My boyfriend is a straight man with cancer, what should I do?

Respect each other, guide him appropriately, let him learn to respect you and respect women.

In fact, most men will have some straight male cancer. But if it is a straight man with advanced cancer, then if he learns to respect you, I hope you can respect yourself, don't change yourself because of some views of the other party's straight man cancer, protect yourself, and slowly guide him.

If you still can't learn, then if you can accept it, you can still get along. If you can't accept it, it means that the three views don't agree, so give up. It is difficult to save if the three views do not coincide.

Sometimes some of the straight male cancer behaviors of boys are very cute, so be good at finding the good, and the bad, you should be able to make some changes. <>

When two people get along, the best thing is to respect each other, you respect him, he also respects you, then his straight male cancer has little impact on your relationship.

I have a friend's sister and her boyfriend is very straight, but they still have a very good relationship because of mutual respect and understanding.

So you'd better respect him and let him learn to respect women, if you really can't accept his straight male cancer behavior, then break up. Give it a try, try it, and maybe he'll be willing to change for you.

It seems that during this period of time, straight male cancer has been mentioned quite a lot. Because it doesn't matter if it's good or bad, comment below, and what I hear is more about straight men and bad guys. Because because of the directness of their words and the decisiveness of their ideas, they have wrong ideas about some girls.

They may think that girls shouldn't wear makeup, or rather, girls wear makeup just to show men, or what? Sometimes they think really strangely, sometimes we can't think of this way of explanation, but they can think, I don't know if it's the change of society, the environment, that makes them like this, or what's the reason? If you can accept her, this character, of course you can choose to accept it, you can talk to her and say if you can change your straight male cancer a little.

Because you're not very happy doing it. If he really likes you, he will definitely be willing to make some changes for you. <>

If you can't accept this idea of straight male cancer at all, I'll tell you to break up with him as soon as possible, because you are the only one who will be sad at that time, because they will not be doing their own wrong. Do they think they do the right thing? They are very perfect people, but they don't know that it's really their kind of thinking that hurts them.

Whether it's to change something or break up with him, you must think clearly about the consequences, because no matter what we do, we should have a plan? I hope you can, just imagine, what will happen in the future. No matter what kind of thing this kind of thing will be, whether it will be good or bad, we have to accept it with a smile.

Whether you can let go or not, you can only rely on your own heart for this choice.

If you have a boyfriend who is particularly macho, then I think, either you can have a good talk with him and point out his problems, or you can break up with him and choose someone else, after all, "the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change". It shouldn't be overnight if you want him to get rid of straight male cancer, or you can be more patient, understand him more, and tolerate him.

In fact, many boys have this problem, because of the influence of the traditional concept of male superiority and inferiority in ancient China, many boys still fantasize about living in that kind of world all day long, not only do they not know how to respect their girlfriends, but also sometimes fists and kicks in a little thing, when others are dissatisfied with his behavior, he tells others: "What's wrong with me beating my girlfriend, do you care?" "It's good for this kind of boy to break up directly, and it's useless to say more.

Straight male cancer boys generally have a very serious machismo, if this is the case, I think this is not an unforgivable fault, after all, many boys are like this now, you can talk to him about it, talk to him about your thoughts, so that he can understand you.

If you don't want your boyfriend to be a straight man, then when he has this tendency, he should be curbed in time. Don't let him have a chance to spread.

I have a friend whose boyfriend will do it every time he quarrels with her, and she runs out to me crying every time, and I can't stand it at all, although it is said that "it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage". But I still couldn't help but say: "Why do you have to wronged yourself like this, it's better to break up like this every time."

But every time his boyfriend said he was wrong and there would be no next time. But the next time she came out crying, I didn't understand what the point of this was now, if she could let go decisively, at least she wouldn't have to suffer. You can also ask his boyfriend to change his stinky problem.

There seem to be more and more straight men in life. I hope that the girls will stop condoning this phenomenon and be brave enough to say "no!" to straight men”

Straight male cancer can't be endured all the time, either talk to him well, or you can consider breaking up. Straight male cancer will make women's rights very low, and they don't like to consider each other's feelings, and this kind of love is very tormenting. If the other person talks to you and is willing to change, then you can continue, and if not, you need to consider whether it is appropriate.

Straight man is a term for character, I don't know why it's called a straight man. But if it's called a straight man, then nine out of ten men are straight men. And I think that a straight man is a very good character, and straight man cancer is more extreme, for a straight man, you love him to accept it, if you don't love it, go to the one with a slim chance.

Then you should accept the reality that straight male cancer can't change it.

At this time, be sure to tell him directly, and declare your attitude, so that your boyfriend realizes that he is wrong, and once your boyfriend does not make changes, then it is likely that your boyfriend did not take your words to heart, so in this case,I have to make an analysis in a timely manner, and if it's a work reason, you can also properly sort out the code and annihilate the accompaniment, but you can try to do so. <>

1. Tell your stupid friend that it's rude to do so.

Under normal circumstances, if you tell your boyfriend directly, if the other party really cares about you, then he will definitely make changes or compromises, but if your boyfriend does not make concessions, then you should think carefully to see if the other party really cares about you, because under normal circumstances, if your boyfriend really cares about you, he will definitely consider your feelings. <>

2. Try to understand your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend is really this kind of character, or that he has always been like this, then don't care too much, just get used to it, and if it's not particularly important, try to understand the other person, be considerate of him, and you can also give him some suggestions to change, let him listen, believe that doing this, can also make your boyfriend pay attention to you. <>

3. Try to imitate what he does.

If the other party has not considered your feelings, then you can try to use the same method, when the other party speaks, hang up in advance, let the other party experience this taste, and also let him know that you also have a temper, but this practice is a test of the feelings of two people, so you must use it with caution.

Two people together must understand and respect each other, you can try to tell him, heYou will be very unhappy if you do this, and if your boyfriend really cares about you, I believe he will definitely make concessions, and hanging up early** is very rude in itself, so in this case, it is best to ask your boyfriend to correct it in advance and recognize his mistakes.

For events: Positive feedback on behavior instructions.

First of all, you need to know what you need from the other person?

For example, if you have a stomachache, just say: My stomach hurts too much, you help me make a cup of brown sugar ginger tea.

Instead of saying that I hurt so much, it hurts me, I hurt too much.

If the other person does, try to give positive feedback: thank you, I feel much more comfortable; You've been so nice to me.......

Through countless repetitions, the straight man husband becomes an exclusive warm man who knows how to be good to you in every situation.

Start with the simple things and don't rush them.

For emotions: Talk about your heart and inform your needs.

When we are in a bad mood, what we need is emotional acceptance and recognition. Be sure to say how you feel, and then add: I just want you to hug me first and stay with me quietly for a while.

If you don't say the last sentence, he will feel that you need advice and give you some experience and opinions.

It's not hard to warm up straight men, we just need to translate our own needs into concrete behaviors that they can understand.