broke up, she asked me to be a brother, what should I do

How to say it, there are two sides to some things, maybe she thinks you're a good person, and she will take care of her brother, maybe she doesn't want you to be too upset, and letting you be her brother is a comfort for you, and some things have to be thought about from many angles, and you don't have too much detail about specific things, and I can't explain too much to you, I'm studying psychology, just tell me if you have any troubles, maybe I can help you, mine.

Since you can still be friends after breaking up, there are only 2 possibilities, you just wanted to have fun, the second possibility is that only one person is silently giving and loving each other, I suggest you continue to associate with him, at least you once loved him!

Even though I'm a girl I still have to say, don't do it, an absolute burden!

The boyfriend's benefits are the same, and the boyfriend may have to do something else.

If she asks you for help, you won't be able to pull your face down and refuse.

Tell the truth, don't do it!

If you get it, you can be a brother! ~~

This will increase the distance! ~~

Little dolls know it

Suddenly, this trick ? Haha, a lot of girls have used it on me, it's funny

But let's be honest, it's also a great option

If you break up, you can never be a brother again.

Summary. It turns out that this is the case, if this is the case, it may be that she is beginning to regret the separation, or it may be that she has already regarded you as a family member and is really worried about you.

My girlfriend wants to recognize me as a brother after breaking up with me, what should I do?

Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while

I think it's hanging on to you.

Hello, the relationship has always been okay, some family matters, she just proposed to break up, and now it's been three months, but in fact, every day chatting, the most to me is to let me take care of myself, every morning, noon and evening will take the initiative to ask me what I'm doing, I have a cold this time, ask three or five times a day is it better, I really don't want to contact her, but I can't bear to delete her WeChat.

If I really like you, why would I leave you because of something else?

We're all divorced, for the sake of the kids, plus we're not in the same city.

It turns out that this is the case, if this is the case, it may be that she is beginning to regret the separation, or it may be that she has already regarded you as a family member and is really worried about you.

She said in person that she would never forget me for the rest of her life, she said that I started to propose a breakup for a few days, I drank, she said that she didn't sleep well every night, and she knew that I was not in good health.

Is it because of something that forced the breakup?

We met in January and separated, she went back to her hometown to learn to drive, and saw that her son was not doing well with his grandmother, so she proposed to me that she wanted to remarry, and we didn't quarrel.

Since you still have feelings and still think about each other, don't separate.

Do you still love her.

But she doesn't mention getting back together now, just chatting, her dad was sick and hospitalized this time, and he didn't let me go to see it, it's useless for me to love someone.

I suggest you wait a while.

If she mentions that you can get back together, if not, break it.

My brother wants you to break up with your current girlfriend, and you should actively listen to your opinions. If there is, it will be changed, and if it is not, it will be encouraged.

In the age of independent love, your brother can't dislike your girlfriend, and whoever behaves like this will become your enemy. In the period of hot love, if relatives and friends have opinions on your girlfriend and point fingers, the most common reaction is that love is supreme, if you have a girlfriend, you will have no friends, and send your brother and relatives and friends to the frontier, and swear not to get along.

When we are in love, we only see the advantages and advantages of the other party, and feel that she is almost perfect and very compatible with ourselves, so the comments of outsiders become attacks or misunderstandings, as if challenging your choices and underestimating your judgment.

Second, you still have to listen to your brother's opinion on his girlfriend and distinguish carefully. In order to defend your freedom to love and to assert your own judgment, it is natural to refute the opinions of relatives and friends, listen to them and turn a blind eye. Gradually, you will find that your social circle becomes only your girlfriend, and your life becomes centered around her, and the periphery may be her friends and your new acquaintances.

3. Think seriously about whether your girlfriend is really the partner you want? In this way, it naturally becomes a starry moon, and there are no voices against criticism, only people who support and appreciate. At this critical point, some people will think about whether the other person is a suitable partner, see if they can tolerate these shortcomings or transform the other person, and then decide whether to continue the relationship or break up early.

Why do relatives and friends have such good insight? To put it bluntly, it is a kind of vantage point for bystanders. When you're in love, you're like a big close-up, taking a clear and careful look at the front of your lover.

Because they are your relatives and friends, their eyes are you and the people and things around you, they are like a news camera, focusing on you, but also seeing the back of your lover.

Because they are concerned about your future happiness, they will try to find out the shortcomings of the other person in order to make a comprehensive assessment of your lover. So, don't disagree with your brother's voice!

Then you should tell him that you are old enough to make decisions about your own affairs, and that you love her.

Other people's opinions can only be referred to, don't let others decide your happiness. You think carefully about whether you are happy with your girlfriend or not, and if you are happy, don't break up.

My brother asked me to break up, I won't listen to my brother, I know what kind of girlfriend I want, and my brother can only help me with references.

You should talk to your brother and tell him that he is not going to break up and tell him not to talk about it in the future.

You should tell your brother that you like your girlfriend very much, and I hope your brother can support you in love.

If you still love your current girlfriend, don't listen to your brother, love must be your own decision, and you can't listen to an outsider's advice.

If you and your girlfriend are truly in love, you shouldn't listen to your brother's words, and you shouldn't break up.

You have to explain to your brother that your girlfriend is fine, that you are in a good relationship, that there is no need to break up, that you love her very much.

If your brother wants you to break up with your current girlfriend, then you should communicate with him well and tell him that you have no regrets.

You first ask your brother why you broke up, understand the situation, and then think about it yourself, after all, the girlfriend is yours.