What moment did your best friend make you suddenly feel like you re at a distance?

We have always had a very good relationship, inviting each other but the bridesmaids, the other party has something to do, a ** is absolutely present, and the other party doesn't want to pay back the money.

One day she picked up a ** in front of me, and the other party asked her what she was doing? She:

I was shopping with my colleagues...Colleague....

On a normal day, our contact became less and less, and I contacted her more often. Ideologies are becoming more and more different. But I wishfully thought that our relationship was like the kind of relationship that we didn't usually have much contact with, but when we met, we resumed our previous relationship.

It's only now that I realize that our relationship isn't going to be the same anymore. In the past, we had a very tacit understanding, so good that we were like one person, looking for snack bars everywhere together, and shopping all over the streets together.

I played well in junior high school, but after graduation, I went to a different school. The people we come into contact with every day are different, and the environment we stay in is different, and it feels like we have changed from having nothing to talk about to nothing to talking about.

I don't know if she changed her number, I forgot her birthday, or I only found out by reading Weibo, so it's a long distance.

Just when we had known each other for so many years, she cautiously came to me for help, and finally said thank you very uneasily. Friends are meant to help each other, and the words thank you really make me feel a sense of distance.

On the bus, we were all standing, the car entered a turn, and I wanted to reach out and help her. She pushed my hand away.

When the winter vacation came out, she was carrying a chanel bag, and I was carrying a bag I bought after reducing the coupon at a certain store in **.

I don't say anything to the other person, the conversation is just a polite greeting, too much I won't say too much, and I don't even know what topic to talk about.

Once in Shanghai, I had dinner with a very good friend who used to play with me, and I spoke my hometown, but he always spoke Mandarin to me.

That's because you haven't been together for a long time and don't know each other anymore.

One day, I was surprised to find out that my best friend suddenly became weird? I thought hard and realized to my horror: everything was caused by changes in life.

When it comes to friends, of course, we should start with a good childhood. Everyone has childhood friends and happy childhood memories. Although few people's childhood lives are unhappy, childhood memories are still the most memorable memories in life.

No one remembers when they had a family, and no one wants to have a meaning? But almost everyone plays at home in childhood.

<> in order to maintain the status quo or become better, every emotion must be maintained. There is no such thing as unreasonable love and hate in the world, so you don't have to put a lot of effort into keeping it, the end result will just move with the wind. After a l, the other person is not the only one for you or your friend.

You still have your life and you have to communicate with other people, so friends don't suddenly feel strange, but gradually lose that beauty because of the passage of time and your carelessness towards each other. It's as if I suddenly looked back. Even if you see what you want to see, you won't know what's going on without looking back.

Boys and girls are different, and maybe girls will be more hypocritical. Girls will accompany Gao to care, my best is you, and then your best, I am the only one. When did you feel weird?

Maybe you suddenly realize that there is a person between you and your good friend. They have a lot of secrets. They went in and out together.

They smile silently, while you stand beside them like a stranger. You may feel sad, but let it go and don't force it. Life is like a bus, you don't know who will sit with you until the end, someone will get on the bus and someone will get off.

Maybe one day, when the third person gets out of the car, your friend will come back with you. Maybe he will change his mind for a while and get off with another person, he won't come back and you will have new friends. Remember your destination, keep going, gather and disperse, and don't force.

When he needed help, he sent a message to his best friend in the chain, but he didn't get a response, and when he was ignored, and when he was helpless, he felt that his friend was so strange at that moment.

For example, when I watched the dust and sent my best friend Mori and others to go shopping, the two of them talked and laughed, and the feeling surpassed the feelings of the two of us, which made me feel that my best friend was very strange at this time.

Feeling a strange and awkward situation means that you have nothing to say when you meet. Everyone's Qi Feng's life circle Gao Lusheng is constantly happening, and the people and things that change the contact are also different, especially as a housewife and some friends at work, there is no common language, even if they chat together, they will feel very strange and awkward.

Even now I understand that not many friends are the kind of people who can help each other, so when he reconnects with me, I still choose to reconcile with him. But we all know that when that estrangement occurs, it is difficult for the relationship to maintain the original situation. After this incident, I have been indifferent to making friends, and I have thought that it may be my own problem, but I have never been able to dissuade myself, probably disappointed in the relationship.

When I sat down with my best friend for dinner, they were chatting about a hot topic, and I had to eat meat on the sidelines. I can't say a word. At this time, I felt like my best friend was a stranger.

When I shared a thing with my good friend, my good friend behaved unusually coldly.

After my boyfriend and I started dating, I once heard from my boyfriend that she used to like my boyfriend and even secretly asked my boyfriend out behind my back.

It must have been when the two of them were at a party together, and suddenly they felt like he was pretending not to know me, which was really strange.

It's just that I haven't seen him for a long time, and when I suddenly see him, I feel that my best friend is very strange, because I feel like I've changed a lot, and I'm no longer the person I remember.

In fact, when I tell my best friend a secret and tell him not to tell it, but he secretly tells others, I will think that he is a stranger because he broke his promise with me.

When I was 11 years old, I encountered the darkest moment of my life. That year, my physical condition was very poor, and I always felt that there was something wrong with my body, and then I went to the hospital to see a doctor accompanied by my friends. After telling the doctor about my physical condition, the doctor told me that my symptoms were a bit like xx cancer and that I needed further tests.

So I took the list prescribed by the doctor and went for various tests, but the results of the tests did not come out so quickly. So I was very depressed, and I subconsciously thought that I really had cancer. Thinking that my family conditions were not good, I might not be able to help me treat my illness, and that if I died, my family might not be able to accept this reality, the more I thought about it, the more uncomfortable I became.

even moved the idea of suicide.

My friend sensed my thoughts and advised me not to scare myself, because it wasn't really cancer. Then she said that she had some savings in her hands, and she could help me treat my illness first, so that I didn't have to worry.

Later, the results of the examination came out, but it was only a false alarm. But there are some minor problems in the body and I need to stay in the hospital for a few days. My friend listened to the doctor's words and immediately helped me get hospitalized and paid for the hospitalization.

In the next few days, I also took leave to stay with me in the hospital, bringing me food and washing clothes.

At that time, I really felt that she might not be my friend, but my dearest person. Because only the closest ones will take care of a person so carefully and without complaint. It was also at that time that I knew in my heart that she would be my best friend for life.

Now, because the two of us are married to different places, we don't see each other as often as we used to, and it's even hard to see each other again. But every time both parties are in a bad mood, they will still find each other to chat, and they will not be unfamiliar because they haven't chatted for too long. This may be because they give each other sincerity and really regard each other as close relatives and friends.