How a year s worth of feelings made me let go And I didn t just give my feelings

Today's girls should talk more about reality, right? Love is important, but only if the person you love loves you love you as much as you love him; So does he love you? Is he willing to give up his current home for you?

Can he divorce the life you want? If there is none, it is inevitable to give up on him, otherwise the pain will be long. Forget about a person without much thought, just prove it with time.

Delete everything related to him, blogs, **, mobile phone numbers, email addresses, etc., everything that can make you think of him should be deleted, and thrown away. Don't deliberately inquire or wonder how he's doing, what is his attitude towards him? If you decide to give up, what does it matter?

As long as you are full of gratitude, thank him for what he has given, I believe that happiness is in the near future, who said that men are just that?

Try to do your own thing and reach out to more of your friends.

Give up, even if you get him, he will still get rid of you like he got rid of his wife, it's better to end it early, and the pain will be a little less A year is not as good as a lifetime.

You have to think about it before you leave him, will you regret it after you leave him? If you don't have that certainty, don't leave easily, that will only make you more miserable, and there is no place to buy regret medicine! If you make up your mind to leave him, then let it go, you think like this, my departure will not cause a family to be broken, maybe I will create a happy family, such a woman is the most beautiful, and then find your own true love again, maybe a new relationship will make you come out of the pain and believe that you can!

If a relationship has already had a result, but you are unwilling to let go and are unwilling to get out of the cage, it will only make you live in the abyss of pain and find it difficult to extricate yourself. It is advisable to try to convince yourself to let go of the past and live a good life as soon as possible. In this way, the sun will shine on your life again and make you wake up like a dream.

So, how do you overcome yourself and let the emotional cage no longer bind you? Let's take a look at this issue.

1. Find out why you are reluctant to let go of this relationship?

Everyone's approach to love is different, and some people can leave well after the death of love; And some people stay where they are, unwilling to let go. The former gained unbridled chic, the latter lived a miserable and exhausted life. For the latter, I personally feel that I must figure out why I can't get out of the abyss of feelings, is it because I am unwilling?

Reluctant? Or is it something else? Only by figuring out one's own thoughts can one better sort out one's feelings and allow oneself to be liberated.

Second, it is necessary to understand that unilateral insistence is meaningless.

The management of a relationship requires two people to work together. If one party insists on leaving, but you stay where you are, then it will be difficult to achieve a good marriage. Because the hearts of the two of you can no longer go to one place, and your future is not in the same direction, no matter how much effort and persistence you make at this time, it is just in vain and no longer has any meaning.

It is difficult to complete a person's love. So, it is advisable that you be aware of this and try to convince yourself to let go of this meaningless relationship.

3. There is always something to give in life.

When you are reluctant to give up this relationship, you will not be able to have another relationship. And what this relationship has created is already a bitter fruit, if you want to taste the sweet fruit of love, you can only pin your hopes on the next relationship. But your reluctance makes it difficult for you to touch the next relationship.

Therefore, it is recommended that if you want to have gains, you must learn to let go at the right time. In this way, you will have more energy and time to pursue more beauty. If you want to be meaningful, you must learn to make the right trade-offs, learn to overcome difficulties, and move forward bravely.

To be a person who catches up, whether it is pursuing career or love, you must learn to make trade-offs.

Accept separation, find something you like to do, or find yourself in your work, get along with friends of the opposite sex, and meet the same hobbies of different thoughts and wisdom can have a deeper understanding of the core.

I think that you can keep yourself busy or have a good time to participate in some social activities and outdoor activities to relax your mood, and you can also find friends to play games and go shopping with you to relieve it.

I think this is the time to restrain your emotions and divert your attention, rather than blindly dwelling on the past.

I think if the other party has no feelings for you at all, and there is no communication between the two of you at all, then it's better to let it go!

In this relationship, both parties become very unhappy, and there are always some quarrels, and this is the time to break up immediately.

When you encounter the kind of relationship that is always quarreling and can't understand each other's feelings, don't consume yourself anymore, and choosing to let go is the best way.

If you have always felt that the other party does not care about you in this relationship, and the two people have no future, you should give up automatically at this time and not consume yourself.

Blindly paying, only one party is working hard, every time they quarrel, the other party will only use cold violence to solve the problem, and when they encounter problems, they will hide, and after being together, they are ambiguous with the opposite sex.

A relationship has already had a result, and if you still refuse to let go, it means that the result is not what you want, it is a bad result, but you can't let go of it in your heart, and you always want to continue the good things before, but you are at a loss and don't know what to do.

At this time, we must learn to enlighten ourselves, and bad results are also results. Now that it's all like this, what could be worse than that? If you really don't want to let go, you can try to keep the other person, you can do something to let the other person remember the good things you used to have, and see if you can get back to your previous relationship.

People are nostalgic, if the other party is not indifferent to you, then your relationship still has a chance to stay.

But if the result of this relationship is completely over, and there is no possibility of recovery, then you are no longer willing to let go, and you have to force yourself to let go. If you really can't let go, go out for a walk, relax your mood, and don't let yourself indulge in feelings as a whole. There are a lot of beautiful things in this world waiting for you to meet, this relationship is just the scenery of your journey, even if it is beautiful, no matter how reluctant you are, you still have to leave and move towards the next scenery.

We all understand that feelings can only be happy when they are happy, and since your relationship is over, even if you are unwilling to accept the result from the heart, you must understand that you can't "shave your head and pick your head hot", otherwise you will become more and more miserable and unable to get out. If you don't want to let go, you have to let go, after all, it's all over, and you can't stay in this ending forever and let yourself not get out. Each of us cherishes our relationship with each other, but we must love ourselves more.

Emotional pain is temporary, and it is a lifetime thing for you to be good to yourself.

It's normal to have no way to let go for a while, after all, people are not grass and trees, and when everyone breaks up, unless they have never paid their feelings, they will all hurt. I don't want to let go because you still have the other person in your heart, and you still have a good attachment to the past. You can try to let go and reconcile with yourself.

If in a relationship, you are reluctant to let go of the other person, then you should try to be good to the other person. In this way, your relationship can always be better, and he can also feel that you are good to him.

The twisted melon is not sweet, and the one that comes reluctantly is not as good as the sincere one after all, so what's the point? If you stay in this person, it's just a shell, maybe his heart has already flown away, why not let it go?

To give up, leave the city, and start a new life, you can choose something you like to do.

I felt like I might force myself to forget about the relationship, and I'd also offer to break up.

You should learn to let go, because the relationship has already come to fruition, and it will be painful not to let go.

You should try your best to fight for it, and if you really don't have fate, you can only choose to let go.

There is only one: start by making a list of proposals that, if feasible, may even have epoch-making implications for the military sphere.

The plan is all about: selective amnesia without pain.

There is no other way.

Before that, a question that needs to be taken seriously is: what makes you want to let go so easily with the feelings that you cherished in the first place?

Practice is the only criterion for testing truth, and so is time. And time is everyone's hero's grave, it buries you without hesitation, but leaves you with countless chagrin and regret.

I used to think when I was in love, I would love that person forever, life and death, never let go, go from black head to white head, and the two of them will spend their old age in peace. But the truth is that I inevitably fell out of love, and suffered for a long time, so that I couldn't get rid of it, let alone accept it.

So this question is very interesting, and he is a question that most people want to ask.

Falling out of love is so painful.

Especially when I miss the time we spent together.

And this is precisely the breakthrough of the problem.

Many people let go because they want to let go of those times together.

Each of us, at the beginning of our relationship, believes that we will go for a long time, and we always look forward to the future.

But the future isn't so good, so we want to let go of the relationship, and it doesn't seem like there's anything wrong with that.

But one thing is that whether the future is as good as imagined, and how happy it was with the beginning, is not a conflict.

When they were together, they were willing, they were thinking about each other, and they were two people who promised each other.

When we leave, we should let go of the irreversible result.

At the same time, those good times that are worth remembering, we remember them, remember them, and don't be sad about them.

Because that's the best form of love, and this is the result of us letting go, and we shouldn't get the same treatment. Finish.

Like you said, it's not like just let it go".

So, the first thing you have to be sure of is:

Can you really let go of this relationship?

If you can't put it down.

But you have to let go.

Maybe one day you let go.

But that may be much later.

I can't put it down.

It's about how deeply you love each other.

Before putting it down. You have to think about it.

Is there room for redemption between you and the other person?

If you really want to let go.

It's about making yourself happy.

Cry when you want to. Laugh when you want.

Don't hold it to yourself.

Find someone who is truly worthy of your love.

Someone who really loves!

When the other party is really disappointed to a certain extent, he may let go in this relationship, because the girl doesn't want to be hurt again. 3.The best way to keep yourself busy and force yourself not to think about those things is to replace it with another relationship.

4.Let yourself be completely dead to that relationship, work hard, or do something you like, and you won't miss him if you're busy.

Some things don't deliberately want to forget it, please don't delete your memories so cruelly, whether it is beautiful, happy, painful, sad in your memories, it is your own precious wealth, it is something that others can't get, it's beyond the reach of others, when time passes slowly, even if it's the saddest past, we will smile with sadness in retrospect, and don't deceive yourself and say to everyone that you have forgotten, I think, even when you are the second he appears, You will remember this he well, so why force yourself so much? Aren't you tired? Oh, what a beautiful thing life is!

We all know that time obscures everything, but we ignore the ...... of timeThe ...... that can also prove everythingIsn't it? So ......We are all the same fools, the same fools......

Hehe! Many people want to forget their sorrows, forget the past! But who can really do it

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. So, don't forget that everyone has their own journey, and there will be a variety of passers-by along the way. Every relationship, every experience, is a mark of life, and whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened.

Learn to be grateful for everyone in your life who has ever met or left. Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future. Cheer up!

Don't linger for a moment! After a long time, I will let it go! Time is the best healing medicine!