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Hello, the reason why people who do not have a wide range of knowledge, few friends, and are kind and introverted are easy to be calculated, it is because this kind of people have insufficient knowledge reserves, or are limited in knowledge learning, which will make them not know what the other party is doing when they are calculated. It is common to say that people often mention that "reading and reading are stupid", lack a certain amount of social experience, because "can read" to increase their unwarranted self-confidence, resulting in them being unable to see the truth clearly when they are calculated.
You said that this kind of person lacks social experience, the scope of knowledge reserve is not wide, and he lacks social experience, and if he wants to gain understanding, he can only use friends, self-verification and other methods. The problem is that the person you describe has to question the person who calculates him before he learns about it through friends or self-verification. However, due to the lack of knowledge, the self-knowledge of things that are calculated by others is extremely poor, coupled with the kindness and introversion, I don't want to bother my friends because of my own affairs, which will lead to a situation where I don't want to know about my friends.
I will only help this kind of person when my friends find out, and it is difficult to take the initiative to find friends to help solve it.
To sum up, the type of person you described may have a hard time communicating with people because of their personality, and frankly, introverts are more interested in solitude than about making friends. It's like a person living in his own "little world". Because of the lack of knowledge, the self-knowledge of being calculated is extremely poor, and it may have some foolish thoughts, only thinking about others, and not thinking about the consequences that it will bear at all.
In the ignorant and fearless way of doing things, it is easy to be calculated.
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The knowledge is not wide, the friends are relatively few, and the kind, introverted people are often more lacking in social theory, such people are indeed easy to be calculated by some people with ulterior motives around them, but this is not the decisive factor, the most important thing depends on whether their hearts are strong enough, whether they have enough inner self-confidence.
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Why do I come and hear the opposite of you? I'm not really going to be friends with scheming and calculating people. As the saying goes, there are no eternal enemies, only eternal interests, you use them to treat you as a friend, you are useless, hehe, I won't say more.
And simple people like you is like, hate you is hate, and make you a friend for a lifetime.
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Scheming and scheming are two different words.
There is a lot of scheming.
The zhi people of the heart eye, the dao heart eye has a time, and it is good and bad. Completely focusing on oneself and ignoring others, that is not a good scheming.
As for the scheming, the scheming is a man of strategy and wisdom. Often when encountering people who are very disgusting, such as people with many hearts and eyes, and people who like to take advantage of small advantages, they will be able to resolve the crisis with ease. It is also commonly referred to as a smart person who handles things smoothly.
Therefore, as the saying goes, you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people. But in the current society, there will be a lot of helplessness to contact these people of all religions and nine ranks, there are great evils and annihilations, there are real villains, and there are hypocrites. If you will only be dike everywhere and stay away, and have no plan and no tactful way of doing things, then the natural circle of friends will become narrow.
In any era, it is the strong who are respected. There are thieves and thieves, but the object of your scourge, can you get the protection of **. If you take Lai Changxing as an example, he is much stronger than these two people, both black and white, and he can eat them all.
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Scheming people take into account what their friends care about, pay more attention to details, and don't know anything without scheming, and can't give anything.
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Twig Workplace: Why are honest people who are kind and introverted easy to be bullied? I really didn't expect the reason.
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The law of the jungle must protect yourself, what others do to me, what I do to others.
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So learn to protect yourself, make yourself strong, and keep breaking through yourself. Cunning people, others will not be deeply acquainted.
On the contrary, we prefer to have a deep friendship with honest people, but to be cheerful, to prove yourself boldly, not that you can't fight back, but that you are disdainful, introverts will suffer, but you also have to be appropriately smart.
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People are in awe of the strong, bullying the weak and fearing the hard, from ancient times to the present, without exception!
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People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden! It's not necessarily a good thing to be honest in this society.
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Honest and introverted, not enterprising, inactive, cowardly, not suitable for this competitive society.
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Recently, I read a sentence and felt a little truth: people will deceive themselves, and then others will deceive them!
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People are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden, and society is like this
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Because of the economy and society, people die for money, and birds die for food.
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That kind of person doesn't deserve friends! Asking such a question proves that you are not that big! This kind of friend is like a friend of wine and meat! On the surface, it is high-sounding! Slowly you will understand! Except for parents! Don't trust anyone easily.
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Your friend is selfish, and he has another purpose for befriending you. Win your trust, and then calculate you.
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People are selfish and think they are wise. Opportunistic and clever, everyone else is stupid and calculates him.
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Alas, this is the case when people are separated from their stomachs.
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Is that a friend? Once you see it clearly, you will break off your relationship, don't be soft-hearted.
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Because profit is his friend.
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。Knowing people, knowing faces, but not knowing hearts, this kind of person must not have deep friendships!
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If you can't say it, others won't blame you, people's personality is like this, there are talkative people in the world, and there are naturally people who are less talkative.
If you really don't want to be like this all the time, then find a few good friends who talk a lot, and you will naturally be infected after spending a long time together.
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Introverts are not good at expressing their emotions, so they have fewer friends, but the friends they make are the more iron-clad kind.
Introverts are silent on the surface, but on the inside, they are excited.
Introverts like to vent a lot of their thoughts in their journals and like to write down their secrets.
Introverts like to reminisce, like to fantasize, and like to think alone. Listeners who like to focus.
Introverts are reluctant to ask for help from others, preferring to take some detours themselves rather than ask others for help.
Introverts are very face-saving and would rather suffer some losses for themselves than let others look down on them.
Introverts are not good at words and often struggle with how to communicate.
Introverts don't like to say before they do, they like to prove themselves with actions, they don't boast about their excellent results, and they like to let others say how humble they are.
Introverts have low self-esteem and easily ignore their own strengths and care too much about the strengths of others.
An introvert is a perfectionist who wants everything to be perfect.
Introverts are very shy, at a disadvantage in the expression of feelings, and like to be in a passive position in love, enjoying the feeling and sweetness of being loved.
Introverts like to hide in a corner and cry secretly when they are hurt. All the grievances and pain let their tears wash away.
Introverts have few friends, but they are all confidant, and they are always eager to give their hearts to each other in their interactions, without any hypocrisy.
Introverts are persistent and like to bury their love deep in their hearts.
Introverts are very focused, like to work on something that interests them for a long time, and even forget about their bedtime.
Introverts care a lot about other people's opinions, are always hesitant and undecided, and sometimes even lose themselves in order to cater to others.
Introverts love fantasy, like to live a quiet and leisurely life, and always yearn for the paradise-like life of the ancients.
Introverts are very emotional, and when they reach a certain level, they are willing to give their lives for you.
Introverts tend to be gullible and often suffer from this.
Introverts are easily hurt and even more vulnerable to relationships.
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No, extroverted friends are nice and easy to get along with.
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Never feel that you have few friends, or who to compare, why do people have so many friends?
Dozens of very good friends? Are you sure?
If you have 100 friends you need to help everyone, on the contrary, you have a friend, you say you have something to do, he will help you without saying a word, which of these two situations do you choose?
I believe that most people choose only one friend, true friends are really not easy to make, if there is a cherished it, another sentence to send you, to whom the relationship is better, the more money exchanges between them.
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There are many introverts, and it is also a good thing to be sincere to others, and having few friends is actually not a bad thing, but you must have one or two intimate or good friends.
If you think you have fewer friends, you might as well open your heart a little, and the other is to have good emotional intelligence, so that your popularity will be better and it will be easy to make friends.
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I'm just like you, but I have very few friends. It's normal to have fewer friends. Just be happy and be yourself. Don't care what other people think.
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Honest people are not too narrow-minded, but too broad-minded, and they are willing to help others without expecting anything in return.
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Judging from your description, introverted and honest people can't talk to anyone, mainly because they are too introverted, many words can't be spoken, and they can't express their opinions in words.
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I think that's an introvert, it's not because his knowledge is too narrow, there are many people who are introverted even if they graduate from college or graduate school, this has something to do with personality, just talk to others and practice.
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Not necessarily, it may also be a little embarrassed, at first I wanted to say that I was afraid of affecting others, but then I couldn't interject. In short, it is to consider other people's feelings too much, don't think too much and try to say, it will be good to exercise slowly for a while, otherwise the more you don't speak, the more you can't find the topic.
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You can talk to others more often, so that you can become more and more lively, and you can also read more books to increase your knowledge.
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The introverted teacher can't talk to him, for sure, because he is more restrained in his speech, and sometimes he can't let go, who knows that you can't be too subtle when you pay attention to the way you speak?
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Then read more books, they will like you.
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Maybe it's just more shy, low-key, and doesn't like to communicate with people very much.
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It has nothing to do with the breadth of knowledge, it has to do with the individual's personality.
Introverts are generally not confident, they are easy to be shy when talking to outsiders, and they have a low emotional intelligence, that is, they will not be able to deal with interpersonal relationships.
This is a vicious circle, not liking to talk to outsiders makes people's horizons smaller, disconnected from society, and slowly does not integrate into the group life of outsiders.
The easiest solution is to go out, don't stay at home all day, don't make life too monotonous, try to integrate into the outside life, and have your own circle of friends.
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It's like an honest man, and everyone says it's not like that.
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