I m entangled in dealing with people, I m very entangled in doing things

Those who have a lot of friends are more open and tolerant. If you only stick to one idea and listen to one voice, it is obviously not suitable to communicate with more people, because the more people there are, the greater the difference in ideas. It's important to listen and understand different ideas.

I've found that a lot of people have a negative first reaction when they encounter different ideas, and I'm changing it now. It's also not good for communicating with others, because you're always living in your own point of view and can't really communicate with others.

If you want to make more friends, you should also participate in more offline activities, bravely talk to strangers, and communicate with different people, you can get a lot of new friends. Don't stay at home, even if you stay at home, you should often go to Weibo, blogs, and forums to see new ideas and new things. But I think offline activities can make you make more friends, and online communication is limited.

Limited personal life experience.

Dealing with people more decently, having rich experience in interacting with people, making a few mistakes and taking a little detour, will naturally do better. Don't be afraid to take detours, it will make you walk more solidly.

If you can't express your own opinions, learn to listen more, ask them in the link you don't understand, ask them out during a pause in the other party's topic, don't pretend to understand if you don't understand, don't know is not know, and there is nothing embarrassing to humbly ask for advice. Get the other person's thank you

Summary. If he told someone something, he would definitely feel angry, and if he felt angry, he should reprimand you or scold you in person, but he didn't. on 2022-04-04

Kiss and wait a minute.

Hello. Objectively speaking, it is because of the shallow experience and the lack of rich knowledge reserves, coupled with a weak temperament, so when facing things, I don't know how to choose. After a lot of experience, I can have a good understanding of things, and I can make quick decisions in front of most things.

It is easier to get entangled in doing things, mainly because you don't know what you want or your purpose, and the deeper reason is that you haven't found your true self, so you don't have an opinion when faced with choices, and then there is a problem of struggling with everything.

Hello dear kiss, teachers usually don't tell others or your mother. He probably didn't hear it, but if he did, he would have communicated with you directly on the spot, not to go down and tell your mom not to worry.

Why? I said him, and I said I was wondering, are you deaf, because he said I read the manuscript. There were also some unpleasant things that I forgot about afterwards.

Kiss. Teachers generally don't say bad things to parents behind their backs, and if they hear it, they know that you don't like him. He usually doesn't pay attention to these things, after all, it's normal for students to have emotions.

He will also understand you and will not tell your parents.

Rest assured. I know that others are not idle, but I am afraid.

If you are really scared, it is recommended that you apologize to the teacher and tell him that you are today. If the mood is not very good, he will say that he hopes he can forgive you.

But most teachers don't take it to heart.

If I don't apologize, will he tell someone else?

Hello, kiss the teacher, is it not going to tell others, he will not take it to heart.

If he says something to others, he must feel very angry, and if he feels angry, he should reprimand you or scold you in person, but he doesn't, so it means that he is not angry, so naturally he will not tell others.

But I'm still scared, so I suggest you don't think about it all the time.

Get more exercise and do what interests you.

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It's very tangled in doing things.

Hello dear. I'm Sister Crystal, a psychologist. I'm 50 years old.

is a Master of Education. National Level 2 Psychological Counselor. Secondary school teacher.

He has been counseling in colleges and universities for more than 10 years. Good at marriage and family. Interpersonal relationship.

Emotion. Welcome your inquiry. I will serve you honestly and thoughtfully.

Good morning, dear.

Can you describe your problem in detail, what are you doing very tangled, what are you tangled, is it a little difficult to choose, in fact, you are accompanied by anxiety.

Hello, I just ate in the cafeteria, because I glanced at the food of the other class, and then I just stood there and thought for a long time, and I thought to myself, I spit saliva into the food, but this is actually a fake or I imagined it. And then when a teacher came out in the back, I seemed to be embarrassed to him, and when I left, I also said a lot of unpleasant things, and I was very struggling with what the teacher would say to my parents.

You're in middle school, aren't you, even if the teacher says it, you shouldn't be too guilty, you don't like the food in the cafeteria, it's a normal need for children.

No, I'm the daughter of the kindergarten principal, and I'm scared of whether the teachers will tell my parents.

Knowing that it was a troublemaker, they probably wouldn't have said it.

I don't think that teacher would talk to my parents, or to other people, and talk about me behind my back. Because no one will be idle.

That means that the teacher won't say it, it's that I think too much. I spit saliva into the rice, which I came up with, which means that this is fake, not real. When I went to dinner, I thought to myself that this should be true.

That's why I suddenly followed that teacher. And then that teacher also has a job. So they probably won't talk to them or say anything.

So why do I sometimes think about things that I think I did. For example, when I was on the subway once, I kept looking at the logo of the emergency valve door, and then when I got off the train, I would feel like I had opened the emergency valve door, and then I was very confused. Actually, if I didn't open the door, I would feel like that.

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You are delusional. Over-idealization.

So how to improve this, I don't think those teachers should say it, because everyone is not idle.

Oh, yes. What else do you perform? Is it the delusion of being harmed by others? It's okay not to get enough sleep.

Nightmares?

If people live too hard, they will be too tired.

If you eat, you will definitely be hungry if you don't eat. But if it's life, even if you don't choose, time passes day by day, and the result will become clearer and clearer as things develop. Whether it's good or bad, there are some things that don't get so tangled, it's better to be selfish, and follow the path you want to take.

Personally, I think that it is better to be a man and be a free and easy person, so that I am relatively happier.

It is impossible for a person's life not to be entangled, but it is also not too entangled, there will always be things that are difficult to choose, at this time you can discuss with relatives or friends, no matter what you need to have a choice, right?

There is really no need to be too entangled in life, what can be done in moderation, and master a degree. There's no need to keep dwelling on that way, you can only make yourself miserable, and you won't be happy when you do anything, so don't be too entangled, so you can be happy. Problems can also be dealt with satisfactorily.

Yes, getting too entangled will make you feel bad, and sometimes you will miss good opportunities.