I ve been in a bad mood lately and I m always dissatisfied with my boyfriend, what should I do?

Don't choose to break up too easily, and don't easily give up the relationship that two people have worked hard to maintain, I don't know why you've been in a bad mood recently, but it's likely that it's because you're in a bad mood during this period and you're dissatisfied with your boyfriend.

If it's because you're in a bad mood that you start to get dissatisfied with your boyfriend, then you're particularly unfair to your boyfriend, because he hasn't done anything wrong, but you always blame him.

First of all, I think you can first go to ** why you have been in a bad mood recently, some things have a reason after all, you have to find this reason, and then go to solve it.

If you can't solve it, divert your attention to think about other things, do something that you are happy about, and don't always think about unhappy things.

If you weren't dissatisfied with your boyfriend because you weren't happy during this time, you were already very dissatisfied with him, and then you've just been even more dissatisfied recently!

So you have to think about why you should be with your boyfriend if you are not happy with him? What point do you dislike him, and what point does he not deserve you?

If you and him have these contradictions, if there is such a misunderstanding, why don't you two communicate well? Have you ever told him what you don't like about him?

If you haven't said it yet, it is recommended that the two of you communicate well, if the two of you have already said such a problem, but your boyfriend has not changed anything.

You can think about it, is it because you are too vexatious, or are you really I unable to accept such a boyfriend, and the two of you are not suitable to be together?

No matter who you are, there will always be times when things don't go your way, and when you encounter something unhappy, you must find someone, open your heart, and talk about your heart. Otherwise, if a person is held in his heart, he will be very troubled, and his temper will become very irritable, and he always wants to express his dissatisfaction with a person and vent his irritable emotions. If it is a couple and the woman always loses her temper for no reason, the biggest victim is the girl's boyfriend.

No matter who it is, as long as it is counted down for no reason, there will always be a time to fight back, so no matter who encounters something, the only way to solve it is to solve it, and you can't make trouble unreasonably, so sooner or later you will be rejected by others.

If a girl is in a relationship and encounters something upset, whether it is family or career, or between two lovers. That girl always puts unhappy things on her face, she is looking for a boyfriend everywhere, and she finds fault everywhere, so every man who is a boyfriend will not be able to stand it for a long time. If the boy also fights back at the girl in the same way, it will be like there is a fuse, and the relationship between the two people will completely explode and tear, which will hurt everyone and be irresponsible to the feelings.

If you want to maintain this hard-won relationship, you must control your emotions, you can't use your boyfriend as a gun, and as long as you are in a bad mood, you will shoot and complain. When you encounter something, you must talk to your boyfriend and let your boyfriend help share your burden. In this way, you can not only find a way to solve things, but also put an end to your indiscriminate tantrum with your boyfriend.

Because the two of you are lovers, it is right to help each other, if you always want to escape or hide when you encounter difficulties, and you have to hurt others with bad words, such a couple will not go far. What is a boyfriend, a boyfriend is a person who is better to himself than a friend, and a person who has a marriage certificate worse than a husband, so no matter what happens, a boyfriend is a person who can be relied on and relied on.

If you're in a bad mood and you're not satisfied with your boyfriend, do you want to change a boyfriend to make you happy? Many people may want to find a boyfriend to vent their anger when they are angry, but you have to make it clear that your boyfriend is not your punching bag. He can listen to you talk about your unhappiness and help you solve your problems, but you must not take your anger out on him.

Otherwise, I think he is very innocent, he has not done anything, and he has to accept such punishment.

I used to be like this sometimes, whether it was something going on in my own family or a conflict with my friends. Anyway, when I'm in a bad mood, my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me when he talks to me. I also said something like I don't want to pay attention to you, obviously I don't want to talk, but I prefer to say that I have nothing to do with him.

He could clearly feel that I was not in the right mood, but he didn't know why, so he didn't want to say it even if he asked. At this time, he felt very angry and helpless. If there is something, just say it and solve it, and if you are in a bad mood, you will torture him.

Both of them were in a bad mood.

It's because of these that they used to quarrel a lot, so the relationship between the two people was in jeopardy, and they almost didn't stick to it. If you like your boyfriend, but you want to hurt your feelings because of these things. I think it's not worth it, maybe your boyfriend won't be able to stand breaking up with you after a long time.

Even if you have a temper, sometimes you have to be a little more restrained, it's not that others love you to tolerate your temper. It's not that because he's a boy, he has to be generous. I think as a girl, you should also have the grace you deserve, anyway, everything should be on the facts, don't think that you are a girl, you are the biggest.

If you are in a bad mood, you should vent your emotions reasonably and don't spread your temper on your boyfriend. You can go to exercise and vent your emotions through exercise.

This is largely because of your own emotions, you must adjust well, often travel or something, relax your mood, or concentrate on doing something, don't always be idle, otherwise you will think about something, if you often get angry with your boyfriend or something, he may not be able to bear it, so you must solve these problems yourself, and my relatives are still okay.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. When you are in a bad mood, you can have a good chat with your boyfriend, and don't get angry with your boyfriend easily, which can easily make your relationship conflict.

You can do this when your boyfriend is in a bad mood and is indifferent to me:

1. Accept each other.

Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and even if there are some aspects that are very difficult to accept, once you decide that the other person has become your lover, you should fully accept him and her. American marriage and love experts believe: "Acceptance is neither to let your lover behave arbitrarily, nor to force yourself to say something sensational."

2. Be empathetic.

To avoid destructive conflicts between lovers, both partners must have empathy. The so-called empathy refers to looking at the things around us from the other person's point of view, and dealing with the problems and conflicts faced at the moment. In psychological research, empathy is often referred to as "empathy".

Empathy is the connection between empathy and analysis, and the heart and mind are connected to understand one's lover. Once a couple in conflict is able to deal with the problem with empathy, it will be much easier to resolve the conflict.

3. Don't belittle each other.

When there is an argument or unpleasantness in the conversation between lovers, it is often accompanied by demeaning language, and for men, they are very taboo to hear derogatory terms such as "stupid", "incompetent" and "incompetent".

You can call him careless, but you must not accuse him with these words. Such statements will degrade their personality and dignity, make them feel that they have no status and value in the eyes of the other party, and will therefore launch the strongest resistance and counterattack.

If a person is in a bad mood and may not be interested in anything, then you should not disturb him, let him be quiet, and wait for the mood to ease before chatting with him.

What I'm trying to say is that it's not right for your boyfriend to do this. He is indifferent to you when he is in a bad mood, and he brings a bad mood to you, which affects you instead. You should discuss this situation with your boyfriend.

It was when he was more normal. It doesn't matter if he's in a good mood or not, he can't be indifferent to you.

This is also a sign that he loves you. It is impossible for two people to be together with all the beats, and most men will take it to heart when they are unhappy, because he thinks that it is useless to tell you, for fear of increasing your troubles. If he wants to be quiet, you give him a space and be a listener when he wants to talk to you.

I can understand that you love him

When he's in a bad mood, he doesn't have that particularly good attitude towards anything you do. The age is very cold, at this time you should tolerate him, and then try to give him more care, and when he is in a good mood, he will naturally treat you better.

Be more understanding, be more caring, enlighten your boyfriend, and let him speak out and it will be easy.

It's okay to be quiet and obediently accompany him.

When he's in a bad mood, it's not your reason, so don't trouble him.

He just needs to be quiet and take a breath of time.