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Quite simply, this is an anti-ancestral phenomenon because our ancestors were married at an early age.
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Boredom, loneliness, trying, fashion, fashion, popularity, love face.
Sex, loneliness, being contagious, etc.
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It's a yearning for good things.
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The persistent yearning for true love.
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In fact, this is the transition that everyone must go through to maturity, because leaving home will feel uneasy, so you need to find a girlfriend, otherwise how to spend the double body rest! It's a bit embarrassing to talk about this, because I haven't been in a relationship in college, but fortunately, a few buddies in the same bed are the same as me! At that time, our dormitory was called "singles' dormitory", so I still don't have a girlfriend!
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It's so boring, there are so few classes.
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Curious!!! Moved emotional!! No love!! ~
It's wrong to think that love and feelings are high.
I thought I knew everything!! ~
It's boring. divided; To play.
It's over and you're leaving!!
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College talk about love is determined by the particularity of the university, and the age of going to college is in the period of sexual obsessiveness, which is determined by its special age; When we go to university, we don't have as much free time as before, so we try to pass it, and we add our own psychological needs, so we want to find a boyfriend (or girl); There is also a direct psychological emptiness. Of course, I am no exception!
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Suffocated. Physiological needs.
It's vulgar to say that, but it's a common phenomenon.)
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Physiological needs. Agree with the ground floor.
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Contemporary college students fall in love, this phenomenon often has two sides, we can not blindly agree or oppose, but should be analyzed and judged according to the actual situation. Falling in love is our psychological need, college students are different from other age groups, they are already thinking about the future, college love is pure, sacred and desirable, to a certain extent, it can improve psychological orientation, and learn to deal with the experience of the world faster. On the other hand, college love needs to consider the influence of emotional endurance, material, whether the concept is the same, etc., if it is not handled well, it will affect the life of the individual or both parties, so when we are in love, we should try our best to build for our own growth and the better development of both parties.
College students fall in love with each other has a very big impact on their studies, and if the relationship fails or breaks up, it will cause serious psychological damage to immature college students, which is extremely detrimental to personal growth.
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Love is an eternal topic, people do not hesitate to use the most beautiful language to describe the eternity and immortality of love, thinking that love can bring people spiritual encouragement, emotional joy, and life fulfillment, and life without love is pale, depressed, and even meaningless. There are also people who have a pessimistic attitude towards love because they see the misfortune of others or have experienced misfortune themselves, thinking that beautiful love is just an interpretation of literary and artistic works, and love in life brings people more pain than joy. Because love is a hot topic on the college campus, and it is also a beautiful scenery on the campus.
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The phenomenon is generally more fast-food.
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Go with the flow, face it peacefully, time is fast, manage your life with your heart, cherish what you have, try to have as few regrets, and wish good luck.
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Factors influencing college students' love in love.
Because now everyone knows that there are more men and fewer women, especially on college campuses, there are more boys and fewer girls. Therefore, a large number of male students are affected by the ratio of men and women, of course, in college, students also consider a lot of things, for example, everyone knows that college love is fruitless, because most couples will break up when they graduate, so most people will consider this factor, and they will not fall in love when they are in college, of course, part of it is because their family conditions are not good, because the current social atmosphere is not good, once two people are together, boys have to bear the girls', But most of the expenses for two people to fall in love together, it is inevitable to increase their living expenses, and many boys can't afford to have bad family conditions.
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How to look at college students falling in love 1, now college students fall in love is a personal freedom, but for the concept of love in love, many people do not have, some people use money as the benchmark for the pursuit of love, this form of pursuit, to romantic enjoyment and abandon studies. I don't have a sense of responsibility and long-term planning. It is equivalent to advancing one's own love and allowing unscrupulous sex, which we should oppose.
2. There are also many people who think that falling in love is a compulsory course in life when they are in college, but many teachers do not recommend college students to fall in love. Because the mind at this time is not so mature, and the career is not very broad. I haven't really thought hard about choosing a partner.
So there are also a lot of people who oppose it. 3. Some people think that falling in love in college can improve a person's emotional intelligence, increase the person's sense of responsibility, and let him learn to take responsibility. I also think that love in student days is very simple and sincere, and it is very worthy of everyone, and there are also many people who think that college is not a place to fall in love, and personal development and growth are more important in college.
So everybody has everybody's thoughts and sayings. For college students to fall in love, it is also a matter of opinion.
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Or should it be looked at rationally.
To be realistic, it is what to do at what stage, and you should think about it Many people choose to fall in love because of the emptiness of their hearts or going with the flow, in fact, they don't learn anything at all in love, so it will be better to be sensible, because their future has infinite possibilities.
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Each pair of lovers gets along differently, and the same different men have different economic strength. Some women always like to blindly compare, and when they see what their best friend's boyfriend buys for their good girlfriend, they will imply that their boyfriend buys it, and after a long time, it does not imply that they want to say what they want. Unless it's your boyfriend and your best friend's boyfriend, the overall economic development is strong.
Otherwise, when he can't bear your rules, the two will quarrel. The two are in love, it's good to have a comfortable relationship, and they don't need to compare themselves with others with chemicals. Because once compared, the ups and downs of the psychological state will come out, and in the end, it will also harm the feelings.
Questions. Are there any other factors?
Distance can not only produce beauty, but also create estrangement. When two people are together, the most basic thing is to eat the same table and live in the same room. If two people are not together for a long time, the relationship between two people will slowly fade, and their feelings and responsibilities for each other will also be reduced.
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In fact, there are many factors that affect the love of college students, which is a comprehensive problem, because now everyone knows that there are more men and fewer women, especially on college campuses, there are more boys and fewer girls. Therefore, a large number of male students are affected by the ratio of men and women, of course, in college, students also consider a lot of things, for example, everyone knows that college love is fruitless, because most couples will break up when they graduate, so most people will consider this factor, and they will not fall in love when they are in college, of course, part of it is because their family conditions are not good, because the current social atmosphere is not good, once two people are together, boys have to bear the girls', But most of the cost of two people falling in love together, it is inevitable to increase their living expenses, many boys can't afford the poor family conditions, so they don't consider the problem of love at all, and some boys are because of their own appearance, maybe because of poor looks or because of short height, so for this reason they can't go to normal love, of course, some people may be because of psychological reasons, maybe because of personality problems do not know how to communicate, I don't know how to confess to girls, so they will also affect the problem of college students' love. So no matter what, you must make yourself as good as possible, you must work hard so that you can have a good relationship, you must have the correct view of love and values, you must find a like-minded person, so that two people will be happier together, and I hope everyone can find the other half of their hearts.
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The factors that affect the love of college students are not available in college. Wages are brought into society. You also need to study hard, and there is pressure to get a degree.
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The economic aspect is the biggest reason.
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Graduation season breakup season, I personally think there is no inevitable connection! Just like our college class, there are seven couples who are married in the same class after graduation, not including those who were talked about in college, and those who are not in this class, but eventually get married. There are 60 people in one class.
The proportion of people who didn't break up this graduation season is considered large.
Personally, I think that when you fall in love in college, there is no absolute should or shouldn't, everyone's emotional experience is different, you shouldn't deliberately pursue it or avoid it, when love comes to you, sometimes you can't refuse, but you must not look at others who have boyfriends and girlfriends, out of vanity, just find one at random and solve the face problem. As for the practicality of college students falling in love, in fact, the feelings of the student era are relatively innocent, some people will say that it is too unrealistic, it depends on how you choose, the key is whether you want emotional love or rational love, and if you want emotional love, you don't have to think too much about realistic things, because love may be your powerful motivation, and you can work hard to get everything without it (material aspects); If you want rational love, then you should start to be rational in college, you should consider all factors, including spiritual and material aspects you have to think clearly, so there is nothing to say, nothing to do, everyone has their own way of living, the key is to recognize what kind of love you want?
Love is a dull period, in the warm feelings are, because of age you may have pressure, I can understand, I too, boyfriend is younger than me, but coquettishness is necessary, just like sugar, there is sugar to eat sweet, but it can't be too much, it will be greasy, don't expect a boy to know what you think, so take the initiative to tell him, but be sure to self-criticize, say that you have a lot of things, and then a girl is a lot of things, ask him if he minds, this is how to tell him step by step, When you are angry, what should he do when you are angry, etc., you must always tell him that you love him, ask him if he looks like you, don't force him to ask, ask coquettishly, you can't always treat him as a child, you are tired and he always thinks about his age, and he can't treat him as a father, he will not be able to stand it, work hard.
As long as you meet a good one, you can fall in love, just don't be too obsessed, and you still have to study in college, otherwise you will only regret it. Many people only know their shallowness after coming out of college, and they regret that they didn't listen to lectures well before, so they have to study in college, college is a treasure house, a treasure house of knowledge, and you must grasp yourself. Don't fall in love because of emptiness in college, I personally think that you have to meet a good person to fall in love, and it is better to meet what you like than anything else, if it is empty and lonely to fall in love, that kind of love is not very interesting, there is no feeling of happiness.
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