How did your mood change during the time you let go of your first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-11
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    At that time, the change in mood was very long, and it lasted for half a year, but because time is the best antidote, I changed from inner pain to dull pain, until later, no pain or itching.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My first love is different to too many people, so many years have passed, occasionally when I think of two people together, I feel really happy and happy, although there is no shadow of her, every time I think of being together, I am happy, every time I pass by her **, I will think of her, I will look at it a few times, and I will silently wish her happiness in heaven, ** also get the punishment she deserves, and the bad guy is also dead, if there is really a next life, I hope you wait for me, and in the next life I will love you with my life to protect you and take care of you. ‍‍

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    At the beginning, the first love is difficult to let go, maybe you can only do it when you think about him will not be heartbroken, when you let go of him and find someone who loves you more, you will find that you were really naïve to treat your first love, since it is the first love, don't forget, that is the first step you take when you become an adult, thank him for letting you grow up, the first love is unforgettable, cherish it! Friends, hold on to your first love, I wish you happiness!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In that short period of time, the mood changes are simply varied, the previous week was very depressed, always felt that something was missing in life, it didn't take long for the mood to slowly ease up, only occasionally thinking of him would be a little melancholy, and then after a month or so, the mood returned to normal, I was still the lively girl who loved to laugh.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    From the grief at the beginning, to the misery in the middle stage, to the gradual relaxation of the mood at the end, the process was simply too painful, but in the end I still let go of the relationship, thanked him for making me so naïve, and thanked him for the memories he brought me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    At the beginning, I was very sad, it was painful, but then after the persuasion of my best friend and the company of my friends, I was slowly relieved, and then I came out of the pain, and now I sometimes think about it, it is also a very good memory.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I was very angry at the beginning, then I was relieved later, then I was at the stage of introspection, and finally I was very optimistic about life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't regret the time I spent with him, and I don't regret separating because of disagreements.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My first love is still there, and I think that after a long time, any feelings will slowly fade. ‍‍

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can't let go of it for a lifetime, what you want to do is to seal that beautiful memory.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hey, I'm very impressed by this, it took me 4 years to put it down, and the way is not to see her, not to think about her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After seeing him for many years, he has changed from a young man to a greasy and fat old man who began to bow down, slapped himself twice in his heart and scolded 10,000 swear words, and then let it go.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Silly child, the road walked, the person who has loved, will not come back after the past, and the return is no longer the original scenery of the original mood, love is a sad fairy tale Anyone who has read it, has more or less left regrets, when we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If you don't have a chance, you won't be able to understand even if you get together, so let's let everything go with the flow.

    Everyone has their own journey, there will be a variety of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience everyone is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have happened, time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future... We want to be strong, we want to smile.

    Life is also a perfect life because of regrets, you will not be happy during this time, you should learn to use this time to think about it, don't start a new relationship easily, and taste the feeling of failure, which is very helpful to you.

    Love can't be a bond, so you have to choose to let go and calmly let each other out of each other's world.

    Be busy, let yourself not think about him, don't pay attention to him, understand, I hope you get out of the broken love as soon as possible, it is better to move forward, there is still a long way to go, and we will meet our own in life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whether you can let go or not, the key is whether you have put him in your heart. First love, in everyone's heart, is such a beautiful opinion thing, how can you say let go, let go, unless, there is no love between you at all. If you are not careful, you fall into the mud of love, and you want to come up easily, I think, few people can do it.

    It is often said that time wears everything away. Wait until a certain point, you no longer think of your first love, even if you think about it occasionally, there is no such sadness, only the moment when you raise the corners of your mouth and smile, congratulations, you have really let go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on how deeply you love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If it's playing, you can quickly play the second one, and if it's unforgettable, and you don't want to forget it at all. That may be a lifetime, if you have a good attitude, if you don't forget it, you will only hide it in your heart, and life will go on! There are many situations, and the specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Every relationship, whether it is the first love or not the first love, as long as you have truly loved, it will not be easy to forget, in your own opinion, forgetting has nothing to do with whether it is the first love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Not easy to be the first to enter your heart.

    Maybe not your other half.

    But it will definitely be the one you remember for the rest of your life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Generally, not. Because that's the first time you feel someone else in your heart, that's the first time you've loved someone.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Yes, when you come into contact with a lot of people, you will gradually forget.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not very easy to forget doesn't mean you can't remember it, but it's not so sad to think about It's very indifferent When you think of the past, you may smile and tell yourself that we were really young at the beginning You can contact him (her) indifferently Talk about the past and ask about the current situation At this time, it means that you are all mature But this really takes time Love is a habit that can't be quit You need to replace this habit with another habit Understand.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The most important thing is to talk about whether there is still a feeling between two people, and there is no happiness when they are barely together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not easy, first love is always beautiful, it's been more than 10 years since my first love, and I still haven't forgotten it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First love is the relationship of the past, let him pass in the past, what can't be forgotten, isn't there a sentence? We are worthy of the past, and we must cherish the present, cherish the present, cherish the present, and cherish the people in front of us. The past relationship is a perfect end for him, and he is also a wonderful experience in our lives, isn't it?

    The feeling of first love is real, but it cannot be misunderstood that real love is the same as true love, and first love is indeed the most unforgettable.

    What does it feel like to be in love for the first time? The feeling of drinking the first sip of yogurt! An immature love affair that is just beginning to bloom!

    First love is sour, astringent, bitter, sweet, beautiful, sour with astringency, bitter with sweet, you will know what it tastes and feels after trying it! If you like it, you look flustered when you see it, your face is red, and your heart is racing. The first love is still very hazy, and this kind of love is called the sprout of love.

    Love is an indescribable feeling, it is very wonderful a very simple love, love is only limited to having a good impression of each other, like to be with each other, feel very happy with each other, there is no responsibility to talk about at all, often the first love of people will put their feelings about each other and the future of each other think very beautifully, which is that they have not experienced the embodiment of life, did not experience the ups and downs and joys and sorrows of the two in life, this first love is really very simple, is an immature love, The love of first love is real to the person's initial feelings. Even if it is an ignorant child, although it does not understand love, but the obscurity it produces, at least it is real!

    Maybe only when you are separated, you feel that the whole sky has fallen, and you feel that you will not love anymore, but time is the best thing to heal wounds, but the past is faded, but it does not mean that there is not, the so-called letting go is not forgetting, but when we think about it again, we just smile indifferently.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I didn't let go, but I didn't bother with my last tenderness, my first love was my first love, although he only accompanied me for more than a year, but it made me experience the warmth of love, leaving a good memory, although now I still occasionally read his Weibo, but they are fine.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, this is all something that has been experienced before, and there is nothing to let go, and you can't let go, just look at how you think, if you like your idler, then you will definitely let go, if you don't have that, you still can't let go, then go back to him, time, feelings are really important.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First love is what impresses everyone, probably it is the first love that teaches us how to get along with the opposite sex, so that people can grow, but the first love still has to be let go, after all, you still have to start a new life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The moment I decided to break up with him, I let it go. It's not that I'm ruthless, when you're hurt to the point of being left out to a certain extent, you will find that breaking up is a relief. That's why people like me never persuade others to break up, nor do they persuade others to reconcile.

    The authorities are obsessed with bystanders, happiness is like people drinking water and knowing their own warmth, and only their own feet know best whether the shoes are suitable or not.

    There is no way to force this kind of thing, if you don't love it, you don't love it, you have to make it clear immediately, I don't know where I, an authentic girl, came from the open-mindedness and boldness of a northern girl, haha. Human life is really very short, and no one knows what tomorrow will bring. I don't want to waste my feelings and my life on anyone.

    If you love, please love deeply, and if you don't love, please let go. I am a girl who dares to love and hate, which does not mean that I don't care very much. The moment I decided to be with him, I decided that I would be him for the rest of my life.

    I admit that I have a lot of shortcomings, I am clingy, I am jealous, I am a picky eater, I sometimes don't care about people, I sometimes can't handle my relationship with others, I am always very confused, I can't tell the right and left. But this is me, and I'll always correct it when you say it. Again and again I didn't give me face and called me stupid in front of your friends.

    I'm sorry, I love face and can't bear it. You're the big guy, I'm not going to serve anymore.

    Choice is responsible, I strive to do my own duty, strive to become excellent and be able to stand side by side with you and not become your burden. Everyone is equal in love, and I don't feel like I'm a little better just because I'm a girl. One person can go fast, but two people can go far.

    Relationships need to support each other in order to last forever. A good relationship requires both parties to work hard to maintain a better relationship, and a good relationship is that both parties are willing to work hard for each other to become a better version of themselves.

    Finally, I wish you happiness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Time will erase everything, and it is right to cherish the present.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not yet, I always think about it before I go to bed at night, and I think about it when I wake up.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    What you can do now is that you need to divert your attention, so that you will think of him less, for example, if you are engaged in learning, your mind is full of learning, there are very few of her, and you will not think of her, but this cannot solve the fundamental, the most fundamental thing is to find a better object, or you find a lot of friends, so that you have more friends, you have more time to spend with your friends, to be in a relationship with them, so that you have less free timeThe first person you think of is your friend, not your first love.

    In fact, I have experienced such a thing myself, because I am also a person who attaches great importance to feelings, when I first paid attention to feelings, we dated for six months, and the relationship was particularly good at the beginning, but then I found that the two people were not so suitable, and slowly the relationship faded, so that we left each other, which made me unforgettable, although I left later, but I still couldn't let go of her, but then I found out that I met a better girl, so I didn't care so much.

    In any case, if you want to forget your feelings, then you need to put in a lot of effort, you need to make a lot of mental preparation, so you have to treat yourself well no matter what.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    First love is the most beautiful nostalgia in a person's life, and it is a memory that people can't let go, but the existence of first love makes it impossible for people to carry out the next relationship, so what should be let go is still to be let go after all.

    First, let the good past only exist in the memory.

    Thinking about the first love, there may not be so many bruises all over the body, some are just some astringent bitterness, more of the yearning for ignorant love when we were young, and the innocent past brings us good memories. Therefore, when facing the first love, we must not break it, but just seal this past in our memory, so that it will always exist beautifully, and it must not be touched.

    Second, it is not forgetting but bearish.

    First love can't be erased in our minds, so don't forget it at this time, as long as we look down on this relationship, then we can think of how much is worth remembering? Maybe what you can't let go of in life is just that beautiful memory, and maybe everything will turn into regret when you get it. So we must take the first love lightly and just quietly treasure it in the depths of our memory.

    Third, re-pursue your own happiness.

    Life is a process of constant development, and without a crooked neck tree, there may be a large forest waiting for you in front of you. Therefore, we must not be reluctant to fall in love with our first love, but must have a fighting spirit and have the courage to pursue our own happiness. In this way, our lives will be wonderful and colorful.

    If you encounter the next relationship, you must not lose the opportunity because of your first love, because this is also unfair to the protagonist of the next relationship.

    To sum up, first love is just a good memory, everything that has been experienced has passed, so you must not be sad, you must make great strides on the road of pursuing true love, and pursue your own true happiness.

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