind will be broader, and you will be able to open your mouth and come. Including paying more attention to the information around you, thinking more and thinking more, and the brain is alive and the mouth goes up. In addition, you can also have more contact with people who can talk more and chat more, and they will infect you.
Of course, there is also a trick, which is to often imagine yourself as a speaker with a super good mouth, and cultivate it from the subconscious. It's easy to say, it's hard to do, as long as you think about it, you can do it. But if you only pretend to be a letter to talk about business, I don't think the motivation will be strong enough to **, and you don't have to be able to speak well to talk about business, hehe.
Personal opinion. Good luck..
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Treating the same thing and looking at and thinking about the problem from different angles can gain new and different understandings and ideas, which can enable us to get rid of the frame thinking and make innovative decisions that are completely different from conventional thinking.
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Psychology includes basic psychology and applied psychology, and its research involves many fields such as perception, cognition, emotion, regressive thinking, personality, behavioral habits, interpersonal relationships, social relations, artificial intelligence, IQ, personality, and many other fields.
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The intelligence quotient, or intelligence quotient, is the index of the comparison between the results of the individual intelligence test and the scores of subjects of the same age, and is the standard for measuring the level of personal intellectual difficulty.
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That's not easy, find a few very tongue-twisting paragraphs, and practice them dozens of times a day as basic skills
Just like practicing English, speaking more is the core way to practice eloquence
After that, you should read more books and newspapers to understand the knowledge, so that you will have something to talk about when talking to others
Otherwise, what military entertainment are people talking about, you don't even know who the maker of AK47 or Yang Mi is
How to talk about it?
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Speak in the mirror, but the words spoken sincerely are more touching.
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Eat more, get together, and make friends.
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See more, talk more, express yourself more, and contact strangers more.
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