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Time is the best tool to forget everything, you can try to discover some new hobbies, if you are idle, do more of these things you like and some aerobic exercises, people will be tired when they are tired, rest more, adjust their thoughts and emotions, etc. will help, you can also try to make some new friends, to understand the life of these new friends and so on! On the other hand, if people can give up on you, then why can't you let go of others? No matter what the reason is, this reason is always caused by both sides, and the greatest sorrow in life is that you can't let go!
Don't let your life be miserable! It's painful! Hehe!
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Find someone to slap you hard until you put it down.
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If you devote all your time to work or study, you won't think about it if your life is full.
Time will dilute ,
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I'm just like you now, I love her very much, because I don't have money, deep love is to be buried in time, or to get close to another person, of course, the other party also has this thought, since you don't love, why should you suffer yourself.
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Make an effort to work or study.
Don't think about it anymore.
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Let time dilute feelings, or there is no way at all, after all, feelings are sincere, and people have feelings
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Try to accept a new relationship.
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To be honest, there is no way, it depends on time, or start a relationship again. But if it's very sincere, why do you have to let it go?
Since you want to let go, what else is very sincere?
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Recently, I have learned a lot about "letting go", and I have answered many similar questions, because I think my "let go" method has proved to be feasible in practice.
If you have carefully read the answers to my hard work code, I am sure that you are already on the road of letting go. I'll just tell you one magic word:
He doesn't like you again.
Let go of a person, you have to realize from the bottom of your heart that everything is your wishful thinking, and he doesn't like you.
Maybe you can't really realize it for a while, and you can't let it go, but please follow me silently every day:
He doesn't like that you want to let go completely, and only by facing the pain head-on and healing the wounds can you make room for the newcomer. Some people also say that putting it down is very simple, you hold a cup, I pour boiling water into it, the boiling water overflows and burns you, and you will naturally let go. But people are cheap animals, not to mention pouring boiling water, some people will still be in pain and hold on to even if they pour concentrated sulfuric acid into the cup.
We must admit that when we are in the middle of an emotional event, it is difficult to analyze and deal with it with great reason.
The feeling of falling out of love is like drowning, and those pains are obviously emotional, but they become real physical pains. There's nothing to be sad about losing someone you've been with so close to you day and night, and what you're really sad about is never thinking that he would do this to you when you already knew each other so well. A slap from someone closest to you, with the same force, can hurt 10,000 more points than a slap from a stranger.
Because of the malice from a stranger you can interpret as he is sick, from the hurt of those around him, most people will have a deep sense of frustration when the first thing that comes to mind is what they have done wrong.
I have seen a lot of women who overeat and shop after falling out of love, and men who go drinking and prostituting after falling out of love, and they try to anesthetize themselves for a short time in this way. They would still sit outside Starbucks after shopping, biting the straw in their mouths, staring blankly at the crowd of passers-by. I wondered, why do other people always seem to have so many happy things?
Or sigh on the way home late at night, it turns out that Miss is really less than one ten-thousandth of her, which is even greater loneliness and sadness.
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In fact, as long as you clearly realize that the two of you are not suitable, you will naturally let go. In fact, you have a grudge against her in your heart now, not only that she rejects you, but she also says some false reasons, and on this point, your character is not suitable for her. So don't force it, there are so many people, there will always be something you like and suit you.
It's nothing, I've just fallen out of love, some people take their friends very seriously, some people value their families very seriously, it depends on what you value, you can go to whoever you value, it may not be long before it gets better, and there is what people often say, the release of this relationship is to wait for the arrival of the next relationship. When the mind is opened, happiness comes.
I have the same confusion as you, I think since I know it's impossible, let it go, feelings can't be forced, why bother to make it difficult for the other party? If you really like him, as long as he is happy, you don't want the person you like to be unhappy, right?
Let go of one person, let go of everything about the other person first, and you can't escape. >>>More