22 year old me and 33 year old her, what should I do, who can help me

Updated on society 2024-07-24
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Love has no age, and I agree with this.

    But loving her is fulfilling her, that's my opinion.

    Personally, I have always believed that liking is possession.

    Love is selfless giving.

    If you really love her, you want her to be happy.

    It's time to give up on her.

    First of all, you don't have a steady income.

    Raising one's family is everyone's responsibility and a real problem.

    Secondly, your mother is adamantly against it.

    If your father had known, he wouldn't have approved of it.

    Can your union be blessed by your parents?

    Can a marriage be happy without the blessing of parents?

    Just because you give up on her doesn't mean you don't love her.

    It doesn't mean you don't want her to be happy.

    Silently bless her.

    It is also the greatest contribution you have made to your relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Truth be told, I'm almost as good as you! I also fell in love with a woman who was 12 years older than me! I'm different from you!

    I'm married myself! I know how you guys feel together! A sense of security!

    She will give you every care and love! In fact, no one can give advice on this kind of thing! Think for yourself!

    Do it with your heart! As long as a man thinks about it, he has to bear it!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, love doesn't need to be taken into account so much, although the family's opinion is very important, but in the end, it depends on yourself. Do your best to make her family accept her. I wish you all happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since we love each other, why should we separate, if you can, do what you can, and when you think about it later, you can make yourself not regret it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's hard to say goodbye when you see each other This is fate, if you love her, then you should be able to give him happiness, happiness, even if you just want her to be happy every day, can you do it? You don't have a regular income yet, she loves you very much, but she needs a complete home even more, brother, think about it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Speechless, since people have children, you will fulfill her, incomplete families are unfortunate to children, since people can still come together, you will love a way to live.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you get married, there is a 54-year-old lady marrying a 20-year-old young man abroad.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No one can say anything about this kind of thing, but I think that love has no age.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, you both know that the two of you can't be together, you are so much older than him 11 years old, he is still so young, even if your age is quite likely to be different from him, and you think that your height is also a problem, in general, women are more than ten years older so it is a big problem, so don't think about such a thing, it's better to choose a person who suits you to like it will have results, don't delay yourself, because he is too young to be with you, and there is no result, don't think too much, Don't think about it anymore and add more interests and hobbies. Find someone who can match you, now that you are 33 years old, you can choose, don't put it off any longer, come on, good luck.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Someone else's 23-year-old became the boss and set up a company; I'm 23 years old, confused, idle, and unaccomplished.

    Recently, I was looking for a job, and it has been two years since I graduated, and I haven't had a stable job, so I think it's time to be more stable.

    I interviewed a new e-commerce company, I heard that the boss was also 97 years old, and suddenly I felt that the gap was so big, the same is 97, I have a good family, I also work hard, and then look at myself, except for a body of fat, there is nothing, maybe 23 years, the only harvest is to mix a college diploma, a driver's license, an English level 4, and a Mandarin level 2A. It seems that there is nothing left.

    I took a teacher qualification certificate, missed the registration time, and had to postpone it for another year, did I live too comfortably and forgot how to work hard? After all, the foreign debt is not paid and the weight has not been lost. There's still a lot to do.

    is only 23 years old, and there is still time to toss, but it is also valuable to toss, and he can't waste his youth.

    23-year-old self, come on, more than half of 2020 has passed, and you are no longer 23, since you don't want to get married, then work your own and live a wonderful life. Pour yourself some more chicken broth, haha.

    Everyone has to give something for what they do, as long as it's worth it, it doesn't matter what they give.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is better for a woman to treat a man as a wife or a female companion and appear to be active. In the face of such a situation, if a woman does not know how to defend her rights and does not know how to maintain her personal charm, it is easy to lose a kind of independent ability of herself, or even find no direction. Especially in a relationship, a woman should show her personal position as a wife or female partner, on the one hand, it is to give others an opinion, and on the other hand, it is a way to protect personal rights, and it is also a better way to get along with her husband.

    In relationships, women are more active than men, and the reasons are nothing more than these three.

    Third, women are more active, men will be happier, and it will take more time to invest in women. Love always needs to be fought for by individuals, there is no unearned thing, and there is no pie that will fall from the sky at will, so women are more active in order to make men pay more attention to themselves, and it is also a way to let two people quickly warm up their feelings, which looks bad and unreserved, but it is the best way to keep feelings warming up quickly in love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, take the initiative to greet her! If you don't respond for a long time, it will cause discord between the husband and wife, just feed her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Meet her. Use sexual products appropriately.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on whether you like him or not, and if you like him, wouldn't it be better for him to take the initiative? It mainly depends on your own feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When it comes to marriage, women usually have two attitudes, some people just want to find a suitable person when they are old, and some people's attitude towards marriage is that they would rather lack than indiscriminate, and they must meet love before getting married, but is it really reliable to wait for love? Can you really meet the right person if you wait? It doesn't seem to be.

    Do you dare to show your mood in familiar circles?

    Ad. A woman who gets married when she meets the right person, although she will live a dull life of firewood, rice, oil and salt in the future, but she has a husband and children, and she also has her own happiness, and the woman who is still waiting for love is really at the age of what people call a "leftover woman", and she will be more and more anxious to marry herself.

    Maybe the original intention was good, but marriage is not to buy fruit, you have to pick the biggest and reddest apple, sometimes the more you want to wait for a better person, the more unsatisfactory the final result is, women better understand that happiness is not by waiting, but to cherish the person in front of you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't quite understand your question, but two people who really love each other can't talk about any fun, don't say that there is no true love in this world, don't be afraid to really love each other, your every move can be experienced by the other party, sincere for sincere, I hope that there will be lovers who will eventually become dependents or family members ......

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Age is not a problem, it is your own attitude towards the relationship!

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