When menopause vs adolescence triggers Shmo?

Quarrel. Rebel.

Running away from home. I've done it anyway, hehe.

Quarrels, endless quarrels

I think my mom and I were like this back then, and there was hardly a day when we didn't quarrel.

Hello do it yourself

God, save me!

Because I was the second oldest in my family, I also happened to have my mom's menopause when I was in adolescence.

My mom didn't help me write my homework after the third grade of elementary school. After that, he became more and more Buddhist, and he didn't care much about me. Later, when I was in junior high school, my mother became the kind of social person who didn't talk much.

My mom and my brother were out of town in high school, so they didn't get involved in my business.

The most fierce thing in my impression is that in junior high school, she forgot to bring the key when she went out by herself, and I came back late when I went out to play, and she was waiting for me at the door of the house. Seeing me, he slapped me on the back and almost suffered an internal injury, and the slap didn't ease for a long time. When I was a child, I smashed someone else's water meter because of my playfulness, and then lost money, and I was nervous that afternoon, waiting for a beating in the evening, and it turned out that my mother would never let me down.

By the time I was in high school and college. My mother gradually stopped caring about my business, occasionally asking me if I had anything to tell her. I could clearly feel that she was not as strong as before, and she was indeed much gentle.

Yes, she is getting old, she is starting to be afraid that I will be called my grandmother when I walk with her, she will be afraid that I will feel ashamed when I tell others that she is my mother, she is afraid that others will notice the gray hair on her head and the wrinkles on her face, and she is also afraid of being told that she has a bloated figure.

Me, of course I like all the way she looks, the way she looks when she was young, the way her hair is starting to turn gray, the way she is out of shape, the way she gets angry and angry, the way she talks softly. Sometimes I will notice and do my best to give her a sense of security, I will praise her for her thin legs, I will generously introduce me to others as my best mother, sometimes I will stick to her like a child, complain to her that the mosquito has bitten me again today, and I will go to her room before going to bed for a while.

She grew up with me, and I witnessed her aging at the fastest stage. I'm glad I have such a mother, willing to give me everything she can give, when my mother is here, it's really very happy, even if you sit together, you will feel like you have the whole world.

God can't be everywhere, so Mother was created.

People are middle-aged, old and young, and adolescence and menopause often meet unexpectedly, causing many family conflicts. In fact, with the right approach, even if adolescence collides with menopause, it can create a harmonious family atmosphere.

Adolescent children, rebellion is synonymous with them, parents say to the east, he prefers to go west, and opposes the parents everywhere. Menopausal women are particularly irritable, and a trivial matter can lead to a family war. When adolescence collides with menopause, soothing both emotions is key.

In addition, you can also do some homework on diet and health care.

In terms of soothing emotions, whether it is adolescence or menopause, you can use some self-psychological ** to control your emotions.

In psychology, there are many methods in this regard, such as psychological suggestion, goal transfer, thought exchange, and motor release. These methods either use self-psychological suggestion, or transfer the object of emotional venting, or let emotions have a reasonable vent through communication and exercise. In short, no matter which method it is, the core is to channel the gathering point of emotions, so that the generation of emotions is calm, and the venting is more reasonable, so as to reduce the production of family conflicts.

Bear. Secondly, in terms of diet, adolescent children and menopausal mothers should pay attention to eating more light, easy-to-digest food, and eat more fruits and green leafy vegetables. These foods are rich in nutrients and have a large number of trace elements, which on the one hand can reduce the content of substances that cause irritability in the brain, on the other hand, they can give children and mothers a good mood and create a good family atmosphere.

Finally, when adolescence collides with menopause, reasonable and scientific health care is also important. For mothers, you can take more health products that help calm your mind and calm your qi, and you can also take some Chinese patent medicines to reasonably regulate your endocrine system and help your mother get through menopause safely.

This is God's arrangement, there is no way, everybody.