Help the sisters ask questions. A very iron brother, I found that I liked him, what to do

I also have a "girlfriend" like this, this is called a confidante of the blue face, if you find that he feels the same way as you, just say it, if not, forget it, the person I like, I like her very much, but I know that she has no thoughts about me, so I hold it in my heart for more than a year, we are like buddies, at first it was very uncomfortable, and then I thought it was very good, in fact, she also knew that once she said to me, "xx, why do I match everything with you, why don't I feel like you do to me?" That is, tell me not to say those three words, otherwise buddy won't have to do it.

If you like it, you like it, don't say it's someone else.

I suggest you observe him more and see if it is really suitable for you, because once you say your love, you can't take it back! Liking this thing is also sudden, when you get along for a long time and find that you don't want to be what you thought at all, then you will lose a confidant!! Think!

Yes, in fact, sometimes we have to lose a lot, and we can't achieve it by thinking about it. This kind of behavior of yours is a serious brother-lover in professional terms, maybe you only have one daughter in the family, you really want to have a brother, and now you recognize a brother, and this brother is very good to you, you are afraid that you will lose this brother, and you will have a serious dependence and trust on this brother, and you will ignore the relationship with him "brother and sister", so once your relationship deteriorates, it is likely to lose him.

I would still advise you to maintain your existing relationship with your brother, and you can keep that relationship.

Confidante of Lan Yan, it is best for you to maintain the current relationship.

There is no pure relationship between men and women at all, give it up, and don't contact it in the future, otherwise it will destroy their relationship.

If he is happy now, is it also love to make him happy?

Put it in your heart first, you know that it is not easy to meet love.

Listen to my story.

He was five years older than me and was a very good friend of my brother. At the age of seventeen or eighteen, I didn't know what love was. At this age, I can only pretend to be a stranger and secretly flip through his dynamics.

He's now working on the railroad and I'm still studying. When he was young, he was like a child king, and with a little righteousness, I thought he was very good, and every time he quarreled with his parents, he would come to my house. It was a good time. To him, I was just the younger sister of a classmate.

As we grew up, we saw each other less often, and then we heard that he was in love, and then I would only listen to my brother occasionally talk to everyone about other things. It's very uncomfortable to think of what is going on in his heart.

Later, I learned from his dynamics that he broke up, and I admit that there was a little bit of excitement.

In the end, I still like her very much, and I still think of him as usual, but I am still willing to give myself a chance.

But I believe that "I will grow up, and so will my love." ”

The world is very big, and there are many people who pass by us every day, and in the vast sea of people, looking for the right person is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

But even so, after waiting for a spring, summer, autumn and winter, after seeing the flowers blooming, I still want to wait for next year's spring when the flowers bloom. regards time as the only "life-saving straw" for love, and always thinks, wait a little longer, wait a little longer.

I don't know if you're the same as me, but from the current information, I can't find a reason why you can't fall in love with him.

Get in touch with him and get to know him better. Maybe you'll find out later that you don't like him at all, so forget it. Maybe you find that you really like him, then go ahead.

You tell your brother first. Let your brother tell you what kind of person this person is, and find out first. Don't be impulsive at this time. After understanding, you decide whether to confess or not.

You can ask your brother to test what type of friend his friend likes, by the way, if it can't be you, and if possible, wait for the opportunity to confess.

Then go after him, and you can also explain it to your brother and ask him to help you create more opportunities for you to get along.

Of course, it is to use the one who tells your brother first, and then uses your brother to be the bridge builder of your relationship. In that case, your brother will have a sense of accomplishment and you will be able to achieve your own happiness.

If it is a good friend of your brother, it must be someone that your brother trusts, you should tell your brother about it and he will help you. Don't worry about it yourself. If this friend is a good person, your brother will not stop you.

OK. Ask my brother how his character is, and can he pursue it. If there is no problem, then pursue him. It's not easy to meet someone you like.