Men must have been hurt in love before they know how to love, and men will only cherish after they h

Wrong, wrong idea! Men and women, if they don't work hard, they won't cherish anything or anything!

Fable when I was a child: The father asked his son to earn money, and the son took it back several times, and he didn't feel it when his father threw it into the fire, and the last time, when his father threw it into the fire, he burned his hand regardless of the fire just for the copper plate, because it was his hard-earned money.

People are growing, not that we have to go through it, because when we grow up, we want to test all the problems, when I was a child, adults always said that this can't be done, that can't be touched, but we will still touch the ground, so we will get hurt. People are very curious, there are ancient precepts, there are typical examples, but we don't refer to or learn lessons, when we grow up, we just try not to make the same mistake in the future life. But many people will go down the wrong path again and again, there will be successes and failures.

Everyone's outlook on life and values are different, and everyone's satisfaction is different, so everyone's tolerance is different.

If you look at the things around you as an outsider now, and you have seen too much and you have some insights and summed up your experience, but what happened at this time is something that you have seen and known the results, but you have to try it anyway, do you not do it because you are afraid of getting hurt? Why does the teacher let me write what I feel after reading books and watching movies, life is to come out and see more and experience and understand.

Don't be afraid of being hurt, walking and falling is also an injury, being beaten by others is also an injury, people are constantly injured all their lives, joy, anger and sorrow are necessary in life.

Love is not the whole of life, just a part of it, we have a lot of hardships in other things, naturally we will be cautious in dealing with love, if you contact love too early, you have not experienced other feelings, then it is inevitable when you are hurt.

Of course, if you don't study hard, how can you understand? As the saying goes: live to be old, learn to be old.

Could it be that men are born to understand love? Born to cherish? Not to mention a man, even if it is a woman, she has to go through certain things to understand!

I don't believe that so many men and women are born to know how to love! I hope you don't worry about this anymore. Everything is fateful, there is a fate, there is a fate, there is a fate, there is a fate, there ......is a fate, thereThank you.

Some boys don't know how to cherish and love after they lose, and some don't, girls take advantage of it themselves.

Not only men, but also women are the same, and this is called growth. When we were young, we had to fall to know what the posture of walking should be. Isn't it?

Men in love may still cherish new feelings, because people's personalities are different, and everyone treats love differently.

So I think the so-called scumbags in the current population, they have also been single-minded in their feelings, because they have been frustrated in love, so they will not invest too much in every relationshipTreat every relationship like a joke, so they have also become a representative of unfaithfulness to love.

Therefore, I think that when each of us chooses each other, we should get along for a long time and then give ourselves to each other, especially marriage, because everyone will disguise their own shortcomings in the early stage of getting along, whether men and women are the same, as the so-called road knows the horsepower for a long time, the longer you get along, the deeper you understand each other, so that the marriage of two people will be more long.

As a girl, you should be even more so, don't casually drag yourself completely to the other partyThis is also a manifestation of irresponsibility to yourself, if the other party is just playing with you mentality, then the last hurt is still yourself, in this regard, boys have never suffered such a loss, so as a girl, don't casually believe any promises made by men.

Being hurt in love is a certain existence, and in the process of being hurt again and again, it also makes us learn how to deal with it and learn to grow, so there is sometimes a good side to the setbacks in love, no matter how many setbacks you experience, you must pay wholeheartedly for the next paragraph, because you don't know which one is your destined relationship.

It can't be generalized, some will know how to cherish it more, and some will not believe in love.

In fact, for those who have been hurt, it is not necessarily said that they will know how to cherish it.

I feel like they should be able to cherish new feelings because they are afraid of losing them again.

They will definitely cherish their new feelings because they are afraid of losing.

Of course, I will know how to cherish it, and it is precisely because I have been injured that I am more willing to cherish it.

I don't think so, they're going to be scummy because of it.

Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with a person, you don't tell the branch to care about the romance of love and a variety of love ways, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because when you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long!

Love someone: trust each other, love someone to understand each other.

Love someone: Be tolerant with a lot of heart.

Love someone: Be open-minded.

Love someone: Respect the other person's ideas and opinions.

Love someone: Support him or her behind his or her back, not hinder him/her.

Love someone: When he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

Love someone: Hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know.

Love someone:...Too much love.

Maybe it's hard, can't it be done? It's not that hard.

The most important point is:

Love should have no socks reputation and no regrets, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing.

Because the tease is after being hurt.

The heart will hurt so much.

Only then did I realize that I was really late in my heart.

You will find that it is true love

True love can happen anytime, anywhere....But after the injury, I understand it more thoroughly...But not necessarily Xing's Qinfu... The people after the injured rock core experience are a little more suspicious of true love...Sometimes I can't believe it anymore...Unhealed wounds are always a reminder...Maybe it's another trap of reincarnation... If you have love, cherish it....True love is when two people are together....Fortunately, I searched for blessings....Happily ever after....