I couldn t go to school when I was 14 years old because I was sick, and my family always scolded me

That's what they think about for you, "This society is very cruel and uneducated, what will happen to your future", they think so. So if you are angry and say it, you have to understand it, don't take it to heart. When they're gone, tell them about your plans for the future.

It's not that if you don't study, you won't have a way out.,The opportunity is around you.,And you're still young.,The road is still very long.,Don't be so negative.,"The road to the bridge, it's natural to go straight", and your hardships, I think they'll understand you.。。。

lz You can be stronger, and you can watch inspirational movies, books, shows, etc. when you have time. It's good for you!

Good luck!!!

Illiterate now refers to people who do not know how to learn, not people who do not have a diploma.

As long as you love learning, you can be self-taught, even at home.

We are the same age, I am in the third year of junior high school, and now I can't stand the pressure, I really envy you.

What about the old illiterate, do you deserve it?

In fact, you are not sad that your family scolds, but because you can't go to school like others, and you have an inferiority complex in your heart.

Be happy, no matter how big the illness is, you can overcome it, and you can learn it on your own.

I really sympathize with you, and you're only 14 years old? How can your family say that about you! Your family is too much, isn't it?

In addition, you are living for yourself, and since they are like this, you can only put them 54 first, and when you have a chance in the future, you can prove it to them! You can definitely do it! You still have a long way to go!

Learn by yourself, it's not your fault that you're sick, you have to show them, you're not useless, you can't do it, you can't only think of it.

Let's learn on your own. Take the career path. As long as you make money.

Rich. No one will say this about you. ，。

Teach yourself how to write, look at it more as an essay, and write a book when the level of writing is higher in the future. Then it's not illiterate.

Teach yourself. In fact, you are sick and can't go to school, and your family wants to forgive you.

But you can't put all the fault on someone else's place, you should work on it too!

Your family scolds you and wants to motivate you! ··

Not all "illiterate" will achieve nothing in the end, not to mention that you are still in the flowering season, the future is bright, and it is normal for your family's words to make you sad, because it is me and I will be like this, but you just have to work your own without their knowledge, you have time to read more good books, both increase reading and cultivate temperament, this is very good, I hope you can try, come on o(o

Your family is too hateful...I sympathize with you, you have to be happy, or you'll be mentally ill.

Children in the rebellious period cannot be beaten, and they must be patiently groomed.

During the rebellious period, it is necessary to pay attention to guidance.

If you really don't want to study with poor grades, you can consider learning technology.

Now there is quite a lot of development in learning technology.

I feel like it's good to learn to be a chef now. I think now is the best time to learn to be a chef, China's catering industry is developing faster and faster, and the number of chefs has not increased exponentially, and in a few years, there will be a shortage of chefs, and it is inevitable to get high salaries. But in the future, the competition in the chef industry will be very fierce, that is, whether the chef's skills are excellent, like the Sichuan cuisine that people are talking about now, it is very comfortable to go to the **.

Adolescence bar. Difficult. Find someone he's willing to reach out to and talk to him.

That's how my dad did to me.

They have a strong desire for autonomy, and with it, the more parents are in charge, the more the children are in reverse. Therefore, for children at this stage, parents may wish to give them some autonomy, but they are also required to bear all the consequences of this autonomy. Use more negotiation and communication, less scolding, and don't ask children to live according to their parents' wishes.

May I ask this parent, is my child going to school now, my child is now 14 years old, and he has not been in school for 1 month, and I am also very anxious.

You can choose a vocational (you can apply for a college degree in school) to study in a culinary technical school The school not only teaches cooking skills Teaching the production methods of various cuisines, honing the basic skills of chefs, it is usually practical teaching, and it will also teach a lot of hotel management experience After graduation, it will also recommend employment You can learn Chinese food, Western food, and pastry majors Choose these industries with a high employment rate

In every family, parents will always have a more preferred object, such as your younger brother is, your younger brother has been pampered since he was a child, and developed bad habits, and your parents will think that you have grown up, you should take care of your younger brother, not to blame, but in fact, your behavior is not to blame, just want him to correct, then, your parents' behavior is wrong, this behavior is likely to lead your younger brother to the point of no return, the child is still young, you must teach quickly, otherwise when he is older, It will be natural to ask your parents for money, if your parents don't give it for some reason, it may cause him to act too extremely, then it will be really irreparable, you should be a girl, if it's a girl, then it makes sense, your parents have a patriarchal now, this phenomenon is still common in today's society, so parents naturally pin their hopes on your brother, your brother wants to be sensible, you have to let him experience some human feelings, children who have not experienced setbacks will never grow up, You also have to relax, you can't always get along with your father, let your father have a bad influence on you, in fact, you are a good child, be more filial to your parents!

It is recommended that you continue to read, after all, books are for yourself, and if your attitude is very firm, I don't think your parents will insist too much.

If you really can't continue to read, and you can't stop acquiring knowledge, as you get older, whether or not you have ink in your stomach still has a great impact on people.

You're 14 years old, and it's not too big to say big, and it's not too small to say small. Parents let you go out to work, they must want you to share some of the pressure of family life for them, it is not easy to be a parent, you have to understand them. If you don't study now, if you can't help as much as you can at home, after a long time, people will be wasted.

Everyone is not in vain in this society, and they all carry their own responsibilities to be a useful person.

Parents are the ones who gave birth to you and raised you, they are the people who have no reason to harm you in the world, maybe their attitude and tone are a little rougher, if you can sit down, everyone can talk calmly (pay attention to your tone, you can't say something impulsively), I think there is no problem that can't be solved.

Why don't you stop reading, is it because of family conditions or because you don't want to read anymore?

Women may be abused by their parents.

Die, you don't even have the courage to live, aren't you just a waste.

In fact, it is still necessary to communicate.

The first thing to do is to determine why your brother doesn't study: maybe he can't study, or he doesn't want to study because he has a skill or career he wants to learn, or something else.

After determining the cause, prescribe the right medicine, don't keep forcing him to study, and avoid self-defeating.

Communicate! Communicate! Communicate! Say the important thing three times.

The rebellious period is also considered normal, and parents should communicate more.

It's a little abnormal, go to the psychiatrist.

You can learn some popular majors, such as intelligent networking, such as new energy vehicles.

Ask him what he wants to do, what he can go out and do, and if he can support himself now. What do you think.

Don't give up! Give up after being scolded by others! Is your mental quality so bad!

Not this time, next time I am working hard, constantly improving myself, constantly improving, life is to rely on myself to fight, strength is king, if you give up now, then what do you rely on in this world in the future, you have to believe in yourself, we have to rely on our own hands to hold up a piece of the sky! Come on, don't give up!

Don't be so willful, you should work hard to impress your parents with you, instead of playing petty here. Be responsible for your future.

It's so young that you don't go to school, it's hard to pick up garbage, and no one will accept you as a child laborer, only study well, at least mix high Chinese, and it's easier to find a job.

Well, of course, I asked for help from the ** department, what can I do in society at the age of 14, it's easy to get bad, the child is not right, and parents can't kick their children out of the house.

First, you recognize your own mistakes. If you don't go to school at the age of fourteen, think about what your life will be like in the future. What can you do, life can only help you for a while by relying on others' help, it can't help you for a lifetime, only by yourself can you change your life, and only by paying your own efforts can you survive better and worthwhile.

You have to go home and admit your mistakes to Dad and ask him for forgiveness. Then ask for your father's advice, go to a technical training school, and learn a skill, so that in the future, you will have a specialty and become a useful person in society. Use the skills you have learned to support yourself and repay your parents for their nurturing kindness.

I think you can go and reflect it to the local **.

Don't go out to work alone or something.

Because it's really, really easy to be deceived.

And your parents are obligated to raise you until you are 18 years old.

It's not them, it should be that they have to, but after the age of 18, they are not obligated to take care of you, so I think you can go and report to the local department and ask for help. Questions.

I took a break from my old school and was private.

Then school is about to start and I want to transfer.

If I can't turn around, they have to let me go on.

When I asked a question, I said I wanted to go to a technical school.

They asked me to work on my own to earn money.

I can't transfer to the public one.

Then you can communicate more with your parents, if they don't agree, then there is no way, you can communicate with them, the difficulties you have encountered in this school or why you want to transfer.

You tell them about it, and they know what's going on in your heart.

Otherwise, they will think that you are vexatious.

You can consider my suggestion for a moment.

If you don't talk to your parents, how will they know why?

What can I do if I don't go to school? Do you work as a construction site worker who eats on physical strength? Working as a hotel waiter? Say it's ugly, go out and sell it? If you can't make money, what can you do to support yourself? It's not enough to eat and wear, so why are you still alive?

If you can make your parents so angry that you kick you out of the house, then you are very powerful.

You should go home and apologize to your parents, either go to school or learn something, and you can start your own business when you don't go to school.

Nowadays, people have less and less conscience, and it is difficult to achieve the goal of asking for help for some things, as long as you feel right, do it, and remember that you are a person, a person in a civilized society.