Where is the happiness of modern people, and what kind of happiness are modern people?

You need a glass of water, and I'll point you a river; No, it means an ocean of happiness to you!

The first thing to know is what happiness is.

About the definition of "happiness":

Happiness is a state of psychological happiness when human desires are satisfied.

Attributes: 1(human nature) that is unique to human beings

2.Happiness is idealistic (idealistic).

3.This state of mind is generally not maintained for a long time (transient)4This state of mind can be divided into common and individual (commonal)5This state of mind is related to an individual's beliefs, education, worldview, values, and outlook on life (faithfulness).

6. This state of mind has nothing to do with the amount of wealth of the individual (wealth irrelevance) 7Because human desires are endless, happiness has uncertainty (uncertainty), from which we know the three elements of happiness.

1. Desire; 2. Satisfaction; 3. Happy state.

Analyse. 1. Desires are high and cannot be satisfied, so you are unhappy or unhappy.

2. The desire is very low and easy to satisfy, so you are happy and you are happy.

Visible from the analysis.

To be a happy person is to be a person with very low desires!

Are your desires high or low? Or medium?

For example. The common hope of the people should be: food, clothing, housing, transportation, birth, old age, sickness and death without worries, if it can be satisfied, it is the common happiness of the people! (The "commonality" of happiness).

In the sky, everyone has to look up. In the heart, I already have it but I don't find it.

After the epidemic relaxed, the place I wanted to go most was to stay at home. Home is my warmest harbor.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**. If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said: The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, I only think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship, and want to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight that Sakurayo feels in her heart is indescribable.

The first Chengdu.

Chengdu is a national historical and cultural city, the birthplace of ancient Shu civilization, and has been rated as the happiest city in China for 12 consecutive years. Chengdu is a slow city, always taking a better life as the source of a happy city, from the perfect combination of tradition and fashion, to the complementarity of classical and modern, all of which present a beautiful picture of Chengdu's commercial prosperity. As the most darling city among the hottest new first-tier cities today, Chengdu has been in the spotlight since the song of the same name exploded.

The second is Hangzhou.

Hangzhou is the economic, cultural, scientific and educational center of Zhejiang Province, one of the central cities of the Yangtze River Huizheng Delta, the core city of the Greater Bay Area around Hangzhou Bay, and an important international e-commerce center. Hangzhou, which is comparable to Chengdu, has a history of more than 2,200 years, and was once the capital of Wu Yue and the Southern Song Dynasty, and is also an important commercial distribution center. Because of its beautiful scenery and abundant products, it is known as the land of fish and rice, the house of silk, and the reputation of paradise on earth, and has been rated as the happiest city in China for 14 consecutive years.

The third is Ningbo.

Ningbo, a brother in the same province as Hangzhou, is indeed a big surprise to be on the list. Ningbo is located on the southeast coast, in the middle of the coastline of Chinese mainland, the southern wing of the Yangtze River Delta, with a total area of about 9,816 square kilometers. With a total population of nearly 8.5 million, its strength is quite adequate as a provincial brother who is slightly lower than Hangzhou.

Historically, Ningbo has experienced supreme prosperity, rich cultural accumulation, long history and culture, and is a typical port city in the south of the Yangtze River, as well as the eastern departure port of the ancient Maritime Silk Road.

The fourth is Guangzhou.

Guangzhou, also known as Yangcheng Flower City, is the capital of Guangdong Province and an important central city, international trade center and comprehensive transportation hub in China. Guangzhou is the largest city in South China, with a permanent population of 18 million, ranking third in the country. Guangzhou has been the starting point of China's Maritime Silk Road since ancient times, from the Qin and Han dynasties to the Ming and Qing dynasties for more than 2,000 years, and has always been an important port city in China.

With the largest science and technology business incubator cluster in South China, it is the leading city of the Pearl River Delta National Independent Innovation Demonstration Zone, and is a hot spot for investment by foreign-funded enterprises and Fortune 500 companies, and Rongchun Wheel has been awarded one of the best commercial cities in Chinese mainland by Forbes.

It's not that ** life is happy, it's a happy family, and reunion is the happiest thing.

Happiness, that's a feeling.

Happiness is the warmth of snuggling in the warm arms of your mother;

Happiness is the sweetness that rests on the broad shoulders of lovers;

Happiness is the love of touching the delicate ** of children;

Happiness is the respect for the vicissitudes of life on the faces of parents.

What is happiness?

Happiness is a mystery, if you ask a thousand people to come, there will be a thousand answers.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.