Whether to go or stay, everyone help me!

First of all, I would like to express my admiration for you to first falsely declare your resume, and then work hard to study on your own. This is a person with brains and ambitions!

Don't think about leaving because of this one thing. Because even if you change companies, there will be one such problem, for sure, where there are people is the rivers and lakes! People are in the workplace, people are in the rivers and lakes!

You need to comprehensively consider the company's conditions, development prospects and your own development plan, and then decide whether you can choose a better company to develop.

It's not because of this one thing that I left with a cold heart. Do you understand?

By the way, agree with the statement of the first floor. All the bosses know it, and you must not think that they don't see anything, they don't know anything. They know very well in their hearts, but they are pretending to be confused for some need.

In fact, what kind of people should be used for what position, they are like a mirror in their hearts. So you must stick to what you should do, and don't be afraid that the boss won't see it.

Test you, take you to the meeting is an opportunity, let you manage the company is also implicit, look at your ability, don't worry, your boss knows, continue to work, it's not easy to find a job.

Walk! Not reckless.

You have work experience, good conditions, and it should be easy to find a new job.

Life is not just about one place.

Don't give up because of such a thing, changing a company will not necessarily do better than here, not necessarily you will be more reused, this may be a test, as the boss he must have his way of considering employees, not going to the meeting does not mean that you will be ps, he is not in the company in these important tasks are yours, if I were you I will change a mentality, do a good job of the boss to give you the job, in fact, everyone knows that the soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier, but the opportunity is not ripe, you are not suitable to go away like this......Work hard to adjust your mentality, in fact, if you feel like this, it means that you are not confident, if you are confident, I think nothing will affect you, maybe there will be more important things waiting for you! Come on!

I think we should do it. Since he is already in this position, why think so much. Sometimes it is difficult to have normal reasoning logic in personnel arrangements, and sometimes there will be unexpected results, so it is recommended that you better not give up first, and it is not easy to find a job that suits you

1. From the perspective of social life, Yinchuan is more suitable for living, the pace of life is not fast, the consumption level is high (housing ranks in the forefront of the country, and daily consumption is medium), I don't know what you do, if you have the courage to come;

2 From the perspective of family life, your situation I think if the two of them have a good development space in **, life will be better to stay there (Jinan or Yinchuan), if the two of you love each other, you will analyze it together, after all, you have to think about life, love or not love for so two years, the days have passed to know that life is a real thing, in ** can get a better space for development, you can pick up the other end if you live a good life, and you have to take it if you have a child in the future;

3 If you think about it, act in unison, and those who don't give money at home are all children, and it's unlikely that you won't give it, that is, if you don't give it now, who can you give it in the future? Even if you don't give it to you in the future, you have to live your own life, you won't earn it, the old man's giving is good, it doesn't matter if you don't give it, the road ahead is yours, and choosing a good road is better than that;

4 really can't be unified, you'd better give up what you should give up, don't be difficult for yourself and don't delay others, who doesn't have a little past, don't worry about the future if you feel worthy of the present;

I'm from here, I advise you, the best life is just a few years, you don't have to bear obligations, you don't have to bear responsibilities, you have some money, you can talk about love or something, and when you have a family, you have to serve your parents and raise children, and then you won't be your own, hehe.

To each his own life. People can't be too greedy, and if you get some, you will always lose some, this is common sense. When you have time, try to go home as often as possible.

Stay! Otherwise, you will live at both ends, your mother will get older and older year by year, and so will her wife, and you must stay in your family to take care of them!

Take care of both sides, or the two of you are outside, and then take both parents to live with you.

Actually, you should forgive them.

Maybe that's how they used to be.

Men only fail in doing things and do not back down.

I suggest you go and investigate their preferences.

Find a way to mingle with them.

Don't be too flattering, and don't let them think you're hypocritical.

Men are bloody men.

If only you could be one of them.

It will be the proudest thing you will ever do in your life.

Comradeship, how many people dream of it!

You are here for him, you are here, he actually drove you away, really, since he is unkind, you are not righteous, just stay there, anyway, you have a job you like, staying in ** is not development, since you like it, just stay there, dangle in front of them every day, let them make trouble with their own families, and when you feel that their families have made enough trouble, give them a dashing back, sister is gone, it is not rare for you. I guess their family is going to be angry, is it enough?

No one is perfect, go with the flow, do what you like, there is no absolute possibility, there is no absolute impossible, everything is unpredictable, but the earth will not stop turning without anyone in this world.

Purely personal opinion!

It is impossible for anyone to give you a completely satisfactory answer, only you can help yourself, now start to take a deep breath and close your eyes and ask yourself if you still love him, whether you are willing to do anything for him, so if you can't give you a clear answer, then another way, see if this one around you can protect you, can you give you a sense of security? Is he a motivated man?

If you were sensible as you described, I think you would have made a clear choice! (Marriage can give you 10,000) This means that 10,000 yuan bought you? Or does it mean that if you give you 10,000 quick money, you will have to be a cow and a horse to pay off your debts?

In fact, if you can measure which side of this matter is important to you, you will understand. If he is important to you, all of these questions will not be a problem.

It's clear that you're confused about the future.

When you get married, you should give up on him because he can't give you a future.

But because of your previous relationship, if you let go, you will have a troubled conscience, but this society is realistic!

This is the time to make a rational choice.

I think you know what to do.

Today's society is no longer an era of sentient beings drinking water.

You have to learn to think about yourself, for your next generation.

In this kind of environment, you can guarantee the education and growth of your children in the future, and love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a threesome.

Don't forget to get married, you have to think about it for the next generation.

And think about your future.

If you love him, you stay! Love comes first! But this life may leave sooner or later! Why don't you look for me when you get married? I'm not that bad! 308009929

Alas, it's hard to say, you decide for yourself.

Reality is divided, and feelings are real!

If you don't like this city, just go out and see, after all, you don't feel like you belong here. Come back when you miss your child. However, from the point of view of the child's growth, you should stay with the child and give him the initial education that is most conducive to his growth, after all, the role of parents cannot be replaced by anyone.

Do everything according to your own heart.

Can't you take the kids with you to your husband's city? And then you get a job there.

It is recommended that you can go to see him, but it is not advisable to stay permanently, and to see him can let his colleagues know that he has a family, which should form the so-called group pressure, so that he does not dare to mess around; Second, your permanent presence may make him worry too much about you, and he is bound to be disgusted by comparing the comfortable life of a person together. Moreover, the mother-son relationship is far more intense than the relationship between husband and wife, and it is not a long-term solution for you to stay there for a long time.

It is recommended that you use this time to cultivate some of your interests, such as going to fitness (it should also be necessary to recover after having a child), reading your favorite books, and walking around the small city to discover the beautiful places in the city.

Because each has half of it, but I think you should go, because you really want to go, and you can know if it's suitable or not, and if it's not good, come back.

I feel the same way as you, I have experienced it, and my current job is about the same as what you said, but there is room for me to develop here, but because it is too boring here, I have thought about leaving many times, but I don't feel good to talk to the boss, because the boss is very good to me, just because I can't find myself here. There is no personal space. So it's very boring.

But I persevered. I'm going to show you, it's a test for me, and I'm going to stick to it until the end, find something of my own, my own space. That's what I'm aiming for.

If your current job doesn't mean much to you. I advise you to leave early and find a new beginning. If you find it meaningful or challenging for you, then you stick with it.

Challenge yourself, that's what you should do, if you can't control yourself, then you don't have ego.

That's all I have to say, and I wish you a speedy liberation.

If that's the case, why not go? There is no place to stay here, there is a place to stay here.

But then again, are you familiar with your job? If not, why wouldn't it be better to understand it before leaving?

In fact, it's all the same, after working in one company for a long time, you feel very bored, even if you go to another company, it will be the same as the current situation after a long time. Persistence is victory.

I have also had this experience, but there are two situations that have arisen, the first is that I chose to leave the unit, but I later regretted that I did not find a good job when I left! It took three months to find out.

Later, I persevered, and as long as I persevered, the snow and ice would melt in winter, and at that time, spring would come.

Also, you can find a job and take on new challenges!

Hope it helps.

They are also working people, and they share their hearts.

I think the first thing to do is to adjust your own mentality.

You're not satisfied with your job and can't find a suitable home to accommodate you. It's normal to feel confused and anxious, but you can't let yourself in this state, you must take the initiative to solve this contradiction.

Let's find out if there is a better and more developing job, and at the same time do the job at hand well, maybe you have found the joy and hope in this job? I really can't realize it, and I have to find the next job before leaving. Unless you have a clear and firm plan for yourself, you can leave now.

Sometimes we feel that work and life are not good for this or that, but we must also think that reality cannot make us completely satisfied, we can only take care of one and the other, we must weigh their weight, and think clearly about what is most important to us.

Don't go in this form now, let's see at the end of the year!

Find the next home first, then jump, otherwise don't move.

I'm just like you.

But I'm ready to go.

I also haven't signed a contract for two months.

I'm really sorry.

I think FMCG should be a little better.

After all, no matter how bad the economy is, people still have to eat, brush their teeth, and take a shower every day, and I'm ready to jump in this direction.

I haven't found the next house, what are you going to do, let's do it first.

If you don't have a suitable job, you might as well change to a familiar environment.

This kind of life will be very lonely, and you will not be able to stand it for a long time. The work and environment are not what I like, and it is not a place worth nostalgia for.

What kind of job are you looking for? I'm in a situation similar to you, I've just come over after the year, persistence is victory, it's not advisable to give up halfway, even if you go, you have to make a little way to go again, it's not my style to walk in gray, I hope it can help you.

Stick to it, it's not easy to find a job that suits you, if you go to another city, you are likely to encounter the same situation, the advantage may not be as obvious as this city, I have also encountered the same situation, now looking back, many things stick to it and succeed!

Look at your ambition, if you are an ambitious and confident person, then I tell you, stay!! Even if you can't find your dream job right now, move towards your goal!

If you're trying your luck and haven't thought about what you have to do, just do it. (The cost may be... I dare not say).

Let's go, don't leave it to fend for yourself.

Go, change to a place that suits you.