Murphy s Law Reading Note 2, Murphy s Law Reading Record

Pessimists are more likely to make the right decisions.

Optimism refers to the idea of adopting a positive view of everything and is the opposite of pessimism. Optimistic people do not think about the shortcomings and flaws of one thing, and always treat everything around them with positive thoughts.

Many people believe that optimism is better than pessimism. In fact, a pessimistic mindset does not necessarily lead to a life of total joy and failure. Pessimists are able to rejoice in the world more well than optimists because they don't expect good things to happen, so if there is an ordinary success, it will also surprise them.

Pessimists tend to prepare for the worst and expect the lowest for what is to come. So if the situation is really as bad as expected, it won't be too bad. This makes pessimists very tolerant.

After they fail, they can still learn from the lessons and start all over again. This can help pessimists develop a pattern of perseverance that makes them appear weak, but in fact they are resilient and prone to thrive in the face of setbacks.

In fact, pessimists tend to succeed more easily than optimists. Psychological research has shown that pessimists are much more accurate than optimists when it comes to the probability of success of similar gambling experiments. As a result, pessimists are more likely to make the right decisions.

The American psychologist Nolan has done a lot of research on the question of optimism and pessimism, and she found that pessimists, because they have very low expectations, will "examine all the conceivable consequences one by one, and then spend a lot of time and effort rehearsing all possible situations in the brain until it is clear what needs to be prepared to succeed". With this kind of careful psychological rehearsal, the pessimist can plan ahead and rehearse for all possible outcomes, and the sense of control will be greatly enhanced. "In the natural and social environment of survival of the fittest, the sense of preparedness is the psychological basis for the survival of humans and other animals, and it can help people achieve a high success rate.

Although it seems that optimism is beneficial to the body and mind, blind optimism often ignores the fact that the world is too simple and things are too easy, so that they fall into laziness and slackness, and their backs are peaceful, and their bodies and minds are relaxed, and they do not know the intricacies of the roots, hardships and hardships, and even under the accumulation of new nests, they do fish at the bottom of the kettle, and they are still playing quietly and do not know the danger. Therefore, once defeated, it will often be hit hard. And the result is not as good or successful as the optimists expected, and there is no surprise, because it was expected to be expected.

1.Failure is the mother of success, mistakes are opportunities for growth, there are many opportunities behind any mistakes, how to break through the encirclement, you need to change your thinking, how to grow from mistakes, what needs to be improved?

2.Done"Mushrooms"What to do, break through with wisdom"Mushroom situation"。Newcomers in the workplace, learn to adapt to the environment, learn to treat work with wisdom and courtesy, and will have unexpected gains.

3.A positive attitude determines 85% of success, believe in the power of believing, value the results, it is better to sow the seeds of self-confidence in the hearts of students, the internal motivation is stimulated, and there will be unexpected gains!

4.Born in sorrow, died in peace! The awareness of crisis allows one to continue to learn and break through himself. Frogs in warm water will only slowly consume themselves.

5.Running fast does not necessarily win, weak people do not necessarily lose, laughing to the end, is the real winner. Taking your work seriously and getting by will definitely end up different.

6.Smile when you want to sigh, complain that you can't solve anything, and reflect on yourself is a prerequisite for success.