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You need a glass of water, and I'll point you a river; No, it means an ocean of happiness to you!
The first thing to know is what happiness is.
About the definition of "happiness":
Happiness is a state of psychological happiness when human desires are satisfied.
Attributes: 1(human nature) that is unique to human beings
2.Happiness is idealistic (idealistic).
3.This state of mind is generally not maintained for a long time (transient)4This state of mind can be divided into common and individual (commonal)5This state of mind is related to an individual's beliefs, education, worldview, values, and outlook on life (faithfulness).
6. This state of mind has nothing to do with the amount of wealth of the individual (wealth irrelevance) 7Because human desires are endless, happiness has uncertainty (uncertainty), from which we know the three elements of happiness.
1. Desire; 2. Satisfaction; 3. Happy state.
Analyse. 1. Desires are high and cannot be satisfied, so you are unhappy or unhappy.
2. The desire is very low and easy to satisfy, so you are happy and you are happy.
Visible from the analysis.
To be a happy person is to be a person with very low desires!
Are your desires high or low? Or medium?
For example. The common hope of the people should be: food, clothing, housing, transportation, birth, old age, sickness and death without worries, if it can be satisfied, it is the common happiness of the people! (The "commonality" of happiness).
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Treat every small success as a happy experience, and encourage yourself to keep succeeding and getting a sense of happiness! In the end, maximum success = happiness.
Perseverance, I wish you happiness!
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The outlook on life determines life, and the outlook on happiness determines happiness. Happiness is not always being sought, but being experienced. Older age; I understand more; I have seen a lot through it, but I am less happy.
Sometimes, we have to keep our mouths shut, let go of our pride, and admit that we were wrong. It's not about throwing in the towel, it's about growing.
Strive to survive in the red dust, but can not care about the gains and losses, try your best in the world, but know how to let go of grievances, with a tolerant and calm, strong and open-minded heart, walk all the way to life, look down on the wind and rain, smile proud of the red dust, always enjoy the good, everywhere perceive joy and happiness, life journey, no regrets.
Face life with a smile and write life with true feelings. Sometimes it's not that I don't understand, I just don't want to understand; Sometimes it's not that I don't know, I just don't want to say it; Sometimes it's not that I don't understand, but I understand and don't know what to do, so I keep silent.
Time is just a passerby, and you are the master. Fundamentally speaking, each of us understands in our hearts that love is the main theme of life when people come to this world. Life is the process of finding love, and everyone has to find four people in their life:
First, it is oneself; second, the person you love the most; Third, the person who loves you the most; Fourth, it's the people you spend your life with.
It is better to act than to act, although action may not be successful, but if you do not act, you will definitely not succeed. Life doesn't pay you for what you want to do, it doesn't pay you for what you know, it pays you for what you do. A person's goals start from dreams, a person's happiness is grasped from the state of mind, and a person's success is achieved in action.
Throughout the ages, many people have failed not because of incompetence, but because of lack of self-confidence. Self-confidence is a kind of strength, but also a kind of motivation. When you are not confident, it is difficult for you to do things well; When you can't do anything well, you're even less confident.
It's a vicious circle. If you want to get out of this vicious circle, you have to fight against failure and build strong self-confidence.
In real life, we can't control what happens to us, but we can control our mentality; We can't change others, but we can change ourselves. In fact, there is not much difference between people, the real difference is in the mentality. Therefore, whether a person is successful or not mainly depends on his mentality.
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If you have the right outlook on life, you will have a strong sense of happiness.
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Happiness is a feeling, it does not depend on people's living conditions, but on people's state of mind, the characteristic of happiness is the peace of mind, the so-called contented people are always happy.
Happiness is the feeling that people's desires feel when they are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a spiritual pleasure. The happiness that people get is temporary, just like misfortune, and with the passage of time, the sense of happiness and unhappiness will gradually fade, so if we want to continue to have happiness and live a happy life, we must continue to satisfy more desires. After people get a happiness, then people's desire for the same or the same type of happiness will decrease, when people get this or this kind of happiness again, the happiness will gradually decrease, and when they reach enough n times, the desire will become zero, and the happiness will become zero.
When you fulfill a wish, achieve a goal, love someone, be loved, be in a momentary mood, be happy, and so on, all belong to happiness.
Happiness has no distance, no standard, happiness is a feeling. When you're satisfied, you're happy. Contentment keeps happiness fresh.
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Happiness is not defined, and being rich does not necessarily mean happiness. You just have to feel like you're happy.
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