Some people originally wanted to calculate the results of others and put themselves in it?

People with too many eyes in people's hearts are not good things, people with many eyes always love to calculate others, life is not as shrewd as kindness, calculation is not as sincere, only people with good thoughts have room for things, keep a mercy for others, treat others sincerely, don't calculate too well, but lose yourself.

There is an old saying: You are a good person, but you can't count the sky.

So, don't think about taking advantage of others, asking for people's interests, you can calculate for a while, you can't calculate for a lifetime, people are doing it, the sky is watching, and the mechanism will calculate sometimes, and your fate will be caused by your calculations.

As a man, if there is no bottom line, he always wants to rely on despicable means to get benefits, so this is actually smart and mistaken by cleverness.

People are doing, the sky is watching, everything that life does is in the eyes of God, Lao Tzu said, the sky is all-inclusive, but the way of heaven cannot be violated.

People who follow the way of heaven will always get good results, and people who go against the sky are often punished by God for calculating others.

People who are too calculating are difficult to be satisfied in life, and often have disputes with others, and they can't get by, so they have a dark heart and want to take revenge on others, and finally become self-defeating and harm themselves.

People who are too calculating are gray in their hearts, even if they have the upper hand, but they are killed because of greed in their hearts.

That's often the way things are, so what to do, think carefully about the prestige of the moment, and in the end, the damage of others will return to yourself.

This is called "the heart of harming people must not be had, and the heart of preventing people is indispensable" (this kind of thing, I have personally experienced it!). This kind of villain, I have seen it with my own eyes)!

Don't bully and calculate the IQ of the victim!!

This kind of conspiracy against others can only have two results: not the same end; It is to leave by yourself (depending on the seriousness of the circumstances of the matter)!!

This is called harming others instead of harming oneself.

It is also a kind of retribution.

Society should talk about doing good deeds and accumulating virtues.

The heart of defense is indispensable.

Do not have the intention of harming others.

Don't always think about hurting people!

That's true, stealing chickens doesn't make rice, and that's the result.

As the saying goes, people are not as good as heaven, and in the end, they calculate themselves.

Just live your life.

People will have their own intelligence, people with high IQ are smart, and people with low IQ also have their own little intelligence.

In life, some people use their cleverness in their own careers, while some people dedicate their cleverness to calculating others.

If a person calculates another person at the same time, he calculates one person, two people, three people, and in turn three people calculate him at the same time, the result is that it is he who suffers the loss, just because one punch is difficult to defeat the second.

In life, people will inevitably encounter all kinds of enemies, in fact, having their own enemies is not a bad thing, why? Because you have your own enemies, you know that there are wins and losses, and after losing, you know how to defeat others, but there is one thing you must not forget, if you want to defeat others, you must first defeat yourself, what I mean by defeating others, is not to let you play any scheming, calculating others or something, is to show your own true ability, real ability to defeat others.

If you have to use your own cleverness and small measurement to calculate others, the final result is that you will move bricks and hit your own feet, and you will suffer the loss.

Because from ancient times to the present, evil does not prevail over good, good is rewarded, and evil is rewarded!

People who like to calculate others often end up calculating themselves.

Summary. Question 1: What should you do when you encounter this situation?

Answer: "You can't have the heart to defend against others, and you can't have the heart to harm people." It means that you must have the idea of not harming others, and at the same time, you must be wary of others in order to avoid trouble.

If you meet someone who often does irrelevant things for various reasons, and you don't get the slightest benefit. In this case, don't.

When you are calculating others, others are calculating you.

Answer: Regarding the relationship between psychological counseling and psychological **, Chen Zhonggeng believes that there is no essential difference between the two, and they are similar in the nature of the relationship, in the process of change and learning, and in the theory of guidance. If there is a difference, it is also artificial and non-essential [1] .

Clause. First, the tasks of the work are different. The task of psychological counseling is primarily to facilitate.

You've done a great job! Can you elaborate on that?

Question 1: What should you do when you encounter this situation? A:

The heart of guarding against others is indispensable, and the heart of harming others is indispensable." It means that you must have the idea of not harming others, and at the same time, you must be wary of others in order to avoid trouble. If you meet someone who often does irrelevant things for various reasons, and you don't get the slightest benefit.

In this case, don't.

The reasons for this are as follows:

1. Lack of information: Failure to calculate others may be due to a lack of key information or a lack of deep understanding of the opponent, resulting in inaccurate plans and strategies, resulting in the failure of calculations.

2. Unstable environment: The competitive environment may be dynamic and uncertain, and the actions and reactions of the adversary may exceed the expectations of the off-cheating group, and in such an environment, the calculating opponent may need more keen insight and rapid reaction ability, otherwise it may not be able to effectively implement the calculating strategy.

3. The opponent's ability to countercalculate: If the opponent has a high IQ, experience, or strategic ability, they may realize that they are being calculated and take appropriate measures to deal with it, such as adopting defensive measures, counter-calculation strategies, or mitigating the effects of the calculation by cooperating with others.

4. Resource limitations: Calculations require sufficient resources and execution to implement, if they lack sufficient resources or teamwork skills are not strong, then the probability of success of the calculated brothers will be reduced.

It's best not to try to calculate others, but if the opponent is too much, you can talk openly and honestly after knowing his movements, harmony and friendship are the most important, and maybe you can win together.

It is normal for everyone to have their own careful thinking and calculations, at this time, it depends on who is more powerful on both sides, and only enough ability and strategy can convince people.

When this happens, I don't think it's necessary to care too much about other people's feelings, it's better to be ourselves than anything else, and we should be a good person no matter what.

1. Only by being careful can you observe the subtleties, and if you can't see through it, you won't say it, and if you can't see it clearly, you won't be able to communicate with each other. 2. Get along with others with scale, don't be too intimate and reveal secrets. 3. Observe more people and things around you to prevent problems before they happen.

It is almost impossible to be purely uncalculated by others. To avoid being less calculated, we must first make ourselves the focus of non-contradictions, "the wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it", "the gun shoots the first bird"; secondly, we should be modest and cautious, not arrogant or impatient, lenient to others, and not "take the initiative" to become the target of others' calculations; The third is to maintain a relationship with the villain, so that they can see and touch. Some things are just "the way, the very way", the same thing, some people do it, some people can't do it, this requires the accumulation of long-term lessons and lessons, it is difficult to explain clearly, the same practice for different things, there will be different consequences, whether it will be calculated, it depends on the specific situation.

The more kind-hearted you are, the more you have to keep three sentences in mind in order not to be calculated by the villain.