What is love? Solve what love really is

Updated on psychology 2024-07-26
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You need a glass of water, and I'll point you a river; No, it means an ocean of happiness to you!

    The first thing to know is what happiness is.

    About the definition of "happiness":

    Happiness is a state of psychological happiness when human desires are satisfied.

    Attributes: 1(human nature) that is unique to human beings

    2.Happiness is idealistic (idealistic).

    3.This state of mind is generally not maintained for a long time (transient)4This state of mind can be divided into common and individual (commonal)5This state of mind is related to an individual's beliefs, education, worldview, values, and outlook on life (faithfulness).

    6. This state of mind has nothing to do with the amount of wealth of the individual (wealth irrelevance) 7Because human desires are endless, happiness has uncertainty (uncertainty), from which we know the three elements of happiness.

    1. Desire; 2. Satisfaction; 3. Happy state.

    Analyse. 1. Desires are high and cannot be satisfied, so you are unhappy or unhappy.

    2. The desire is very low and easy to satisfy, so you are happy and you are happy.

    Visible from the analysis.

    To be a happy person is to be a person with very low desires!

    Are your desires high or low? Or medium?

    For example. The common hope of the people should be: food, clothing, housing, transportation, birth, old age, sickness and death without worries, if it can be satisfied, it is the common happiness of the people! (The "commonality" of happiness).

    Secondly, love is when you help someone to fulfill (satisfy) their ideals (desires) and make others feel happy and happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Feeling true love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but a mutual fit in the hearts of people who love each other.

    It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

    This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is having everything...

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    When you let go, bless well....

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is pleasant, sad, intoxicated, emotional, brave, trusting, sincere, considerate, lovesick, nostalgic, sweet, alcoholic, sweet, intoxicated, happy, sacrificial, noble, dedicated, and responsible. What is Love? Love is when you think of this person, you will wish her happiness and peace, you will want to be with her forever, when you have to leave, what do you want to leave for her.

    Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in her hand but can't read it, thinking about whether she has dinner at this time, whether she thinks about herself as much as herself. Love is, on the weekend, use half a day to make a few good dishes by yourself, and watch her (her) eat them satisfactorily; It is to constantly refill her (her) coffee cup with hot water in the cold winter; Love is to see flowers, want to enjoy with her or her, love is to walk through the cliff and waterside, you will think with a little regret: if two people travel together, what a happy thing!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is to care, care, considerate, and understand with the heart. Its taste is sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, but in the end, the harvest is still sweet.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is deeply liked!I have an emotional dependence on each other!I will pay attention to each other's actions and care about each other's feelings!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is in your heart.

    It's what you think it is.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let me tell you.

    You ask me how much I love you, how much I love you...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is endurance and kindness.

    Love is not envy, love is not boasting, it is not arrogant, it does not do anything shy, it does not seek its own good, it does not anger easily, it does not count the evils of men.

    Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What is love? It is the waiting for thousands of years of unchanged sincerity, the contract of life and death, and the eternal agreement with Zichengyue.

    What is love? Such as the sadness and helplessness of Lu You and Tang Wan's "The Phoenix".Is it the sincere love of Shakespeare's "Romeo and Juliet"?It is the god of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl staring at each other from a distant margin

    Love is happiness. Love, is great. Love to lead a group, is selfish and socks. Love is a painful ......

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When love comes, it will feel very sweet, sweeter than honey;

    But when love is far away from you, it will make you feel painful.

    Even so, you won't regret that you once loved, because love has brought you a special sense of happiness.

    Love is blissful, yet it is also painful.

    Real dedication is a true heart, and your sincerity is better than anything else.

    True love is sincerity, and true love for someone is not to hope that he will live a happy and happy life.

    But the one who gives him happiness and joy does not necessarily have to be given to him himself.

    It can be anyone, as long as he is happy, and it is enough to live a happy life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love is like a mystery, and even the smartest people in the world will not know its answer.

    Love is a thing that can only be followed, because no one can really control love, in love, there is no equality, not how much you give will get as much as you give, love, unspeakable things

    Even if two people who originally loved each other no longer love each other, the taste of love will not change with the passage of time, because we are happy at that time, and the moment of happiness will always remain in the deepest part of people's hearts Love is a feeling, love is an experience, even if the heart is broken, you will feel happy!

    Love is an experience that feels beautiful even when broken!

    So tell yourself that even a moth to a fire is a beauty!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is the result of each other's efforts to each other.

    Love is the hardest thing to find in the world.

    Love is a thing that sustains the psyche.

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