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I don't think it's your problem, it's your husband's problem, your husband is a selfish person. If you want to be free from sin, instead of living like this, you might as well get divorced. Think about it, did you marry to be his venting tube?
Instead of living like this, being angry like this, and being beaten, I'm afraid your parents haven't beaten you, right? He dares to fight? Divorced like this!
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Don't pay attention to him, kick your nose in the face, you are his wife, not his concubine, why should you be angry with him, he has something to worry about, you can't bother him, you don't, why is what he says right, don't pay attention to him, whatever he likes, do whatever he likes, no matter him, whatever he likes.
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Maybe he has a knot in his heart that can't be opened, you'd better be cold to him for a while, don't provoke him, he can do whatever he wants, and if you do your own thing, don't ask him about it.
I don't think it's time for you to talk about it now, and when you're calm, he's losing his temper, and he probably thinks you're managing too much, and you're not working, he's unbalanced.
I hope you can be happy.
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If my husband yells at me at every turn, at this time I will let the other person know how important I am, so as to change my attitude towards myself, instead of letting the other person do whatever he wants.
The other party yelling at himself must be a person who will not control his temper, and at this time he should not quarrel with the other party, otherwise it will only escalate the conflict. When you are dissatisfied with the other party's behavior, you can let the other party know your attitude through some daily things, so that he understands that yelling will not solve any problems, and he is not a docile lamb.
In fact, husband and wife will encounter many problems in the process of getting along, but they cannot be solved by quarreling, which will lead to big problems. You can make the other person know that yelling will not improve in any way, but will make you feel uncomfortable and cause him to lose a virtuous wife. If the other party can change their attitude, then they will continue to pay for the family, which will make the other party realize their mistakes.
When the other party is calm, you must communicate well, tell the other party what is wrong, and you need to tell yourself calmly if you have any ideas, rather than solving them by yelling. As the wife of the other party, it is a person who has spent his life together, and if he is treated badly, he will definitely not have a good result. Marriage requires two people to manage it well, so that they can treat each other sincerely, and a friendly way is the best choice.
I am a person who can't accept the other person's yelling at me, but I don't respond in the same way, but let the other person try to live without my own life, so that the other person can learn to change. No matter who you are, you should overcome your temper well in marriage, and don't keep the worst temper for the person you love the most, which will only push the other party farther and farther away.
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What to do if your husband is grumpy and irritable:
1. Resolutely not give in.
In the face of irritable and irritable people, you must not give in, and the submission is not to counter violence with violence, but to not only accept his behavior, because the more you are obedient, he will see your weaknesses, often show off his power in front of you, and lose his temper at you, so that you become a bag of anger, and if this continues, the relationship between husband and wife will inevitably not appear gap.
2. Help him analyze the pros and cons after he calms down.
People with a bad temper also know that they are short-tempered and irritable, but it is always difficult to control at critical moments, as a wife, you might as well communicate with your husband when he calms down, analyze the pros and cons, let him realize the need to change the shortcomings in his personality, and encourage and trust.
3. Try to protect yourself.
Men who are short-tempered and irritable are most likely to have the behavior of throwing things, and they are also the most prone to violence, so women must pay attention to protect themselves and don't let the person you love the most hurt you.
What to do if my husband is grumpy and irritable:
4. Find the reason for your husband's bad temper.
A person's personality is affected by his family environment and other aspects, and it is generally stereotyped in adulthood, and it is difficult to change, but if it is pressure or later reasons that make his temper worse and worse, then we might as well try to find the cause of his bad temper, help him change or adjust with a positive attitude, reduce the number of tantrums, so that he can fully control his temper, it is really not good, you can find a psychologist**.
5. Let the child soothe her husband's irritable emotions.
Every father should love his children, and the innocence of the child can also move people the most, teach his children to comfort the husband who is still losing his temper, maybe it can soothe his irritable emotions!
6. Pay attention to your husband's physical health.
People who are short-tempered and irritable are the most hurtful to the liver, and this kind of person is also the most likely to get sick, so the wife should help her husband to regulate his body through appropriate diet and relieve his mental pressure.
People's emotions can always show some problems, why people love to lose their temper, because of low self-esteem, anger can hide incompetence, but this is not good.
I think I'd talk about my own unhappiness.
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