Does a person calculate others, but also calculates himself?

It is true that if a person is always calculating others, he is actually calculating himself, because when you are calculating others, you will also make others feel distant from you.

Yes, because many times the plan is in the people, the success is in the sky, the more you calculate something, the more you have to lose something, the calculating people only have money in their eyes, only interests, and finally cocoon themselves and lift a stone to shoot themselves in the foot.

I think so, because after you calculate others, others are not stupid, they will know, and your future development will be restricted, thinking that your character has been questioned.

I don't think so, calculating others is actually harming others and benefiting oneself, and the result is to benefit oneself, which is actually very immoral.

Yes, I think it's just a reincarnation, planting melons and getting melons, planting beans and getting beans, calculating others is calculating yourself.

Treat the person who has been calculating you, keep the silence, the silent person is incomprehensible, and he does not dare to act rashly.

The heart of guarding against others is indispensable, and the heart of harming others is indispensable." It means that you must have the idea of not harming others, and at the same time, you must be wary of others in order to avoid trouble.

If you meet someone who often does irrelevant things for various reasons, and you don't get the slightest benefit. In this case, don't compromise and know how to make a clear refusal, unless it's a win-win situation.

The way to behave in the world.

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very bad impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

"Saying something that makes you angry as soon as we meet" is not calculating you, it is clearly aimed at you. The person who calculates you can't see it in person, and on the surface it is quite compatible with you. Therefore, the person who can shoot you openly is still an upright person.

Appreciate her well, she said her, you can praise her in turn.

Don't always think about revenge, as the saying goes: you can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.

Since someone wants to calculate you, it means that you must have done something wrong, and it is the right thing to do to find out where your problems lie and turn enemies into friends.

It's just playing with you, and it's very insidious to be insincere

It's just thinking about how to yin you in the Fa. Or think about how the Fa can harm your interests.

My understanding is to do something bad for others.