Is it good for newlyweds to have cats in a hurry

Not good. Generally, after having a child, it is still good to raise it when the child can play with the kitten. Otherwise, cats will steal the child's food.

God, I can really associate it, raising cats, especially if you live in a building, you must raise cats scientifically, feed cat food, use cat litter, you must not feed raw meat, try not to go out, regularly deworm, timely immunization, sterilization. What does having a cat have to do with children, I have two at home, and I will always keep it, even when I have children. However, looking at what you said, it is recommended that you don't raise it, and there is no way to do it with your cognition.

-|Cats will eat your baby's food!!

I can't afford to have a baby.

Cats and dogs can be thrown away at any time. Can a child???

Cats and dogs can leave to fend for themselves. Children have to take care of them with a lot of effort.

All of these are different!!

Children are to be raised for a lifetime, and going to school and providing food and housing are all large expenses, so it is better to have pets.

What does the saying "women don't have dogs, men don't keep cats" mean, is there any basis?

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I haven't heard of it. How nice it is that the man who has a cat is caring.

The cat's personality is softer, and raising a cat requires unlimited affection, because cats are more independent, unless you give 100% affection to him and are responsible for not being close to people. I'm afraid that the man's feelings will be too delicate after raising a cat. In the past, men were strong and brave.

I am afraid that raising a cat will cause only gentleness for men. Women do not have dogs, because dogs are completely obedient and giving. A woman's dog will make the girl strong in the past.

In fact, these are all nonsense.

Saying that men can't have cats is probably because of the cat's character, I don't know what other people's situation is when they have cats, but for me, raising it is like raising a girlfriend, the difference is just that the poplar forest has become a wonderful lotus, and every day is a sticky person with different tricks, resulting in not wanting to fall in love, laughing and crying.

I still have to communicate, I think you need to talk to him, yelling can't solve the problem, marriage is some trivial things that two people solve together, what to discuss, it is not possible to rely on one person's efforts, it needs the tolerance of two people, if you are only tolerant for a long time, you will definitely feel wronged, and over time the marriage will be affected. Since they are married, just two people work together, if you love him, but also as much as possible to tolerate it, some people are this kind of character, quick temper, as the saying goes, the country is easy to change the nature of the difficult to change, on the one hand, communicate with him, on the other hand, you must also have a mental preparation, when you yell at you, he will fart it, learn not to forget to go to the heart, you newlyweds still need to run in for a period of time, slowly find out each other's temperament, find a suitable way to get along, there is such a bad process, slowly communicate and solve. Finally, I wish you all happiness!

In fact, there are so many things, that is, you don't have a "backbone" in your family, that is, both of you are emperors and have the same status, so that's why you're like this. (Let me first explain here that I do not admit that men are inferior to women, nor do I admit that men must be wives after marriage).

Then, I want to explain that after getting married, a capable man is "outside the male lead, inside the female lead", that is, if there is no money in the family, it must be the man's fault, and if the family does not do well, it must be the woman's fault, which is also an old idea. But there are many problems in such a marriage, for example, when a man is rich, he spends his heart when he succeeds, but what about women? You can also have nothing to do at home, shop every day, buy and buy that, and when you can't afford it, then it is said that men are useless.

A man who is incapable, that is, like you said, the two of them have to go to work to make ends meet. When I go home, I'm tired, I'm wronged, and there are still a lot of things to do when I go home, and everyone doesn't want to do it, so what should I do? It's this complaining about that, that complaining about this.

Actually, having said so much, I want to say, when two people fall in love, why should they fall in love first and then get married? Why do so many people say now that it is obviously not like this when they are in love, and how they have changed after getting married. I can only say that the person who says this kind of thing, he doesn't know what it means to be in love.

There is a substantive problem, when you fall in love, it is also a matter of your own person, or a child in the family, of course, there is nothing to worry about, but after marriage, it is a matter of two people or three people, and it is a family matter, so there will be a lot of changes. There is also a hidden problem, that is, when you are not married, you are the boss, you can do whatever you want, and you are still the boss after marriage, but if you don't have a clear relationship, there will always be someone who has to take care of yourself, and it must be uncomfortable.

Finally, I want to say that when you are in love, you must understand a person, this is a must, don't be carried away by love, regardless of men and women, you can pass your first level first, that is, whether this person can accompany you for a lifetime, whether you are willing to give the other family such a chance, if this passes, then the next thing is to find your own shortcomings in the family, what does it mean? Let's put it this way, the other party (regardless of gender), if it is a potential stock, and he is not the kind of person who loves to fight, then after marriage, he will give up the economic power to the other party, if he has a habit of cleanliness in the family, then he will give the other party the health aspect after marriage, that is to say, there is a person in every field who is a talker, as you said, the problem of pumping, then if you fall in love at that time, if you find that your husband has the potential to plan this aspect, then you should obey and don't doubt his planPlan. Is it possible that he has already thought about the matter of keeping the door?

If you think you are better than your husband in this aspect, then you should negotiate with him before getting married, this aspect is your strength, then you are a general, he is a soldier, how do you arrange him to do it.

This was not the case before marriage, and after marriage, his temper and character were exposed. Let's break it down:

First, when you are in love, you should know his hair and friends, you inquire from the side, his temper and personality before he fell in love with you, and he often lost his temper and yelled at others? If it is, it is hypocritical to cover up with you in order to marry you, he controls himself, so you will have such a huge contrast between before and after marriage.

This is also easy to do (of course, this method is not advisable, after all, it is a legal couple, don't mention divorce at every turn, hurt feelings, don't try it, observe his attitude, you can prescribe the right medicine, let him be more restrained. He pretended to be serious about filing for divorce in response to his yelling.

Second, it is a folk saying about playing antiques: if you want to get it, you don't hesitate to spend money, once you get it, it's a decoration, not to play, to abandon it! This is called not cherishing, liking the new and hating the old, and going to find new treasures.

Third, the nature of the country is easy to change, he does not reflect, does not change, does not cherish you, that is what you said: every time he yells at you, your love for him will decrease a little bit, and you are afraid that one day your love will be reduced to the point that you cannot maintain your marriage. This is the painful choice you will make in the future.

Fourth, is what you say true? Have you reviewed yourself? Ordinary people don't get angry inexplicably, if you don't make the other party feel uncomfortable, everyone will walk away, and even be angry. Check it out!

Is there something bothering him that is why he yells at you?

You can try to be considerate and considerate of him first, and communicate with him more. Especially every night before going to bed, at least half an hour is set aside for the couple to have a good heart-to-heart talk.

And wait until he is calm, and then tell him about yelling at you, and see if he knows he is wrong!

The problem needs to be solved as soon as possible, and you can't wait for it to be squeezed to a certain extent, and then it will explode!

And the two things you said about cleaning the carpet and raising cats are not big things in principle, so you won't yell at them!

The key is your lack of communication! Communicate more, and don't hold it back in your heart! Speak up, speak up!

Both sides of the family have to face extra responsibility and pressure, some men attach great importance to integrity, and pay more attention to the vows at the wedding, but making a boy a man is not a few vows can be done, such a man loses his temper mostly because he is angry with himself, because he said but did not do it, and he is worried that the other party will be disappointed, so he loses his temper and changes the topic.

I don't know if you and your husband have talked about the most humiliating thing, the stupidest thing, and the most loss-making thing you have done before? Maybe it's been talked about, but it's definitely not deep, that is to say, you are still living with a mask, but two people living together will inevitably have something similar to the past, and the man has a good face, and he may be angry in order to hide his annoyance.

A woman's greatest achievement is not how good a man she is, but how good she makes a man.

Tolerate each other's shortcomings and exaggerate their advantages, but this tolerance is not connivance, there must be principles and bottom lines, and principles and bottom lines can win you dignity. Exaggeration of merit is not illusory, it must be exaggerated with reason, and justification can win you respect.

Strengthening communication is deep communication, you have to confess yourself in front of the other party before the other party can make the other party confess, and deep communication can strengthen the trust of both parties.

Would you lose your temper with someone you respect and treat you well, understand you and trust?

The above applies to both men and women, and the premise requires a certain amount of conversation and behavioural skills that need to be learned.

When you are not married, the relationship is not fixed, and there are not so many trivial things in life, so naturally he will not yell at you.

When you get married, all the trivial things come, and your natural true temperament is revealed. However, there will be unhappy things in everyone's life that need to be vented.

Maybe like you said, everyone is busy, no one is doing housework, everyone is annoying.

Find a time to sit down with your husband and have a good talk, untie the knot, and believe it will be fine in the future. Both sides of the family try to care about things as much as possible.

Your husband is really in the blessing and doesn't know the blessing, a woman like the landlord is what many boys dream of, after all, his first dedication to his boyfriend, and even if he yells at you like this, you still love him so much, alas, ......How can a man do this now, I think it, he loves you very much when he is in love, but after getting married, he has changed a lot and yells at you, I originally thought that life was not satisfactory, but both of you have jobs, and the economic aspect should not be a problem, so there is only one reason, that is, your boyfriend's idea is that the landlord has married him anyway, the raw rice has been cooked, and he is not afraid that the landlord will leave his boyfriend, so his own nature is revealed, this kind of boy I see a lot, the landlord, you must listen to me, Although it doesn't sound good, but for your future life, you must listen to it, couples like you I have watched a lot of Korean shows, take it is a story of listening to troubles, many couples are men who love the woman when they are in love, and after marriage, their temper changes and their nature is revealed to yell at their wives, this kind of couple has no good life after a few years of marriage, and they all want to divorce, but they can't divorce because of the children, after all, it is a painful thing for children to have no father, alas, ......Therefore, a girl who chooses a future husband must take a good look at his character, so what I want to say is that if the landlord feels that his husband can change the possibility, he will continue to be together, if not, it will become domestic violence after a few years to treat you, and at this time you can only divorce, after all, the landlord will live for decades in the future, and he must not want to live so painfully, and he must think more about himself!

Howling may be an emotional catharsis, an indulgence after repression, or impatience after a complete loss of patience.

When I was a boyfriend, I never yelled, but as soon as I became a husband, I yelled and vented, which actually shows that you may have unknowingly felt that there were some hidden emotional dangers buried in your previous relationship. For example, you have counted that he can't do something well, so that he can't feel your trust and dependence; For example, he has never accommodated his pursuit of his preferences, suppressed some of his ideas, and so on.

In fact, maybe these small problems in the process of falling in love, but he wrote it down, and after the relationship is stable after marriage, he will lower his requirements for himself and become less patient with you.

Anyway, you're married, there's already a problem, and yelling at you must be wrong with him. But no matter who has the bigger problem, after all, you need to explain things clearly, understand why the other person is angry, and then communicate well from the other party's point of view. At the same time, girls also need to have a little more self-esteem, even in the face of marriage, you must have self-esteem, so that others can respect you.

If you are married, of course, you can't say that you will break up.

But if the other party just can't communicate, it just makes you suffer a lot of grievances, and you don't break up, do you still want to catch up for the rest of your life?

It's relatively simple to have no children yet, don't think that you must have a relationship with him in this life just because the other party is your first love, you can't stop one party has been wronged, it's normal to have contacts and contacts, you better think about it, of course, if you don't want to change, then you don't need to ask netizens, anyway, your life will go on like this.