Why didn t he take me to meet my parents?

My boyfriend my mom met, although they didn't meet officially, but my mom saw me when he called me downstairs at my house I actually wanted to take him to meet my parents, but he didn't take me to meet his parents, I didn't feel right to take him home first, after all, it was my girl

A boy is sensible about his feelings, in other words, he is not as impulsive as a girl, and if he feels that the time is right, he will definitely take you to meet him

Maybe he's a very independent person, and he thinks he likes it, but it's hard to say that he doesn't need to take you to see him right now

Hehe, classmates know that you are too young when they see your doubts. Actually, you're wrong. Everyone wants the person they love to love themselves as they love him, and will always hope that the other person's thoughts and actions can be like what they think, and if they don't, it's as if the other person doesn't love them.

In fact, these ideas are wrong. Everyone has different ideas, opinions, and ways of expressing love. Think about it, doesn't it prove that I don't love you enough if I don't take you home?

Oh my God, then it can only be said that your love is not mature enough, or he is not ready to take you home now. It is important to know that objective reasons are important. So, don't overthink it.

You can't ask him to think the same as you, can you?

It's your time that's too short, it's only four months, take your time ...

It's only been four months, what are you anxious about? Besides, even if you see it, what can it mean? Some people haven't seen their parents in four years!

It's possible that I don't love you very much, men are like this, if they really love you, they would have married you a long time ago.

It's been too early, it's only been four months.

It's still relatively normal, probably because he currently feels that the relationship between the two of you is not very stable, so he is reluctant to take you to meet your parents at this time.

It's not normal, the other party may be a sea king, or it may be using you as a spare tire, in this case, you must make it clear in time, so as to avoid misunderstandings.

Abnormal. It shows that the other party only wants to fall in love with him, and has never wanted to marry him, and he may really not be the ideal type of the other party.

1. He is not sure about your feelings.

You're hesitant about the relationship, unsure if you have a future with him. This attitude makes him insecure, and although he is still persistent, he will constantly test you until he is sure that you are trying to develop a long-term relationship.

After all, for men, bringing their girlfriends to meet their parents is a very important thing in life. Therefore, before taking you to your parents, he needs to make sure that you are in line with his feelings.

2. The relationship is not optimistic.

If your relationship is sunny for a week and cloudy for a week, it means that the relationship is cloudy and may not stand the test of time.

Or you are always separated and combined, and he feels that it is difficult to maintain a relationship, and there are too many unknown factors. So he didn't dare to take you to meet your parents, for fear that one day he would break up and not be able to explain to his parents.

Therefore, make an effort to stabilize your relationship and change the way you communicate and get along. When you have fewer quarrels and more happy times, he will be more willing to introduce you to your parents.

3. He is afraid that you will change.

If he is a person who will only bring serious women home to meet his parents, he will be more cautious about introducing you to his parents, especially if he notices a change in your attitude.

For a woman, meeting her parents is an important milestone in the relationship, which may lead to the idea that she will soon enter the palace of marriage.

From this point of view, taking you to meet your parents means a change in identity, and there may be a change in your attitude.

You will become taken for granted, or you will become unscrupulous. Therefore, he will postpone taking you to meet your parents until he thinks that your relationship is strong and your attitude towards him will not change.

4. His parents didn't know that he was starting a new relationship.

There is a situation where parents like his ex-girlfriend very much and even develop deep feelings. If your boyfriend's parents are still missing his ex-girlfriend, it's certainly not the best time to introduce you.

But he has you now, so sooner or later they will forget about the existence of their ex-girlfriend. But your boyfriend may prefer to wait for them to get rid of their past and get rid of their attachment to their ex-girlfriend before introducing you to them.

5. He hasn't met your parents yet.

If he hasn't met your parents yet, he may expect you to bring up to meet them first.

Feelings are two-way, so it's best to take the initiative to take action when it comes to meeting parents.

Have a serious conversation with him and tell him that you are going to take him home to meet his parents. Perhaps, he is waiting for you to take the first step.

6. He plans to break up with you.

The saddest thing in the relationship is that one is planning the future, and the other is planning to break up. Probably he was already planning a breakup a few months ago and was just waiting for a suitable moment and then bringing it up.

It could be after a birthday, or it could be before Christmas. It sounds scheming, but it's very common.

If you find that he is now having less and less to say and less time to spend with you, then he may have such intentions.

As a result, it may be a good thing for you not to see your parents.

On this issue, I don't think it's good news, I don't want to take you to meet your parents, then there must be a reason, you'd better figure out what the reason is, if you don't want to meet, then I think, for the future, the two of you will not be happy together, anyway, I think you should be mentally prepared early. In most cases, they are willing to meet their parents, especially boys, who are willing to bring girls to meet their parents. But I feel that some people don't want to meet their parents now, don't they want to get married?

So if he doesn't want to get married, if you want to get married, then this is a comparison. Anyway, one of the things I want to learn is that boys and girls should be honest with each other, especially when it comes to the issue of marriage. If he doesn't want to get married now, then he doesn't want to take you to meet your parents now, then it may not agree with you.

So in terms of this question, I think you should think about it and see if this guy is really suitable for you and so on. Well, after all, that's the case, and in most cases, if you want to meet your parents, you can see them at that time, so I don't think there's too much of a problem. I've taken my girlfriend to meet my parents before, and I don't think there's a problem, but if this boy doesn't want to take you to meet your parents, then there must be some reason, and it's better to figure out the reason and see what the reason is.

In this case, then it is the best, so if you talk about this situation, you better check it first and ask first. If you can ask clearly, that's the best.

Sometimes the relationship has to talk about fate, and this fate is something that can be met but not sought, so I think it's better to think about what causes it first. After all, you have been on this emotional path for a while, and you also have feelings between you, and in such a situation, you may be able to succeed. So that's the way it is when it comes to emotional matters.

Be clear about your place in his heart. Generally, men and women will meet their parents after half a year or more, and no matter how good the relationship between the two people is, they must have the blessing of both parents, so that they can go further. After the relationship is determined, if two people want to be together forever, they will meet their parents, and if the boyfriend is unwilling to take him to see his parents, then it can only mean that his status in his mind is not very important, at least when you want to see his parents and he does not react or disagree, you will know your position in his heart, which needs to be clear to yourself.

Keep a good attitude. You may know that when you are not in a high position in your boyfriend's heart, it is difficult for every girl's heart to collapse and be unhappy, but you must also adjust your mentality, don't let yourself be immersed in underestimation all the time, and don't think cranky, his disagreement may have his reasons, these you better not think about it without knowing it, and at the same time keep your own mentality, don't think too much. The right way to deal with it is to explore the future with your boyfriend, make future plans for the two of you, reach communication agreements many times, and make substantial efforts on the issues that have been identified.

Wait patiently for him. If your boyfriend loves you and thinks about you in many ways, and he doesn't take you to see his parents because he needs time to buffer because of some problems in his own family or his own, then as his girlfriend you should give him enough time to get ready to meet his parents with him later. Every man has his own side that he doesn't want to say, give him time, and he will understand you better.

Which city to live in after marriage, how much effort it takes to achieve this goal, and how much support everyone needs to contribute to this goal. When the future is no longer ambiguous, your boyfriend will be more confident in taking you home to meet adults, and will not repeatedly suspect that you are with someone who wasted his youth. The above is mine, I hope to provide some help to those in need.

If he doesn't want to, it means that he is not sure whether he will go to the end with you, and it is possible that he doesn't like you that much, so don't be stupid, stop the loss in time, and love the person who deserves it.

If he is not willing to take you to meet your parents, then you can take the initiative to ask to meet your parents, and if he still refuses, you must ask him why he is unwilling.

If he doesn't want to take you to meet your parents, you can offer to meet your parents, and if he doesn't want to, ask him what is the reason for his reluctance.

Then break up, the twisted melon can't be sweet.

He doesn't want to take me to meet my parents, isn't that enough to love me? Men are always straightforward and don't understand the twists and turns in women's heads. In fact, it is because men don't want to see women seriously.

Actually, she's thinking about something, as long as you know what she's thinking. I was not afraid of confession and was rejected. When you suddenly say something while chatting, he gets angry.

You don't know why she's angry, how to coax him, how to coax. So men choose to be silent at this time, or think that women are unreasonable.

He didn't understand why the woman was angry and didn't know how to deal with the situation. After a long time, it will be especially difficult for women to get along. In the process of daily communication, you will find that women always ask for your opinion.

She will ask what you want to eat, what you want to go, or what style of clothes she prefers, including buying her own things. In fact, at this time, she just wants to be the most beautiful person in your heart, but if the man is perfunctory and makes random suggestions, the woman will be very angry.

Yours will make women think that you are perfunctory and casual. She came to ask for your opinion because she didn't decide on her own, but she thought it didn't matter and was still distressed. At the same time, it shows her trust in you to a certain extent, but if you don't make effective suggestions, she will feel that your attitude is not serious.

So it's normal to be angry.

The right way to deal with it is to explore the future with your boyfriend, make a common future plan for the two people, reach a communication agreement many times, and make substantial efforts on the identified issues. Which city to settle in after getting married, how much you need to fight to achieve this goal, how much support you need to contribute to this goal, etc. When the future is no longer ambiguous, your boyfriend will be more confident in taking you home to meet adults and will not repeatedly suspect that you are with someone who wasted his youth.

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It's not that he doesn't love you, but he feels that the time has not yet come, and his family is not ready to see his daughter-in-law, and he needs to be appropriately graced for a period of time.

No, it may be because he feels that the relationship between the two of you is not very stable now, so he is not willing to meet his parents too early.

It's not that he doesn't love you enough, maybe he thinks that your relationship hasn't reached the point where he wants to get married, so he is reluctant to take you to meet your parents.

I don't think I love you enough, because if a man really loves a woman, he will take her home to meet his parents.

Summary. The family does not let me see the other party's parents, kiss hello, maybe the woman's parents feel that the reception of their daughter's boyfriend at home is too shabby, too informal, so they want to meet in the hotel, so that they attach importance to you, you have to understand the woman's parents' minds, don't have any ideas, when you meet, you have to behave well, speak civilized and polite, stand and sit, pay attention to speech and behavior, so that the woman's parents can be satisfied with you.

The family does not let me see the other party's parents, kiss hello, maybe the woman's parents feel that the reception of their daughter's boyfriend at home is too shabby, too informal, so they want to meet in the hotel, so that they attach importance to you, you have to understand the woman's parents' minds, don't have any ideas, when you meet, you have to behave well, speak civilized and polite, stand and sit, pay attention to speech and behavior, so that the woman's parents can be satisfied with you.

Hello kiss, the first time I saw the woman's parents and didn't let me go to the house, then maybe the other party thought about it more, and I didn't want to let me go to the house, so it doesn't matter, whether I have to go sooner or later, it doesn't matter, we just said whether to go to the house or not, and then you can have a meal outside, and then we boys are more cautious in this regard, and you just say that you can go to the house next time, isn't it?

Hello dear kiss, the woman's family does not agree with the man and still wants to meet the parents, so you have to think of a strategy. You have to give the girl more small gifts, usually care more about her, play more, often date the woman, invite him to dinner, and let the woman feel your sincerity. Let the woman accept you, she will say good things about you in front of her parents, and then you can go with the flow to meet the woman's parents.

We're in my third year now, it's been more than three years, he's studying abroad, and now he's going home, and I'll go back after the New Year, and this year he wants to take me to meet his family, and they always call me, but our family thinks I'm still in school, and it's not appropriate to meet now, but I want to meet and see.

It's too early to talk about marriage, and I haven't graduated yet.

That is, to go to his house to have a meal for a while, not to say that it is very formal.

Kiss hello, okay, kiss I understand what you mean kiss, then you choose to graduate and talk about marriage, kiss You can first make it clear to the other party's family <>

<> kiss, it is also correct to talk about marriage after graduation, so as not to delay your studies.

I don't want to talk about marriage when I go to their house now.

You're not a real person.

Kiss hello, okay kiss, kiss I understand what you mean kiss, go to his house does not mean talk about marriage, I know what you mean, kiss.

Hello kiss, usually eat and talk very well, kiss.

But my family doesn't think it's right now, but I still want to go.

Kiss hello, okay oh kiss I understand what you mean kiss, why do you want to go You didn't say that you were going to talk about marriage in the future You are not suitable to go now.