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If you really want to marry her, you might as well talk to her parents.

Don't be so pessimistic, you have to respect others, others have the right to choose, you also have to cherish your own life, life is only once, some damage is irreparable, you make some efforts, if it doesn't work then there is no way.

Persistence, as long as two people love each other, that's more important than anything else, don't wait until you miss it and regret it, it's too late, I believe you will be able to solve it, come on, you must find a way to make the woman accept you,.

Stick to what is worth it and communicate slowly.

Your parents must be for your own good, you have to affirm this, you can only persuade them, not forcefully refute them. If you identify with this person, make sure that this person can make you happy, and once you decide, don't regret it, and try to make your life better and better. My parents are a combination of urban and rural, and my object is also rural, so what's the matter?

Ten years in Hexi, ten years in Hedong. Happiness is self-created. Don't just look at the moment.

Marriages that are not blessed by the family are always flawed, and there are many marriages with problems on the Internet now, and many of them are due to the disagreement of the family members.

Of course it's right, it's always right for parents. Every parent hopes that their daughter can marry well, but I heard you say that it seems that you can't do without your boyfriend, but I want to remind you that no matter how much you love, you must face the reality of the situation, this economic problem may become the fuse of the conflict between the young couple in the future, and then you think he can give you happiness He is a potential stock, then do what you want. The choice is yours (no matter what others say, especially your parents) and once you make your choice, you have to make sure that you will never regret it and live your life well for your choice.

Of course, love is very important, but the words of the old man are also to be listened to, and when you look back on it when you are older, you will know that many of what the old man said are right.

is 12 years older than you, the age gap is too big, whether it is placed on any man, whether it is at home, or friends, or other relatives and friends, basically vote against it; The question is, do you really love each other? Being pregnant does not mean that you must marry her and stay together, but you must be responsible, you can consider beating the child or giving birth to explain who will raise her, the most important point, the child is always innocent, if you choose to give birth, you must give the child father's love and mother's love; It is normal to oppose the family, you can make it clear to the family, because it is difficult for anyone's parents to accept all this in a short time, give them time, of course, let them know little by little that you really love each other, and the age gap is not a problem; The ultimate goal of your parents is to let you live well, and you will not be pointed at by your neighbors, your parents may have taken this into account, for fear of being made fun of by others, you can consider taking your parents to live in another place, a new environment, and the two of them will settle down, which is a matter of time.

Having said all this, I sincerely wish you and your parents can handle this matter peacefully and happily, and I wish you a happy marriage and a harmonious family!

The age gap is not a problem, but it is a tricky problem when it comes to traditional Chinese families, and I can only suggest that you have a good understanding of his situation, whether the relationship between you is really what you feel, and if she really loves you, you better talk about it! In fact, I believe that you also had a lot of impulses in your previous interactions, right, so for her family changes, it has brought you a wedge, many things are logical, and a woman who has been divorced will also have a lot of life pressure, look at her opinion, but before the matter is determined, the child should not be born so soon, that will be a harm to the child!

If you are sure that you want to be together, you can join in and communicate well, and you must also understand the feelings of your family, and work still needs to be done, you say!

First of all, the Marriage Law stipulates the freedom of marriage, but in reality, the opinions of parents are indispensable, and this is the reality in China. I tell you frankly that your love is originally a love that breaks the world's concepts, so if you want to get married, you must have to sacrifice, either family affection or love, it is difficult for your parents to accept the reality of your current love. One thing you have to consider is that love can be repeated, but parents can't choose, if you separate from your parents in exchange for your love, then your price is a bit big.

If the girl is indeed very good, maybe your parents can change and think about her, and give your parents some adaptation process. You'd better not be blinded by some appearances, after all, you are not from the same generation, and besides, her daughters are 11 years old, and it is unknown whether your future life will be happy. Think again.

It doesn't matter how old a man is or if he's ugly. But there must be money. If you don't have any people, you still don't get angry with your parents! There will be something you will suffer from in the future.

Don't tie it out. Although this is cruel to you and her, you can't bear to see your parents, relatives and friends suffer and even cut their wrists... If you get married, you will force your father to go to a dead end, and you may even make your mother... Let it go.,It's hard to have both loyalty and righteousness since ancient times.。。。

You'd better show your parents that you're living happily! They'll be happy! Deepen your love for each other!

This will make everyone agree in the end! Women should show tolerance and understanding for your parents, and don't be antagonistic! We are sure you will be happy!

If you really love each other, you will persevere. The opinions of parents must not be ignored, you little child is not sensible.

Love, there is no marriage that cannot be married!

Parents are all people who have come to judge, and if it is not too snobbish parents who judge that the man is not good, then it is basically like this.

I haven't seen any of the lectures upstairs, but it's ridiculous to come and see it when you make a decision in life, and it's too flooded to listen to names, and you won't obviously suffer if you follow the general trend.

Listen to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets".

Our parents love us and want us to be good, so let them see your love with your actions.

Tianxingjian, a gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement.

Have you ever seen the era of snail dwelling and naked marriage? If not, I suggest you take a look, love is not spoken by mouth, but life is moving forward, not at present, but who can be sure that there will be no in the future. If you really love his life, please believe it:

Sincerely, the gold and stone are open. Use your sincerity to communicate with both parents seriously, they are all family members, and there is no knot that cannot be solved. Finally, I wish you and wish you to go to that her soon!!

Talk to your parents. It's both parents. The other party's parents asked your girlfriend to tell you about the actual situation. Have a good chat with your girlfriend,. There will be a solution, don't rush.

I can only blame myself for being useless, just like me, I am a useless man.

What should I do if my parents don't agree? "Feelings of parental opposition" can do this.

Now, it's time to test the love between the two of you.

Love and family affection, in fact, can also be both. The key is whether you have the courage or not. How to deal with it?

If you can hide from your parents, register your marriage with him, and give birth to a lovely child, your parents will slowly accept it even if they don't agree with it... Especially seeing this little grandson so cute.

However, you must think clearly, your boyfriend is in such poor conditions now, can he afford a family?

Will he be able to feed you and your children?

Your parents are against you, and they have a good reason.

You're still young, don't rush to get married, let's observe and observe! After all, getting married is a big deal.

The last thing I want is for a woman to get married when she is about 20 years old, very immature. Later, I learned that the knot was wrong, but it was too late to regret it...

Then don't get married, a marriage is incomplete without the blessing of your family, and you may not end up in the end, because you will become a separate family, without the protection of your family's family. There is only small love, no big love. Moreover, trust the eyes of those who have come before.

Love is different from marriage, marriage is bland, and marriage cannot be operated by love alone. The person who can fall in love with you is not necessarily suitable for marriage, and the person who can be married is not necessarily suitable for living together.

You observe and observe your boyfriend, don't rush to get married, mainly look at how his character is, whether he is self-motivated, I think this is very important, your parents' worries are indeed justified, after all, you are still young and don't know what life is like. It's not in favor of you getting married right away.

Giving up the right to love someone for the sake of my family is the stupidest act I think. It's hard to say, but it's also realistic. Don't regret why you weren't brave in the first place, after ten or twenty years or even when you're old. Love is also great, don't blaspheme it for the sake of affection.

Personally, I support your family, his conditions are not suitable for marriage!! You can't marry him. Well! There are gains and losses, learn to give up.

It won't be your family that will accompany you through the rest of your life. It's your wife! It's normal not to be able to walk in one piece. But this reason is too objective!

Then find a way to agree, break things, it's really not good, cut first and then play! When they see their grandchildren or granddaughters, their attitudes change.

You should also understand the reasons of the family, you haven't started a business yet, there will be a lot of difficulties in starting a family, and when you get married, you will find out that it will be too late, and the family is also ahead of your time, so let's find a stable job first.

I didn't expect your baby to encounter this situation. Since you choose to love each other, you should be brave and persistent.

Family is a piece of! Do you get married or your family gets married, so what's if you don't agree!

Forced to die, or elope.

If the economy can, you can revert to the two-time system and do it yourself again.

If the economy is not very good du

Practical points are recommended. Or it's better to make a small dao travel by yourself when two people commemorate their marriage.

Nowadays, many people take wedding wine too seriously, but in fact, the important thing is that two people live a good life.

The economy is not very good, and it is more practical and happy to leave some money to live.

In addition, in fact, it is also very hidden to put wine in the countryside. The entire cheongsam and men's dress on the Internet, two people can take more photos and spend a little effort on the day, and they can also live well.

The most important thing to get married is to get the blessing of both parents, so it's also a big deal to let his mother go.

I wish you happiness!!

Because his relatives may copy more in the countryside, if it is done in a hotel, many people will not be able to participate.

Banquets in the countryside are not necessarily worse than hotels.

I'm in the same situation as you, I want to go to the hotel, and my mother will come and tell me that since I married in the countryside, don't let my first step be in conflict with his parents. Right? After all, he was born and raised.

But our banquet in the countryside is better than in the hotel, his mother made it very lively for me, there are carpets, bubble blowing machines, the hotel can have, I also have in the countryside. I was very impressed. And it's really lively. There are a lot of people coming.

A place has a local custom, and it is right to use his family's customs in his house, and it is not good to use your family's customs when you run it

You are married into his family, and you will live together in the future, and if you obey once, you will be harmonious later. You can hold a wedding wine in the countryside and invite his and your relatives. Then go to the hotel and invite your friends. In this way, the cost of inviting friends will be relatively small.

Marriage is just like this, of course, it has to be placed.

The customs in the countryside are like this, and the home is far more lively than the hotel.

In rural areas, Bai generally holds banquets at home, and of course, there are also hotels where they are held. But why.

Do they want to have an in-house banquet at home? First: Holding a banquet in Rong's house is a traditional way to get married, and it is a Chinese custom to be lively.

Second: In addition to being lively, it is also more economical to hold a banquet at home, and relatives and friends at home do not have to travel all the way to the hotel in the city. As for why his mother didn't want to hold the wedding in the hotel, you should ask the reason, the parents have the idea of the parents.

You can do it once in the man's house, and then in the woman's house, this kind of thing must not be compromised, if you really love him, then you will get married once in your life.

That's right, the man's parents. Once it is held, it is mainly for the relatives and friends of the man's parents. You can also do it yourself once against your friends. I don't need to explain the details.

- -If your family can afford it, call his family and his relatives.

Once in the countryside and once in the hotel.

It can be resolved through peaceful negotiation between the two parties, and it is convenient to be at the hotel, and it is also beneficial to be at home.

Listen to her and start having a good relationship.