I don t even know what I want! What to do

Updated on society 2024-07-02
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't know what you mean by "want", but it should be in your relationship. However, whether it is love, friendship or family affection, such problems that people have in the process of intercourse are all attributed to an internal cause - the unconscious need of the heart. In short, you have to understand yourself first, we all have formed different degrees of values and worldviews in the process of growing up for various reasons - you feel that you don't know what you want in love, or in other words, you can't be pleased, satisfied, which means that you have not yet figured out the meaning of life and having a lover - the "value" you desire has not been discovered and clarified.

    It may be difficult for outsiders to put forward any constructive opinions on such a question, but in my personal experience, watching movies and reading some books with high nutritional value are very beneficial. In the process of seeing, I substitute myself and my own confusion to think, and simply say "connection" and "imagination".

    Putting aside these big problems, let's talk about the most simple, you don't know how you want to get along with each other or the entity in reality, but people have a universal need - that is, to get happiness and a sense of belonging in love. I would say that caring for the people you love and feeling the care of others can help you understand your own needs.

    I wish you the best of luck finding what you really need soon.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, life is very simple, I don't understand why many people like to think about it, in fact, many things can't be solved, and they can only increase their troubles. If you don't understand something, you can ask others if you ask them, and don't hold back your thoughts. If you have something on your mind, if you are willing to share, you can also talk to a friend and see what everyone thinks.

    If you feel that there is really no way to do it, just let it be, only this is the best solution, I don't know what I want, I am at a loss. I don't know what you're referring to.

    I'll just say a simple word, I don't know, in fact, you don't need to know, slowly experience life, one day you will know what you want, and then work hard for it, slowly be content, and be content and happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't do it.

    Stay there and talk about it when you know what you want.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The question is that I am now an ordinary high school student in my second year of high school, and now I am faced with two choices, first, to study and take the summer college entrance examination, and second, to transfer to general integration and take the spring college entrance examination. I'm so entangled in what to do

    Question: Well, on our side, it's the first year of vocational integration, and I don't dare to bet. But with my grades, if I don't slack off, I can go to a bachelor's degree. And here, with my grades, it's hard to retake the undergraduate exam.

    Well, on our side, it's the first year of professional integration, and I don't dare bet on it. But with my grades, if I don't slack off, I can go to a bachelor's degree. And here, with my grades, it's hard to retake the undergraduate exam.

    Then it must be hard work and take an undergraduate exam.

    Question: If you don't gamble here, it's a specialty.

    Listen to their opinions. In reference to their own inner choices.

    Other people's opinions, just refer to them. The important thing is to follow your heart. No regrets.

    If you want to Bo, then you have to be spiritual, and take action.

    Question: They don't want me to go to the vocational general integration, because the vocational general integration, I can only choose a university in the province, and the major is selected in advance, which is very limited. They think that if I don't choose, even if I go to a college in the future, I can choose a college in the whole country, and the scope is wider.

    Also, if you choose a specialty, you will be more selective when the time comes. Because times are changing, society is changing.

    Listening to what you say, I don't recommend you to go to that Purongtong. My advice.

    Question, but I would like to say that the summer college entrance examination is also very difficult, and there are many challenges.

    There are also many challenges, so it's better to choose.

    Rush directly, and get on when you see it.

    When asked, I only talked about the challenges and risks there (if I applied for a job, I wouldn't be able to get into the bachelor's degree). Here, you may not be able to get into the undergraduate program, but it is very stable and you can get a good junior college. I've been missing classes for a week, I really don't know if I'm going to keep up, and I'm currently facing a big exam.

    But don't put too much pressure on yourself.

    A big exam, this time you can test your current level.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In this case, there is danger. It shows that you have no purpose in doing things, you need to be rational first, and think about the consequences when you want something.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Why do people have to know what they want? You have to learn to accept yourself and embrace the diversity of the world.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What to do when you are confused.

    1. Interest is the most.

    A good teacher is first and foremost based on his or her general hobbies.

    Find a related job, focus on stabilizing yourself first, and then seek development. 2. Understand yourself and clarify your interests and hobbies in order to determine your own development direction.

    3. Determine the direction of struggle, and after you have a clear goal, your mood will calm down, so that your mood is not confused.

    Finish. 4. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Once you have a clear goal, you need to start working hard.

    5. Have a good attitude and believe that unpleasant things will pass quickly. 6. Find the other half and establish stable rear support, so that the relationship can be relied on, and someone will give you support when you are lost.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because you don't have the right values in life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Me too, and always do whatever comes to mind, without a plan.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because you don't have the right values in life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you know what you want to eat? Do you know what you want to wear? Do you know if you want to drink water? Don't know what you want to do? Love red? Love green? Like tall people? Short? ......Hahaha......

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