My mom didn t agree with my boyfriend and me because his family was in the country

Mom and Dad can't accompany you to pass away, your husband is the one who will accompany you through the second half of your life, and you have now cooked rice and cooked rice, children are innocent, don't kill a life, I have made such a decision, so I have always regretted it, and I also resented myself, how did I not protect the child well, so that the child can come to this world, as long as your boyfriend's family is good enough for you, then flop with the family, as long as you know that you will never lose, then there is no reason why your parents will not see, Face and happiness, that is important, don't delay your happiness because of face problems, and take good care of your children, maybe, it is a treasure that you can't get back in your life.

Parents are so important? The important thing is the child in your belly, you can still be filial to your parents, and you can also compensate, but what about the child, you are the child's mother, don't you do nothing for him? Bringing endless trouble to parents and making parents think of ways to solve it, this is the child.

Life is sacred, and one of your thoughts can kill an innocent child at any time.

It is not recommended to do ** after 3 months of pregnancy, because it will hurt a lot, and the hospital will advise you not to do it, so you have to decide quickly and can't delay.

It is a Chinese tradition to be the right person. Right?

The landlord thinks about it, parents will not harm their children, you should believe this, right? Otherwise, why did they raise you so big?

It's best to listen to your parents, even if they are angry and disappointed, they won't abandon you.

And my boyfriend's side, my personal opinion, what is very irresponsible to a girl before marriage, if he loves you, you must let him show the strength to love you! You have to see his sense of responsibility!

Your parents are wrong to stick to their choice (don't explain) If you break up just because your boyfriend is from the countryside, I can only say that you don't love him enough! A very serious warning to your parents, don't discriminate against rural people, without rural people, you will starve to death!!

It is also clear that the problem is presented in **. You said your boyfriend's parents didn't approve of you being together. Why, then, are they against you being with you?

Whether their opposition is based on objective or objective reasons must be clearly defined before it is possible to deal with the problem. This problem is actually not difficult to deal with, I think it should be dealt with in two steps: you need to make it clear why your boyfriend's parents don't agree to the two of them together?

What is your boyfriend's opinion, the most important thing is your boyfriend's opinion, if he wants to be with you, he can't resist any strength, if your boyfriend doesn't have such a will, or if he obeys his parents' orders, I advocate you to give up.

When you figure out what your boyfriend's parents really think, if it's your own problem, if you really love your boyfriend, then you can choose to change yourself and try to accept your boyfriend's parents' request, so that you can continue to be together. If it's not your own problem, but some unreasonable requests from your boyfriend's parents, I think it depends on your boyfriend's attitude at this time, if he can be sure that he likes you and is willing to be with you, then you can also refrain from some difficulties and continue to date. On the contrary, if the boyfriend's attitude is not clear, or there is no indication of attitude, I think in this situation, it is better for two people to be separated for a period of time, so that everyone can calm down.

It is only after separation that you will think more and more clearly, and you will have to decide what to do. It means that your boyfriend's parents don't like you in their hearts, and they feel that you are not as good as they want in some ways, if this is the reason, I think there is still a time to deal with it. The problem is still very easy to deal with on its own side, you can follow your boyfriend to meet your boyfriend's parents, promise to change your own problems, and make serious changes, and pay attention to etiquette when getting along, pay attention to take care of the elderly so that they understand your mind.

His parents are not against you because you are not a good person or that there is something wrong with you. It is due to some reasons such as family conditions and origin. If it's because of these reasons, it's more difficult to deal with, because these are not things that we can decide, and some things can't be changed from birth, then why bother with these issues.

Let's say you really like your boyfriend, you can negotiate with him, can you communicate with your family? If it doesn't work, that's the only way to go.

Not getting the wishes of the family is the most uncomfortable problem for many lovers to get married, whether it is a man or a woman, they don't want the other party to choose between love and relatives. If your problem is really the second cause and you can't deal with it, I suggest that you finish it as soon as possible, you don't owe each other, and you deserve a better family.

Be open and honest with your boyfriend's parents: When her parents object to you being together, the first thing to do is to talk to your boyfriend's parents more. You can communicate your ideas with them face-to-face

I think you should choose to break up, the other party's parents don't like you, in fact, the two of you get married, and you will also be wronged.

Then you should break up with your boyfriend, because a marriage that is not approved of is unhappy and unfulfilling.

In this case, you can talk to your boyfriend, and the marriage between two people should not involve the boyfriend's mother.

Summary. I know that you and your boyfriend have feelings, and you are in a sweet relationship, and many practical problems will be weakened in the future. But if you want to be together, you can also find a way to convince your mother.

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Mom doesn't approve of you being with your boyfriend, what is the specific reason? It's convenient for you to say it, and I'll help you analyze it.

They have three brothers.

Dad can't take care of himself.

Well, the teacher got it. First of all, my sister should understand that my mother is also worried about your suffering, and she is afraid that you will be sad in the future, so she will stop you. There are three brothers, and my father can't take care of himself, so if he gets married, it actually means that the family can't help you.

Everything needs to be solved by the two of you.

I know that you and your boyfriend have feelings, and you are in a sweet relationship, and many practical problems will be weakened in the future. But if you want to be together, you can also find a way to convince your mother.

What does your boyfriend do? Is the family in the city or in the countryside?

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Summary. My dear, seeing that your mother disagrees with you being together because of your boyfriend's hometown, I think you must be very embarrassed, don't worry dear, my mother must be reluctant to marry you far away or afraid that you will not have a good life in the future, I think you can also understand. For love and marriage are different, if you are considering getting married in the future, you should also think about the problems that your mother is worried about, whether to go to his hometown to live together in the future or which city you live in, whether you need to face and deal with the human relationship you are not familiar with all day long, whether you can get used to eating and living, these are all very important.

If you don't get into that at the moment, I think you can talk to your mom about what you really think.

My mom didn't agree with me being with my boyfriend because my boyfriend's hometown was far away.

My dear, seeing that your mother disagrees with you being together because of your boyfriend's hometown, I think you must be very embarrassed, don't worry dear, my mother must be reluctant to marry you far away or afraid that you will not have a good life in the future, I think you can also understand. For love and marriage are different, if you are considering getting married in the future, you should also think about the problems that your mother is worried about, whether to go to his hometown to live together in the future or which city you live in, whether you need to face and deal with the human relationship you are not familiar with all day long, whether you can get used to eating and living, these are all very important. If you don't get into that at the moment, I think you can talk to your mom about what you really think.

We talked about living in our city in the future, and I had already bought a house, but my mom was still blocking me because of the distance from my hometown, so I wanted to know how to communicate with her.

Okay dear, that is, you've all planned it out, right? First, in fact, my hometown is far from a superficial worry of my mother, have you talked about deep problems? For example, what will happen if your hometown is far away, is your mother afraid that she won't see you or what, and the second is, are you sure that you have already chosen?

Third, have you calmly communicated your decision with your mother, I think you are also an adult when discussing marriage, but does your mother think so? Do you have a good relationship with mother and daughter?

Usually the relationship between mother and daughter is very good, and she is worried that we will go back to their hometown after we live.

Understand that the elderly will have some anxiety about the separation of other children, which means that your mother loves you so much! Actually, I also want to ask you, have you ever been sure about this with your boyfriend? Will he go back to his hometown after living a life, because his mother is also worried about this, so are you sure that it will not happen in the future?