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Hehe, your problem is the same as I used to When I was dating my boyfriend, our family didn't agree, but do you know how I did it? I believe that I can convince my parents, after all, my daughter is a piece of meat in my parents' hearts So they can't bear to see their daughter unhappy I was determined to tell my parents that I just want to be with my boyfriend, so no matter what, I must be with him for the rest of my life Hey, at first I didn't agree, but slowly and slowly, I praised my boyfriend in front of my parents, and parents heard that their daughter found such a good boyfriend. I must have thought that this is not a good thing, right? Gradually, I accepted the fact that I was with my boyfriend, you don't know how much my parents love my boyfriend now, and love my son as much, so now I live with my boyfriend in Shenzhen, and I have no objection, although we are only 21 years old, but people who love each other will always be happy, so, you know what?
Persistence is strength. Therefore, if you really want to be with him for the rest of your life, use your sincerity and persistence to impress your parents I believe that the parents in the world are the people who love us the most!! I also believe that you can succeed!
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Actually, it's very simple, it mainly depends on what kind of attitude you have! Just depend on your attitude! Other people's attitudes only play a reference role, the feelings are the two of you, and it may not be your mother or others who accompany you throughout your life, fate is very important, if you give up, you will regret it for a lifetime!
If you have conflicting feelings for him in your own heart, then I advise you to break up as soon as possible!!
But if you love him so much that you are reluctant to leave him, then what do you hesitate about? The opinion of your family is important, but why would you bet your life on someone else? For your own happiness, why not be your own master?
In fact, as long as you go to them seriously, don't take him to meet your parents first, you can communicate with your parents first, no parent wants their children to have a bad life, it's all for your good! I don't think there's anything you can't communicate with your family, and there's nothing you can't solve, the key is your words!
My girlfriend is now in Shaanxi, my job found in Korla, Xinjiang, she is a teacher in Shaanxi, we discussed what to do in the future, but a little reluctant to her work, others, such as my parents, hehe, probably my luck is better, it has long passed!
Having said all that, it should help you, and good luck!
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You've hardened your attitude.
Your parents are relatively soft.
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Stick to love, as long as you have a clear attitude, your parents will agree sooner or later, I wish you happiness as soon as possible.
Persistence is the best way, I was also opposed by the whole family at that time, but I still chose to be with him without hesitation, it was really painful at that time, but later at our insistence, my parents finally agreed.
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