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The royal thorn thorn forest ---Guangde Temple"**.
Venerable Da'an replied: If you come into contact with the Pure Land Method, you will get physical and mental benefits through reciting the Buddha, and you also hope that your family will also believe in the Pure Land Method. Generally, people who have not been trained in Buddhism have a negative evaluation of religion for a long time, and the misunderstanding is very deep, so you are very enthusiastic to send him a Buddhist book CD, and it is conceivable that he is not interested.
So don't rush it, but guide it slowly. Let him understand Buddhism from an intellectual point of view first, and don't believe in Buddhism too much at the beginning. Because they may think that there are no restrictions on my acceptance of the Buddhist faith.
If I had lost my entrepreneurial spirit and had gone to study Buddhism in this era of competition, my job might have been gone, and he would have a lot of doubts, and of course he would refuse for various reasons.
Therefore, we should be skillful and convenient, first of all, we should talk about the benefits of learning Buddhism to the world, such as learning Buddhism can make our hearts clear, wisdom development, physical health, learning Buddhism can make us do things better, from this aspect to induce, so take your time. In case the family's opportunity does not come, they will wait patiently. First of all, you should seek yourself, you should study the Dharma Buddha well, practice the three blessings of pure karma, improve your spiritual character, and improve your overall quality.
When your family members see that you have changed for the better in all aspects through studying Buddhism, they will have a good impression of the Dharma you have learned, and they will have the idea of wanting to get in touch with it. If you are still troubled after studying Buddhism and you are not doing a good job as a human being, your family will not listen to you. People can promote the Tao, but not the Tao.
As long as you sincerely study Buddhism and pray for Amitabha Buddha's mercy and blessing, you will eventually influence your family to learn Buddhism together.
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Implement the Dharma in your own life, let your family feel the change in you, and when they ask you, that's when you transform them.
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Bodhisattvas save sentient beings, there are four methods, so learn these four methods. Giving photography, love language photography, Li Xing photography, colleague photography. Charity is for people who are heavy on money, use money, and for people who are knowledge-minded, use the law to make the friendship between the two parties gradually deepen, and achieve the purpose of self-improvement of each other; The language of love is based on the root nature of all beings, with gentle and loving words, so that others will be happy, feel that I am amiable and close to me, so as to achieve the goal of self-improvement of the other person. Li Xing is a person who cultivates the Bodhisattva Dao, and all his actions and actions are beneficial to others, and he should influence sentient beings to practice the Buddha path together with the behavior of harming himself and others, so as to achieve the goal of saving others; As a practitioner of the Bodhisattva path, colleagues should go deep into all walks of life, come into contact with people from all walks of life, be their friends, and be friends with their colleagues.
Bodhisattvas must first perform these four methods to make sentient beings love, respect, and believe in me, and then they can listen to my persuasion and practice the Buddha's path. By extension, parents must first be obedient, and secondly, they must be made happy, and then they can be gradually guided.
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[Master Dahui]: 1. Start from your own example; 2. Cultivate your own correct views; 3. Economic activities that are positive and do not harm people; 4. Rely on the knowledge of a righteous person to learn; 5. Hear more about Buddhism; 6. Think more correctly about the Dharma.
Venerable Mingjun]: Amitabha! You study Buddhism at home and set an example, and they will gradually discover the benefits of believing in Buddhism, learning Buddhism, and practicing Buddhism.
First of all, I didn't rush to let them recite the Buddha, they were amazed by what they did, and at that time they were telling them the benefits of reciting the Buddha and learning the Buddha. Amitabha! Bodhisattva bless you, may your family be safe, happy and happy.
Master Dao Li]: Don't think about who you lead, make an example for your family first.
Venerable Chang Xiu]: According to the Sutra of Good Life, to do one's duty, that is, to use the Dharma in one's life.
Venerable Hui Jian]: Amitabha! Your bad habits, your shortcomings, and your evil views have all changed, and they are gone, and your family members will naturally be infected when they see the benefits of your cultivation!
Venerable Jingyao]: Win the respect of your family with the moral personality of a Buddhist student, and then use the story of Buddhism as a guide! Let the family understand that learning Buddhism is learning to be a master! Not bothered by the external environment! The so-called knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent, making good use of sincerity will make your wish come true!
Venerable Buddha Yu]: At the right time.
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