What are some of the habits you have inadvertently developed that have had a big impact on you?

I have worked for many years and developed a lot of habits, such as I like to do things in a planned way, the night before I will roughly think about what my work will be tomorrow morning, what kind of work goals need to be completed, whether there are any urgent problems that need to be dealt with tomorrow, and whether there are any things or documents that need to be prepared in advance tomorrow, in fact, I am very glad that I have developed a habit of planning everything, because in this way I will not panic when I do anything, Sometimes I look at the colleague next door and feel very dazed, I don't know what to do early in the morning, is it after half past nine that he suddenly remembered that there are a lot of things to do, and then he is very busy and busy until noon dinner, maybe this is the disadvantage of not planning or preparing in advance, so I am very grateful for this behavior habit and I use it very well now!

There is also a point that my work habit is that I will put the desk very neatly, I don't like the desk to be too messy and too cluttered, and my office will not have a lot of messy documents piled on it, I remember I have a colleague's desk has everything, messy paper documents and some bills anyway, there is the kind of one that has everything, sometimes I think that a messy desk will affect a person's mood at work, a neat and clean desk will give people a pleasant and comfortable feeling, It's also easier to make yourself feel pleasing to the eye when doing things, so I like a neat desk, so when people work in a non-cluttered environment, I think the work efficiency will be a little higher, and my colleagues also envy me for people who can tidy up their desks, because tidying up desks is a science, because you need to classify all kinds of documents, and you know where these documents are placed! And you'll be able to find your files at any time!

I remember when I was in elementary school, I was angry with my mother, and I thought it was my mother's problem, so I was angry and didn't talk to my mother. At that time, a cousin was also beside me, and my cousin told me half-comforting and half-enlightened: "If you want justice, you have to turn it upside down."

I didn't understand what it meant at the time, and I asked my sister what it meant to be upside down. My sister told me that if you are upside down, you have to think from the other person's point of view, for example, this time you are angry with your mother, if you stand in your mother's point of view. Imagine that you have a daughter in the future, and your daughter is also angry with you like this, what should you do?

At that time, although I didn't understand what my sister said, I couldn't imagine what I would do if I had a daughter and she would be angry with me. But I deeply remembered the saying, "If you want justice, you have to turn it upside down." And as time went on, I understood this sentence more and more.

I gradually applied it to my daily life. I can say that this sentence has played a very, very big role in my junior high school and even now. Girls in middle and high school are most worried about their relationship with friends, and girls in middle and high school are in contact with various friends, which is also a process of improving their personalities.

Fortunately, I have always remembered this sentence deeply, and I have also received a lot of praise for dealing with people, and I have gained some friends in middle and high school, and the relationship is still very good.

The other thing was when I was in elementary school, when my parents had a very good relationship with another family, and that family was very good to me, and that family had an older brother who was about two or three years older than me. So I often went to their house to play, and my aunt welcomed me very much. Once I went to her house to play, and when it was time to eat, I ate directly at his house, and then went home by myself.

When I got home, I found my father's face gloomy, so where did I go? I ate directly at that family's house. I thought to myself that his father had a very good relationship with them, and he shouldn't be angry anymore, but I didn't expect his father to fight in the end.

After this time, I didn't dare to eat at other people's houses casually.

When I grew up, I realized that when I was a child, I thought they welcomed me, but in fact, I caused a lot of trouble to others, so I also developed the habit of no longer bothering others casually, not being there, and going to other people's houses to eat casually.

I guess I got into the habit of folding quilts in high school. At that time, no matter how busy I was, I had to clean the dormitory every day and make my bed. As a result, I can now ensure that the basic beds and desks are clean and tidy even when I don't check the dormitory.

In the third year of high school, I was required by the school to keep a diary and check it weekly. Later, when I came to college, I somehow had the habit of being blue and thin without writing a diary, and found that writing a diary really benefited a lot. Sometimes I'm upset and confused, so I vent in my diary and make a note of my happiness, which is good.

When I'm old and retired, I can relive my life.

In fact, I am a person who likes to procrastinate in doing things, and I am often distracted by other things, which is actually very bad because it will lead to my own low efficiency.

I have always insisted on going to bed early and getting up early, but also because of my own insistence, so this biological clock has been formed, and then I will feel energetic and energetic every day, and my life is more regular

Thinking about all possible outcomes before doing things and leaving a path for myself is the best habit I feel I have developed, which allows me to achieve my goals as much as possible when I do things in the future.

After reading more than 10,000 volumes, using all the time to read books, after a few years, I suddenly found that one day I found that I could already accurately and clearly evaluate, express, and write my experience, and the words could also come out on their own.

When preparing for the college entrance examination, many people choose to read some youth digests, read some excellent essays over the years, and watch some current affairs and politics in society. But I keep a diary every day, and I always go back and read what I wrote. In this way, I wrote a lot of my own psychological opinions in my college entrance examination essay, and I got a high score.

A strong heart is bound to carve out a lasting beauty. There are delicate details because you have a delicate and gentle heart, will reveal beauty and warmth in the gestures; You have good living habits because you can restrain your emotions and stick to your own perseverance, and you will not be arrogant or impatient in front of anything.

Here are a lot of good habits and details::

1. When handing things, add that it is not only scissors. This includes pens, wrenches, and even hair dryers. Hand the handy end to others, so that the other party can use it immediately after getting it;

2. The mobile phone is silent and vibrates during the meeting;

Do not make loud noises in public;

4. In dormitories, libraries, offices, etcBe light-handed;

5. When moving chairs and tables, the compatriots downstairs are very sensitive to the sound upstairs;

6. Be patient, newborn calves are good, but don't be reckless;

7. Treat people warmly. Say hello to acquaintances and say hello. As long as you don't get up to someone else when they have a personal matter or are obviously very defensive about you.

8. Carry tissues with you. It's a very good habit. It often gives others the impression that you pay attention to details.

9. Don't be too tactful. Chinese don't like to be direct, but too tactful words will make many people think you are grinding, especially when facing your boss.

10. Cover your mouth or face the ground when coughing or sneezing.

12. When you are ready to go crazy, you silently read from 1 to 10 in your heart, think twice before acting, maybe your anger will fade after reading.

On time. Especially men. If a big man can't even keep time, how can you make others think you are reliable.

Don't turn a blind eye to things that aren't your obligation. In the restaurant, the chair is overturned and you can help lift it, the staff in the supermarket can't move the box when you replenish the goods, you can help lift it, and the roadside bicycle is blown down and help it.

Don't make promises lightly. Words like "I promise" and "sure" are few to say. If you are not completely sure, explain it to the other person.

16. Go to the appointment If you are going to be late, remember to tell the other party in advance: "I am stuck in traffic and will be half an hour late." ”

Don't exaggerate what you think is good, and belittle what you think is bad. Everyone has a different education, and their outlook on life, worldview, and values is also different。You can give some suggestions for those very unnatural and strange ideas, but everyone's way of living is different, as long as you live happily, it is enough.

Empathy.

19. Boys, the words can not be good-looking, but they must be neat and give people a serious impression;

Clothes can not be new, but they should be clean and tidy;

22. The keyboard of the computer should be wiped frequently, because it is very easy to be contaminated with dust, and the tape can be tied to the cardboard to absorb the dirt in the gaps. The desktop of the computer should be neat and tidy, and don't think that the icons on your desktop will give people the impression of being tall.

23. Learning to cook a good dish, in fact, it doesn't take long, two months, and home-cooked food is no problem.

Be a good person, but don't be a good person. People should be a little temperamental, angular, and don't be too accommodating to others.

In short, a good habit is good for others, but also good for yourself.

Good habits in our lives are really important, but there are many small details that are easy for everyone to ignore. What are some of these small details that can have a positive impact on us or others? Let's take a look!

1.Always carry a five-piece set when you go out: tissues, chewing gum (preferably without chewing sugar), wallet, mobile phone, keys.

2.Every day before going to bed, think about what you have said and done. If you say something wrong, apologize the next day or on the spot.

3.When you open the door, if there is someone behind you, help hold the door.

4.Say a little more thank you, whether it's to a subordinate, to a waiter, or to a taxi driver.

5.Before going out, or every morning when you get up, take a shower. This allows you to have a mental look and also avoids strange smells on your body.

6.If you think of something interesting, write it down on your phone.

7.When you arrive at a new place, you can observe the surroundings, look at everyone's clothes, look at everyone's expressions, and by the way, you can avoid some unnecessary trouble. Oh, and don't forget to check out the escape route in case of a fire or emergency.

8.Always have some mineral water at home, or purified water.

9.Spend at least half an hour a day reading a book.

10.Look at others when you speak.

11.When friends get together, or when someone else is talking, never touch your phone – if you must turn it on, say sorry to your friend first.

12.If it is not necessary, the mobile phone will be on silent all year round.

13.A little more smile.

14.Walk a little faster than others.

15.If you sleep enough, you won't stay in bed.

16.Reach out to a good friend when you're okay and tell them what you think (e.g., "I've been missing you a little lately").

17.When I treat my friends, as long as they don't have shortcomings that I can't accept, I will only remember their strengths.

18.At all times, listen to others before you speak. And don't judge a thing from your own point of view. Because of what you think is right, many times the value of the other party is outrageously wrong.

Good habits can have a good influence on us and make a good impression on others, and these start with some details in life. Everyone has learned some small details, and you should pay more attention to them in life!

For example, go to bed early and get up early, put down your mobile phone, put down your electronics, get up every day, stand in front of the mirror, and suggest to yourself that this is a new day, I want to refuel, cook myself a meal in my free time, sit down and enjoy it slowly.

When throwing away a parcel, tear off your personal information. Look in the mirror every day before going to bed and say to yourself, refuel, look in the mirror before going out every day, cheer yourself up, and tell yourself that this is a good day.

When others are resting, the sound of their movements should be as low as possible, and they must be informed before using other people's things, and when they go somewhere, they will say to the people around them, and listen carefully when others speak.