Can you get a divorce, what to do with the children, I hope that the master will give you guidance 2

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It's not that you want to get a divorce, but you can't get by, so it's better to leave.

The children of a divorced husband and wife are to be raised by one of the husband and wife, and the custody of the children may be decided by agreement between the two parties, and if the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the husband and wife and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor children. The non-direct supporter shall pay alimony in accordance with the agreement or judgment.

[Legal basis].

According to Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China, which came into effect in 2021.

The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true intentions and wishes shall be respected.

The above is only the current information combined with my understanding of the law, please refer to it carefully!

If you still have questions about this issue, it is recommended that you sort out the relevant information and communicate with a professional in detail.

Legal analysis: 1. Children under the age of two live with the woman in principle. However, if the two parties reach an agreement and there is no adverse effect on the healthy growth of the children, they can also live with the man.

2. If the child is under the age of two at the time of divorce, if the woman has any of the following circumstances that are not conducive to raising the child, she can live with the man: (1) suffering from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, and the child is not suitable to live with her, etc. [Legal basis].

Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling. Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, a reprieve or divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted: (1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other bad habits that have been repeatedly taught and not changed; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted. Article 1085:After divorce, where children are directly raised by one party, the other party shall bear part or all of the child support.

The amount of the cost to be borne and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. The agreement or judgment provided for in the preceding paragraph does not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent in excess of the amount originally set forth in the agreement or judgment when necessary. Article 1087:In the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.