It feels like you re immature, it feels like you re not mature at all

I think you may understand the meaning of maturity, maturity refers to a person who handles things more rationally, thinks about things very carefully, has thoughts, and understands the world very well! Sometimes maturity can't be exercised, and some people are born with a love of planning things and thinking about things very comprehensively. In fact, when you are young, you don't necessarily have to go to the goal of maturity, this kind of change of thinking is not something you want to change, there must be environment, time and other factors to promote you to become mature.

I don't think you're very childish, for example, you won't fight back in the face of other people's sarcasm... Blushing when you talk can only mean that you are shy, you may see more of the world and will get better slowly, and if you love to smirk, it does not mean that you are naïve, which means that you are more cheerful.

You are 23 years old and have not graduated from college, don't worry, if you want to be mature, you must first have a basic plan for yourself after graduating from college! Be sure to have good relationships!

You haven't stepped into society yet, don't worry, when you see a lot, you will naturally change, and maybe you will want to change back to the way you used to be

It's good, and if you're sarcastic, you don't need to fight back, but you have to be strong, so that your relationships will be good, at least not bad.

In terms of communication, it is necessary to strengthen the blushing of speech. I used to blush only when I talked to girls, but then I didn't have her.

Bill has a good saying: Never put too much emphasis on self-esteem until you succeed.

There are two very important psychological themes in a person's life. One is independent and the other is mature. Independence is a process of finding and building oneself.

For example, in the first half of a person's life, there are two rebellious periods, one is around 3 years old, and the other is the well-known adolescence. During these two periods, the single word that a person said the most was: No!

When a child keeps saying no to his parents, to his teachers, to the people around him who are stronger than him, he is actually expressing the consciousness that I want to live according to my own ideas. So, it's a process of getting rid of dependency and building oneself. There are many people who have talked about this point in many articles and books, and I believe that many people are also familiar with this view.

02 Today we would like to discuss another topic: maturity. The word maturity is not unfamiliar to most people, but its connotation is not so fully discussed.

In my opinion, maturity is a continuation of independence, or a further development. If independence is a process of finding and building oneself, then maturity is a process of expanding oneself. In terms of expression, one of the most typical characteristics of a mature person is that he no longer easily says no.

For example, when something is different from what they expected, they no longer easily say that it is wrong or should not be. For example, when a person thinks or has a different opinion from their own, or even diametrically opposed, they will not be particularly angry, or jump up to attack and refute. In short, the core of the maturity mentality is to make a person more and more accepting and accept all kinds of differences in life.

03 If we look at the people around us, we will find that there are many people who are stuck in the transition period from independence to maturity, and are too obsessed with saying no, so they seem to be less mature. To put it simply, there are three main manifestations of this immaturity: immaturity manifests itself 1:

When someone thinks differently from what they think, there will always be a difference in whether it is a person or a thing. When confronted with these views or attitudes that are inconsistent with their own ideas, the first reaction of immature people is: How can this be?

That is, their instinctive reaction is to eliminate it, not to understand it. One person once described this feeling: "When others have different opinions and opinions than me, I get angry and feel that I have been greatly challenged.

This feeling is very representative, and to put it more precisely, it is also a very important reason why there is only quarrels and no arguments on the Internet today. When a person can only seek common ground and cannot distinguish between them, he will limit his cognition to a small range and cannot grow. When mature people face all kinds of differences, they will not easily say that this is wrong, and will not easily deny it, but first empathize with a mindset of curiosity and exploration to understand, why does the other party think this way?

How does the other person feel? When one does not easily say no to things that one does not understand and goes to explore and explore these inconsistencies.

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Hello, it means that the process of getting along with the other party always makes the other party feel some childish behavior, or there is no corresponding responsibility for him. There is no sense of security that can be felt in comparison.

It feels like you're not mature at all.

Hello, it means that the process of getting along with the other party always makes the other party feel some childish behavior, or there is no corresponding responsibility for him. There is no sense of security that can be felt in comparison.

What should we do? First, if it's a reply to the other party, we can use it. May you be a teenager to reply to each other.

Second, if we want to improve his view of us, we need to take the initiative in the process of interacting. There are some things and responsibilities that should be taken on.

The other person's reply feels like you're not mature at all.

How to reply. The teacher has a specific reply above, you can refer to it.

1 "Childish? I think it's better to keep people's hearts simple"2 "Every man has his mature and cold side, and if a man doesn't show his childish side in front of you, then he must not like you".