What if you have a colleague who has been in love for a long time, but you don t dare to say it?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-10
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Be brave enough to speak up, but be tactful, give yourself a way out, and an unsuccessful confession will not cause embarrassment between you.

    Men and women match, work without getting tired. Male and female colleagues work together, the same sex repels each other, the opposite sex attracts, and if there is an intersection in love, it is easy to fall in love for a long time, and love is born forever. If there is no intersection, and competition in the face of interests, rights, fame and fortune does not give in to each other, then it may be hated for a long time.

    The relationship between people is intricate, male and female colleagues, if there is an intersection of fate, the days go by, the development process from strange to acquaintance, from acquaintance to familiarity, from familiarity to acquaintance, from acquaintance to acquaintance, from acquaintance to love. The two of them hit it off at first sight, hated each other late, exchanged words, shared similar interests, worked together tacitly, and were very efficient.

    The man is as kind as a brother, there is no idea of injustice, indecent behavior, and the woman should be relaxed from the initial defense and vigilance, and have a sense of psychological dependence and security. The affection between male and female colleagues arises spontaneously, and it is as if it were every three autumns.

    Male and female colleagues due to long-term work together, close to each other for a long time, will find each other intimate, this is men and women get along with each other will secrete hormones, this hormone brings a strong attraction continues to have a strong effect, mutual goodwill to produce qualitative changes, male and female colleagues from the psychology and behavior will also affect each other, resonance and dependence, share joy and sorrow.

    People are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless, so it is easy for male and female colleagues to develop affection for a long time from psychological dependence and physical needs.

    As the saying goes, "love grows over time", and it is indeed natural for a young man and woman in an office to get along day and night in frequent contact with each other.

    Secondly, modern young people are under a lot of pressure, except for work, they rarely have time to expand their social range, and if they want to find a good relationship on the bus to and from work, the probability is basically zero, so finding their other half in the office has become the most realistic way.

    Another reason that cannot be ignored is that many young people in the workplace are the first generation of only children in China, most of them are single, there are few acquaintances, and there are no relatives and friends to help introduce objects.

    Office romance is a sensitive topic, but it's also a maelstrom that some young office workers can't escape from. In this small world, colleagues of the opposite sex of the same age get along day and night, and the topics of exchange are everything from work to life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You first figure out this colleague's marriage and love situation, if you are unmarried and have no love object and favorite person, you can start bravely, love is earned by yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you like it, you have to be brave to say it, otherwise you will regret it very much when you miss it, don't have any worries, and be brave to express your feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can often ask out for dinner and jokingly explain that she reacts to the way you behave, and if she doesn't feel repulsive, you gradually increase the time you dating.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can first find opportunities to contact him more at work, test what he means, and if you feel that he also means this, you might as well say it first.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then you need to be brave, find a time to ask the other person to watch a movie, eat, drink milk tea, and then say what you think, because if you don't say it, you may miss it for a lifetime.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Be brave! You don't say he never knows, and when the opportunity comes, you'll miss it. There is a good saying, the mind cannot be transmitted, and no matter how much the heart has, it is just the self-inflicted sentimentality of both parties.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell yourself to be bold, and if you don't dare to say it, you will only miss each other, and you will not have any chance to meet again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Be brave, since it is a long-term relationship, it must be that both of you have this meaning to each other, and at this time, only one person needs to take the initiative to poke open this layer of window paper first.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then you can ask other colleagues for help, and ask other colleagues to help you ask about the situation and see if they are interesting to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are both single, then you should take the initiative, because now love is not what it used to be, and if you don't take the initiative, you will only be snatched away.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Either give up or just say it. Happiness is something to be fought for.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have to prepare three things; Bold, careful, and thick-skinned! To be bold is to take the initiative, if you like a girl, you have to confess to her, don't be shy, otherwise you will regret losing the opportunity. Careful is to know how to observe carefully, understand what your favorite girl likes and what she doesn't like, be a caring person in the process of dating, always care about her, ask for warmth, and let girls feel that you are very considerate.

    Thick-skinned means that if you are rejected by a girl, don't be discouraged, and immediately regroup and enter a new battle.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Take your courage and express it to her. Love needs to be spoken out loud.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be brave, if you don't say it, someone else will say it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Building you can drink a little and be brave!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love requires courage.

    If you love it, you will confess it loudly, you may not succeed if you say it, but if you don't say it, you will definitely not succeed. Try to show your talent and your concern for you, I believe that one day they will be attracted by your talent, concerned and moved, so that they will naturally fall in love with you, have self-confidence, use their own words and actions to express your love at the same time, and believe that the other party will accept you.

    Actually, there is no need to say it! You can prove it with your actions. When you feel a little bit reflected!

    It's not too late to tell! ~!Think carefully for yourself!

    Loving someone doesn't need anything in return!

    Don't miss it! Once the opportunity is missed, it will be difficult next time. Remember that only you are waiting for the opportunity, the opportunity will not wait for you, take advantage of it! His heart is also fleshy.

    As long as you have the patience to move slowly, one day they will make another choice, persistence is victory.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by it, worried about it, I hope you can see it every minute, you will think about it all the time when you can't see it, you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, and you will be willing to take care of it and care for it, give it everything you want, When you see your loved one happy, you will be happy, and when you see him troubled, you will also be troubled, but you will want to do your best.

    Find a way to make the person you love happy, a person who really loves you will want to grow old with him, and he will be in love with him, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him the greatest happiness, and you will also get another happiness in this process!

    I often think of TA and I am happy, I mind TA very much, I care about TA very much, without TA it seems to have lost something, with TA I have happiness!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1.Speak up, because if you don't even have the faith to say love, how can you give her happiness?

    2.Ask a friend to tell you, and there will be less embarrassment.

    3.Give some small gifts with special meaning to indirectly euphemize your meaning4Pick April Fool's Day to say.

    5.Playing a game of hide and seek, you hide from him, and when he finds you, you ask him: Are you so eager to find me, do you like me?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Say boldly, don't wait for no chance in the future, you have to take advantage of the opportunity, don't be afraid, don't say sorry, if you keep being embarrassed like this, then when do you have to wait, you have to close the distance and then speak, don't wait for regrets later, there is no regret medicine in the world.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First determine whether this is love, and then think about your environment and whether he or she should be together. Then ask yourself if he or she also has a good opinion of you. The final decision is made! To say it or not to say it. Bless you!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As long as you don't regret it, then don't say it. said that there was still a chance, but if she didn't say it, she could only watch her being snatched away by other boys.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's good to keep it in your heart, there's no need to say it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Crush, in fact, is also a kind of liking!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Sister Khan Cui metoo, but I don't dare to say it, in fact, liking a person doesn't necessarily have to be with him, sometimes, caring for him, taking care of, and helping him is also a way to like him! I've been in love for a long time, hehe, sometimes I don't even dare to speak, but today I talked to him, yes, really, cheer for yourself, Sister Cui also cheers! Who do you like? Ha ha!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If it's a classmate or colleague, don't say it, how embarrassing it would be if you were rejected.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You have to have the courage to say it, or you'll regret it, and you can't let it go, don't have so many concerns.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No one can help you, only you have the courage to confess to the person you like, and she won't eat you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    How do you know if you don't try? Don't leave yourself with regrets.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I am also a fallen person at the end of the world, and I am the same

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