My daughter has a bit of a bad problem, does your child have such a bad problem ?

Is it capricious? Self-willedness is a bad tendency that tends to occur in a child's personality, which is manifested as a high degree of self-centeredness, doing whatever he wants, and not listening to advice.

There are two main reasons for willfulness, one is that children are limited by their cognitive level, and they are not good at thinking about problems from the perspective of others, and only consider their own needs and emotions. In particular, children aged 3-4 years old have improved their mobility much more than before the age of 3, so they pursue autonomy in activities and try to express their will, and enter the so-called "first resistance period" period, often refusing to do things according to their parents' intentions. Second, due to improper family education, parents spoil their children excessively, obey their children, and even accommodate unreasonable requests, forming the habit of self-centeredness in children.

When something goes wrong, the child will cry and fuss until the parent gives in. The child soon discovers that as long as he insists, the parent will always give in. As a result, he developed a willful personality.

Therefore, from the very beginning, parents should insist on loving but not spoiling, and explain the reason with their children in case of trouble, so that children know how to respect the different opinions of others and not be self-centered.

For children who have formed a willful personality, parents should be good at regulating and guiding. When your child may be willful, take the initiative to divert their attention.

For children who are in wayward seizures, you can ignore them for a while, as long as there are no safety problems, you can let him be alone for a while, calm him down first, and then reason with him. If the child behaves willfully in a public place, it should be seriously stopped, the child should be removed from the scene, and the activity should be suspended and the activity should be resumed after the child has calmed down.

No, that's pretty much it.

Don't spoil your child too much, let him get in touch with a little more children of the same age, maybe she can learn a little bit of something, let him know that he is going to make friends, I believe it will change.

In daily life, it is often seen that some children have some abnormal actions such as squeezing their eyebrows, making faces, twisting their bodies, or clearing their throats, sniffing and other abnormal sounds, and it is difficult to control the intervention of outsiders, and parents often think that it is a "bad problem". Actually, it's not, it's actually a mental illness, medically known as "tic disorder".

It usually occurs in children between the ages of 2 and 12 and is more common in boys. It is mainly manifested as involuntary, repetitive, rapid, and aimless motor and vocal tics in one or more parts. This disease is not only difficult for the general public to identify, even if the medical community in China is very confused, they often mistakenly believe that the manifestations of these children are "bad diseases", or misdiagnosed as "conjunctivitis (manifested by repeated blinking)", chronic pharyngitis (manifested by long-term repeated dry cough and throat clearing), myocarditis (manifested by long sighs), epilepsy, etc.

In the past, the disease was thought to be rare, remedy, and unnecessary. This is not the case, a large number of studies have confirmed that the prevalence of this disease is above, accounting for about 25% of children's mental illness, the course of the disease is more than a year and it is difficult to heal itself, which troubles and affects the life and learning of the child and those around him, and can cause inferiority complex or other mental disorders for a long time. Therefore, early intervention is warranted**.