What do you do when you know your girlfriend is infertile?

Updated on parenting 2024-07-24
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    This really depends on whether you really love her, if you don't love it, please let it go, let others love, if you love it very much, then don't care too much, you can adopt a child, although it may not be reasonable for tradition, but you want you to love your girlfriend, he and you should be for a long time, if you break up because you don't have children, you will regret it, you will regret it, then you will really be together!

    In today's society, it's not that your girlfriend is infertile, but many women are like this, there are several like this around me, some are pregnant, the child will flow on its own, and after pregnancy, the child has problems, these are all possible, even if the premarital examination is fine, there are many more who can't be born later.

    My sister-in-law has been married for many years, and she has spent a lot of money in various places, and the family's money has been used to treat her, just to have a child, but she hasn't asked for it yet, at least you know that there must be no in the future, and the premarital examination says that there is no is not necessarily that there is really none, how many of them have been sentenced to death and are still pregnant in the later stage, this is not accurate.

    But if you really break up because of this, I always feel that it's a pity, your parents need you to communicate, if you really want the child to adopt, in fact, the adopted child is similar to your own birth, they are all brought up from childhood to adulthood, or you can simply tell your girlfriend, we don't want children in the future, just the two of us, isn't it good, there is no burden.

    Now there are too many people who don't want children, they don't want to have children, they must be dink, isn't there a lot of this? So don't worry too much about it, if you don't have it, you won't have it, but if you don't love your girlfriend, then you just let it go! Don't delay others because of this matter, if you get married, but you are still worried about having children, then you will be too sorry for others.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think you're facing a very big decision right now, and if you're going to break up with your girlfriend, your girlfriend is going to be very, very sad. Because of this matter, I can't even think about it. But if you don't break up with him.

    You are not a filial child to your parents anymore, and your current situation is difficult to ride a tiger. A dilemma. You're asking if you should break up in such a situation, but you're already thinking about breaking up with your girlfriend, right?

    Actually, I don't think it's necessary to break up with the child? If your family environment is more open, you can adopt one. But if your parents are very suspicious, pass on the lineage.

    Then I think it is necessary to break up. <>

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Not being able to have children is the biggest worry in a girl's life. Can't have children, many boys can't accept it, and when I heard that my female ticket can't have children, I was also confused. But soon calmed down.

    In fact, if you think about it, you can't deny her just because she can't have children. My first thought at the time was IVF. I love her, and I thought that if she had a difficult birth, I would not hesitate to protect her.

    I believe that it is also the choice of most men, so why dislike her for not being able to have children. And there is IVF as the final choice, so if you can't do it, you can adopt one. Of course, the premise of these practices is that you love her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As soon as I got married, my mother-in-law boiled me a lot of soup to drink, and kept praying to the Buddha to make me give birth quickly, and she made me doubt that I was infertile.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I've been married to my wife for a few years, and I haven't had children, and after the divorce, I found another one, but I still didn't have children, and I found out that I couldn't have children.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I have been married for more than two years, but I have never had children, so I went to the hospital for a check-up and found out that I had no fertility at all, and this incident also hit me very hard.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, because I love her, I want to spend the rest of my life with her, and it has nothing to do with whether she can have children or not, whether children can be wanted.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, the purpose of marriage is not to breed offspring, but to support each other and spend their lives with each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your girlfriend is infertile, you have to marry her because you love your girlfriend as a person, not her ability to reproduce.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, because you like your girlfriend, not the child she gave birth to, so it has nothing to do with her fertility, I will still choose to marry her.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I have only one son in the family, so I won't marry a childless girlfriend, not because I'm ruthless, but because men have the burden of passing on the family on their shoulders.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If it were me, I would marry her, because I love her and it doesn't matter if she can give me a baby.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, if you are going to get married, what are you afraid of if you have no fertility, now science and technology are very developed, and you don't have to worry about the problem of offspring at all, as long as you love her, it won't be a problem.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I will marry my girlfriend, because modern society has developed medicine, I can do IVF, and I can still have my own children with some money.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Even if your girlfriend is infertile, you must marry her because it is enough for two people to love each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It doesn't matter if you don't have that ability, the important thing is that the two of you can have fun together. But I want to ask this brother, can you really let go?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have to tell her very seriously that you love her more than a child, and tell her that she is afraid of losing a child when she is a child, and she is afraid of learning badly when she grows up, and she has to worry about it all the time and spend money. It takes millions to raise a child. Try to say as much as you don't like children, and at the same time comfort her, tell her that his wife is not used to give birth to children, but to hurt, tell her that she is not a tool for giving birth to children, she is the most important, precious and irreplaceable in your heart, and tell her that you want to live with her for the rest of your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No. If a woman can't have children, it is equivalent to a marriage buried in the grave, you think about it, now, yes, yes, you love him very much, now it is good to have love, but after a long time, until a few years later, after all those novelties have passed, you will find that there is something missing in your life, that is the crystallization of your own love! It's not that complete, and that's going to be a big problem in the future, and you might get divorced because of it, so why get married.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all, determine whether you really love your girlfriend, if you really love, you don't have to think about it so much, now that technology is so developed, IVF or anything is not a problem.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Raising children to prevent old age, is there too many miscarriages if you don't have children? If it were me, I'd mind, but then again, it doesn't matter if you love each other.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If she knew that she couldn't give birth, she would not have chosen to start in the first place. But if you start, you have to take responsibility for your feelings. Your wife is the one who will protect you for the rest of your life, not a tool for giving birth to children.

    I have a friend whose mother has hepatitis B. Her father married her mother desperately, and her mother, when she was 30 years old, passed away, and his father was very sad, but he still had to live his life and did not regret it. In fact, they shouldn't have had children in the first place.

    As for people, they must live in the moment. Now that science and technology are developed, a lot of infertility can be cured, and you don't know if she will be ** after you enjoy the Dink life in the future.

    Not to mention, if you just want to have children, there are many ways.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's up to you! If it's me! Will get married! Because the child can be adopted! Did it ruin her happiness just because of the child?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Two people really love each other and get married. If the child has money, he can do IVF, and if he doesn't have money, he can adopt it. It depends on your attitude towards your child.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Regardless of whether there is love or not, my family I am an only son and an only grandson. I can't be the last hat.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It is impossible for the rich and handsome to accept Dink. In this case, and if the man is not well married, the woman can give the child away and marry someone else. It's better to have no fertility, otherwise you have to spend money to support it after giving birth.

    No offspring saves you trouble. Otherwise, if the man is unfaithful, the woman will have to hold the extremely poor child and cry for the rest of her life. I hate to marry someone else.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Probably not, because marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. If my parents don't accept it, I basically won't accept it, and it's unfilial piety to make my parents uncomfortable for my own private feelings, and I'd rather let myself suffer infamy than do it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I can accept it as long as the love is deep.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It should be quite sad, if you break up, what will you do with your girlfriend? Don't count the words you said when you were together? It's all to the point where you decide to get married, whether to love her or want someone who can have children, think about this issue clearly, I don't think it's difficult to decide.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Can a marriage test also detect whether there is fertility? We didn't seem to have this when we had a marriage check-up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think it's very important, you decided to be with her because you love him, and the child can be adopted, it doesn't matter.

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