What are some things you didn t understand when you were a kid and only understood when you grew up?

There are some things about women and some emotional things. The thing for women is to pay attention to how to solve the relationship between themselves and men in the process of growing up.

When I was a child, I thought that when I grew up, I could do whatever I wanted, and no one cared about it and no one asked, but it turned out that when I grew up, I was constrained in everything and was not free when I was a child.

When I was a child, I didn't understand people's feelings and sophistication, and I thought people were too kind and simple. When I grew up, I entered the society and saw the evil of the human heart. As a child, I believed what everyone said. When I grew up, I realized that lies are everywhere in this world.

For example, I don't know that there are so many troubles when I grow up, and I have to make money when I grow up, and I have to take on the responsibility of supporting my family, which I didn't understand when I was a child.

The most important thing may be love, I really don't understand it when I was a child, and I don't think about it, and when I get older, I will suddenly find that I like someone, which is something that I never had when I was a child.

Love, when I was a child, I felt very beautiful, as long as we love each other, we can live a lifetime, and when I grow up, I think it is the best love.

When I was a child, I always looked forward to growing up, and when I grew up, I realized that there was too much helplessness and pain in the adult world.

There is a song called "When I Grow Up, I Will Be You". I really didn't know the meaning of this song until I grew up.

When I was a child, I didn't understand, adults said that they don't like to eat, and it's a lie that you keep it for yourself, but in fact, it's not that they don't like to eat, but they are reluctant to eat and want to leave it for you.

When I was young, I didn't understand why I wanted to go to school, but when I grew up, I understood that it was better to go to school than to go to work.

When I was a child, I really didn't understand, my parents often said that I must study hard, at that time I didn't understand why I should study hard, and when I grew up, I understood that only by studying hard can I change my life.

People always fantasize about growing up when they are young, but when they grow up, they want to go back to when they were children, and I believe many people are so conflicted. When I was young, I didn't understand the troubles of adults, and after becoming an adult, these troubles would also be added to myself, so I felt that the world of adults was very difficult, and the good life of childhood was really very happy. So what are some things that everyone only knows when they grow up?

Everyone may not have tried to make money by themselves when they were young, but when they grow up, they find that it is really difficult to make money, and the money earned every day may not be enough to spend, everyone will feel that it is very easy to spend money, go to the supermarket casually, maybe a few hundred yuan will be gone, but when you work, you will find that it is very good to be able to earn 200 yuan a day, and even some people do not even earn 100. So when you grow up and work to make money, you will find how happy your life was when you were a child, you don't need to worry too much about money-making skills, you only need to spend money, but when you really grow up, you will find that the world of adults is so difficult, and it is easy to understand the hardships of your parents, so many people also care about their parents and are considerate of their parents when they grow up.

I know that life when I grow up is very boring, there will be a lot of pressure, and people often calculate among themselves, only after they have learned more things, can they bring themselves a lot of opportunities, and many things need to rely on themselves.

People need to go through a lot of difficulties in their lives, it is not easy to make money, there will always be contradictions between people, there will be a relationship of interests between people, cooking is very easy to learn, and we can understand a lot of things when we grow up.

The need to pay for social security is something that you only know when you grow up. In the past, I always thought that social security was fully borne by the state, and residents did not need to pay a penny to enjoy it. Only later did I learn about the significance of social insurance.

There's no such thing as a free lunch. Having social security is already a good benefit.

When I grow up, I have a lot of troubles, and when I grow up, I want to go back to when I was a child, I will get married, I will have children, I will start a family, and I will work when I grow up.

Everyone's life is not easy, the family conditions are not particularly good, studying hard is the only way out, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory things when you grow up, you must adjust your mood, you want to go to college, sometimes your parents are not because you don't like to eat this thing, but also leave this thing to you.

There are many parents who are really heartbroken in order to educate their children, and they have already started to educate when they are young, but their children are still ignorant when they grow up. We usually see a lot of bear children making all kinds of trouble, using umbrellas to get stuck in elevators, playing with time bombs on the road, and even throwing objects upstairs. It is true that there is no way to educate some bear children, but these children cannot be destroyed as parents because of their young age.

Parents can't turn a blind eye, or insist on educating their children, after all, children have their own thoughts, as long as they tell their children some reason, I believe that one day children will be sensible. <>

Cause disgust Children who are naughty in life are indeed very disgusted by others, and even make some malicious incidents, so these things are ultimately caused by the child's environmental problems. I believe that there will definitely be an irresponsible parent behind the bear child, and there were many news reports not long ago that the bear child deliberately pushed down a pregnant mother, causing the pregnant mother to miscarry. So the child didn't realize that this matter was very bad, after all, there was a new life in the belly.

Then this child can't be disguised by ignorance, although naughty is said to be the child's nature, it must also be measured. <>

Why do many children become self-centered when they do things, so the focus of these ridiculous things they do is actually on themselves, and they don't take into account the feelings of the people next to them. Only cares about one's own wishes, and never thinks about the discomfort of others, then these consciousnesses are actually stifling the healthy growth of children. There are also many factors that cause a lack of self-control, so why do these children lose their self-control?

In fact, parents are usually too accustomed to pampering their children, and many parents feel that their children are too delicate nowadays, and they will not work too hard in terms of discipline. <>

Parental inaction causes children to become bear children, which is actually mutated by parental inaction, and to many extent, parents always feel that discipline is not very strict. Sometimes I also indulge my children to make mistakes, but after entering and leaving society, I find that spoiling my children too much will bring serious consequences to my children. Children usually have no self-control in life, and will do some out-of-the-ordinary things, so as parents, they must discipline their children well.

This situation is generally because parents use the wrong education method, so for the child, it is the left ear in and the right ear out.

It may be that the way of educating children when they were young is not right, and they have not persevered for a long time, because children have their own style of doing things and their own opinions when they grow up, so children are still ignorant when they grow up.

It may be because parents do not play a role model, or it may be because parents often compromise when educating their children, or it may be because their children are influenced by the outside world.

Each child grows up in a different environment, school and social contact groups are different, education is one thing, what kind of education, is to teach according to aptitude or the rebellious character caused by the opposite, these vary from person to person, everyone should be their own master, good at distinguishing right from wrong, educate children not to care about grades, but also pay attention to people's conduct, people, etc.

This is because the child has grown up and has his own ideas, and he is particularly rebellious, so he is still very ignorant.

This is because the right education method is not chosen, so the child is still not sensible, and he does not listen to what you say.