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In the process of getting along with two people, it is very pleasant, but we will also find that there are many couples who are obviously in love with each other, but they are separated, what could be the reason?
1. The pressure of real life is too great for two people to bear.
If two people want to be together, then they are faced with the problem of buying a house and a car, maybe the car is not bought, usually when commuting, you can take the bus and subway, but if two people are together and have been renting a house, then, at any time, you may face problems such as landlord price increase and need to move, this unstable factor will make couples have contradictions, even if two people love each other very much, in the face of reality, they will be pressed to the point that they can't hold their heads up, and eventually may be due to money problems, so that the relationship has no way to continue.
2. Due to the obstruction of his parents, he chose to break up for the sake of family affection.
If the parents feel that two people only have feelings, and other conditions are not mature, they do not agree with two people together, many times, we have no choice in front of love and affection, many people in order to repay their parents' nurturing grace, they will give up love, although it is very painful, but there is no way to do it.
3. Break up due to a misunderstanding.
In addition to some external conditions, many couples love each other very much, but there are many cases of breaking up because of some trivial things, this is because both people may be very young and unwilling to bow to each other, because some misunderstandings are not solved in time, resulting in a breakup, maybe one day, when you find out, really misunderstand each other, it is a very heart-wrenching thing, even if you want to be together, it is already a matter of fact, so when couples get along, you must communicate more, because communication is the best way to avoid misunderstandings. It is not easy for two people to come together, and it is also a kind of fate, so they should cherish each other and understand each other, so as to avoid breakups caused by misunderstandings.
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obviously love each other, but they separate, the reason may be that the identities of the two are not equal, or neither party can make compromises for each other, which causes the two to have to separate.
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The reason is the interference of others, most likely because the parents do not agree with the relationship, and in the end, it will also lead to the separation of the two people.
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Hello, the reason may be the opposition of the parents, and only the parents do not agree, but the two people have no way to be together, after all, they are their own parents and have to listen to them. Hope mine satisfies you.
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There are many reasons why you love each other but are separated, perhaps because of reality or because the two people are far away. Or it is not recognized by parents and relatives at home.
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Maybe two people love each other and have children, husband and wife, this is an extramarital affair, or maybe one party has a husband, wife and children, and you love others again, it will also be separated, love and marriage are the magic weapons of single people, only pure love is not separated.
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There are many reasons why we can't be together, and external factors such as economic ** and parental disapproval may be the most critical. I don't know what kind of person you so-called love can't be together, so both parties have to work hard to do it, because the main effort will have results.
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Two people obviously love each other, but they are separated, then the reason between them should not be the emotional problems between the two people, but some objective problems that exist in reality and cannot be alleviated, such as family reasons for both parties.
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It may be because of pressure in life, or because the family is under pressure, and the family does not agree with them being together, so they are forced to separate.
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I feel that there must be two people together, and the three views do not agree. No matter what you do, you can't think of going together. You want this, he wants that, and no one will obey anyone. No one will compromise.
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It may be that each other's personalities are not suitable, or it may be because loving each other does not mean that they can get along better.
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If, you are very compatible and love each other. There may be a hidden meaning in the sense of separation. You have to ask thoughtfully! Don't stress her out. Or you can try.
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Love is not so regrettable, so it is said that there will be frequent ** things, you should be more tolerant and tolerant, and you should think that not every love will be so successful.
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The reason for breaking up is not that you don't love each other anymore, but because of some reason and some kind of hindrance, so that you can't be together, which causes your heart to be unwilling, two people who obviously love each other, but are forced to separate for various reasons.
Maybe he really loves you, but because of reality or the parents of the dissipator can't be together, or maybe he has done something sorry for you, making you feel that being with such a person is a kind of torture, you have deep affection for your ex, but the other party has hurt you ruthlessly, how can you be with him?
No matter what the reason is, this kind of unwillingness is actually because it hurts your self-esteem and makes you question the person and even yourself in this relationship, so you have a deep unwillingness buried in your heart, making you feel that there is no need to continue this relationship, but you still want to know the other party's situation, and even hope that they are not doing well, and they are more or less gloating.
If you have unwilling thoughts about your relationship, in fact, a long time ago, your relationship slowly fell over time, the relationship was not stable enough, the foundation was not strong enough, and it may be just an impulse to be together at the beginning.
In the past, you were two people who were so affectionate, you didn't talk about anything, you liked to stick together, you didn't feel annoyed at any time, and you were used to having a day every day.
Even if two people are always in conflict and quarrel, it is just a spice in your love life.
But it turned out that two good people, in the end they broke up, you can't accept this gap, you can't get used to the days of life without ta, or habitually open the chat window every day, want to say good morning and good night to ta, hope that the other party will take the initiative to find you, but you know that it is impossible, the moment you open the phone, you may be sad tears are about to fall, no one will care about you in the future, feel sorry for you, when you think of losing someone who loves you so much, you may not help but burst into tears again.
When you walk down the street alone, you will remember the way they stopped to tie your shoes, when you pass by the bubble tea shop, you will remember the appearance of the person queuing up for you to buy milk tea under the scorching sun, and when you go to the supermarket to buy snacks and can't reach the potato chips you want, you will think again.
He gets what you like and laughs at you proudly, your mind is full of the other party's appearance, good and bad, always inadvertently appear in your mind, so that you are deep, so that you can't extricate yourself, at a moment, your emotions will be detonated, and even cry non-stop, so, how do you forget each other, the more you want to forget, the more profound it is.
Why do you still want to forget, after all, you have been together for so long and have loved for so long, how can you say that you will forget?
For the people who are lost, don't feel too sorry, if you don't love it, let it go, and if you still love it, you will chase it back, for the people around you, just cherish it, the days together are good days.
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Everyone always has a certain reason when lying, maybe she has some other thoughts in her heart but can't let you know, what she can't let you know is not necessarily bad, maybe she has to cheat on you because she loves you, but it's good to say it, I hope you understand: some misunderstandings are something we can't afford in our lifetime, don't miss a lifetime because of some misunderstandings.
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I'm sure someone will ask me, "Teacher, how do I express my needs?"
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