Why is your relationship not long lasting, and some people can know from the beginning to the end

Why can't I talk long every time I fall in love?

1.Slack management of oneself in love.

To maintain the longevity of a relationship, first of all, you can't neglect yourself, and the two people in a relationship must first be evenly matched, and then you can go on well. Why don't you live with the beggars on the side of the road? Why didn't Fan Bingbing and Wu Yanzu choose you?

Because none of you are in the same rank. If you were able to walk together at the beginning, it shows that there is not much difference in the value of the two parties, but if you suddenly become ugly after being together, or your personality suddenly becomes very bad, and your self-worth is reduced, don't blame the other party for changing their minds, people are selfish in the end, and they tend to feel better.

2.The two of them are getting more and more bored together, and they have less and less to talk about.

The same is true for many couples who have been together for a long time, two people have no topic to talk about, and two people will feel bored when they stay together, easy to get bored, and eventually easy to break up. The solution is for two people to develop common interests and hobbies, or two people to create a common goal, a lifetime is not short, and they must always have similar interests to walk.

3.Personality problems.

This personality question is a big outline for two people to break up. Appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, character, mutual respect, kindness, and finally character. For example, the avoidant personality I mentioned earlier in the article cannot last in an intimate relationship for a long time, they will enter an intimate relationship, and then find a way to escape such an intimate relationship, and then do not accept **, ignore people, and be cold and violent.

Such a situation is one. There are also situations where you can't respect each other, can't tolerate each other, can't be considerate of each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, are picky, can't understand, and no one is perfect, and this situation can't go on for a long time. There are also all kinds of extreme personalities such as being too strong and too clingy, and they can't last long in a relationship.

The reason why some relationships don't last long is because the two people are not in harmony. Or maybe there are various reasons. The personalities are not compatible together, or they don't want to be in love for a long time.

And some people go from the beginning to the end. can be together, it is because the two people have a very good relationship, and they both cherish each other more. Love is also rushing to get married.

So it's not the same.

This is an employee issue. Some people look at each other right from the beginning and like each other. Or some people belong to the kind of personality that is very good.

I feel so-so, barely enough. And there are people who are very patient. Even if you feel dissatisfied.

You're a sister. So. Either it's true love.

Because of this. If it's too ordinary, it's too ordinary, and it'll go. It's annoying.

If a person is very demanding of his significant other. I care a lot about my feelings. Think of such love.

It could be very long, because of love inside. There is a real need, and there needs to be tolerance.

Summary. If you meet a more suitable person in love, I think it's better to get along with your boyfriend and then let go of it yourself.

Kiss: Hello wow.

If you meet a more suitable person in love, I think it's better to get along with your boyfriend and then let go of it yourself.

Because there will always be someone who is more suitable, but we have been with our boyfriend for a long time, and the best <> is the moment

I'm here. Don't rush, take your time.

But the other one is more patient and considerate to you than your boyfriend, and thinks about everything for me.

The other person isn't with you yet, so of course he's so sweet.

After being together for a long time, it will become very dull after the hot love period, which is a very normal baby <>

For such a situation, we must cherish the happiness of the moment, otherwise we will always chase such intimacy, and the other party will also change.

Take your time, I've been [comparing hearts] [comparing hearts].

But my boyfriend is impatient, and I have to talk first when we quarrel.

He doesn't have the patience to do anything else.

Have you ever considered getting married?

Others are okay, there are considerations of getting married.

There is no husband and wife who do not quarrel and it is the same for couples, after you are with that gentle and considerate person, he will not be as gentle as pursuing you.

Then I suggest that you still get along with your current boyfriend, and that gentle and delicate person should stay in the depths of your heart.

And that person who wants to pursue you knows you have a boyfriend.

I know that I told him, so I didn't agree, the most important thing is that my boyfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship, and we only see each other once a year, which is really not easy.

Long-distance relationships are the hardest.

It's because of work, can't you be in one place?

Yes, so sometimes it's a little tangled.

I understand that this is normal, and although you are asking questions, I think you know how to do it<>

Uh-huh. Can't you go to him, or can't he come to you.

Let me tell you, two days ago, I received a two-hour long-distance relationship consultation, and they were physically and mentally exhausted.

I'm here, slowly, I've been there.

But yes, maybe it's because he didn't go to work much, and in the past two years of the epidemic, the place where he goes to work is not convenient.

Can you change jobs to work for your boyfriend?

Long-distance relationships are bitter.

1. Old and dead do not get along. Because I really loved, I really hurt, and even if I broke up, I missed it in my heart and didn't dare to see each other. I still feel resentful when I mention it. Why did it ...... in the first place?It seems to let go, but in fact, it is unforgettable.

2. It doesn't matter. Since everyone can be together, they will be together, and if fate is broken, it is really broken, and I want to make it clear and make an end to this love. Since we can't love each other well, let's just let each other go free and bless us. There is still a long way to go in life.

3. Silent guardian type. still cares about each other, but these are no longer love, but a kind of family affection. After being together for a long time, they are like friends. Since you can't love, you can always stay by your side and know each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but you can not disturb each other.

Falling in love is also called intimacy, and intimate relationship time measurement is one thing, and more consideration is quality, which is the part of real communication and exchange. Some people seem to have been in love for many years, but they have been fantasizing about the ideal relationship world, and it will be painful once something different from the cognition. Love and hate are the same kind of organization that exist at the same time, the deeper the love, the deeper the hatred, only when these two emotions are allowed to exist at the same time, accept your dissatisfaction with the other person at this moment.

is the premise of managing a relationship well.

Falling in love on Zhihu is actually a kind of online dating that falls in love online. Since it's on Zhihu, then you should have a lot of communication, and you're talking about falling in love, so there should be more topics between you. This is a good sign.

Because if there is no topic of conversation between couples, it is not far from breaking up. There are a lot of common words between couples.

Generally, if you are in a relationship, you need to interact every day. At least no more than one day. In the case of online dating, because there is no real meeting, there is a greater need for interaction.

You can share something you have seen or heard every day. It is to make most of your chat atmosphere relatively relaxed. It makes people laugh.

You can give each other a small agreement. There will be a bond that will last this way. Of course, if you can, well, the two sides know each other more clearly, and if you have a long time, you can choose to meet in reality or appear.

Unless you don't plan to get married.

There's also a little trick that belongs between you. For example, every day, you or he will do something and say a word. Little nicknames for each other also exist.

It's better to have things that you do with each other. What is it? You can see what is better depending on the situation between you.

That's all I have to say, and I hope you can adopt it.

Finally, I wish you a happy heart. Get what you want!

How to fall in love for a long time? For those who have been in love for 5 years, I will summarize 3 secrets for you.

There will be friction in love, and there will definitely be faults. If your partner makes a mistake or you find some shortcomings in the other person, remind yourself to accept rather than try to change them. As a psychological counselor, I have seen too many broken feelings, which is trying to change the other person.

chose a career-oriented man, and then asked him to take care of the family and raise a baby;

Love is mutual, only one party's giving, there is no way to last! It takes both people to know how to cherish each other. Love each other!

Be sincere! Don't cheat! Don't hide it!